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Wow this is so strange. I just went through something kind of similar except he wasn’t physically cheating on me but he was exchanging nudes and flirting and on a dating site (the one we met on) and was going back and forth via text with one girl for a year and I literally found out two days before our anniversary (today). We don’t have children but I’m newly pregnant with our first child….. when I posted in here everyone told me to collect all the evidence and get a divorce but I can’t do that. I don’t want to do that. I love him too much and don’t want to be with anyone else. And I also know that despite everything, he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. But I totally get what you are going through and it’s such a hard position to be in. It hurts like all hell. You have to be honest with yourself, is this something you think you can live with. Only you can make that decision. Only you know the truth of your relationship and what you mean to one another. 22 years and 5 children together is an entire lifetime that you would be putting behind you. I’m sure you are questioning your self-respect (I know I was/am) but it’s not necessarily about that. It’s about your life with him up until this point and how it would change moving forward. Is that a life that you can live?
this actually makes sense, he said he's gonna continue his study at uni in my state which it's possible for us to meet. but for now, yeah, maybe i just love the idea of him. do you have any idea what step i should take?
I opened this expecting that you took a few hours to respond OR that you took a few days to respond to a text that didn’t seem that important, and perhaps an age or personality difference was at play. The last is kind of true but the rest isn’t.
You took two days to respond to something that she made clear was important to her. First, she said she needed to talk, which indicates it’s something weighing on her that she feels is important. Second, the particular topic she brought up is related to relationship expectations/dynamic – something serious and not like, light or undefined.
Taking a few hours is one thing. Taking more if the topic seems mundane can be passable though it would irk some people (this is where she and personality can play in). Taking days over something obviously important/serious/relationship centric sends a message that you are not taking her or her concerns seriously (or worse, gives the impression that her worries are accurate). She was probably anxious about your response and lack of one the entire time you didn’t bother to respond.
She didn’t dump you over being too late in responding. She dumped you for being negligent of her concerns. It would not have killed you to just be like “I would rather discuss this more when we see each other and am busy the next couple days, but I am interested in you beyond just sex.”
Without sounding too insensitive to your family's cultural or religious beliefs, this is not the way the rest of the western world lives. Get out now before you waste your life.
Always put yourself first here. This is your body, your future. He doesn't sound like someone you want to be tied to forever. Get the abortion. Say whatever you need to say to get away from him safe.
sorry to hear you're a former addict. I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16 but you can't post here as minors so yes i lied about that. i just want advice cause i don't know what to do. I'm genuinely in a horrible situation and scared. this may be rude to ask but since you're a former addict you could even have the best advice for me out of everyone.
Wow this is so strange. I just went through something kind of similar except he wasn’t physically cheating on me but he was exchanging nudes and flirting and on a dating site (the one we met on) and was going back and forth via text with one girl for a year and I literally found out two days before our anniversary (today). We don’t have children but I’m newly pregnant with our first child….. when I posted in here everyone told me to collect all the evidence and get a divorce but I can’t do that. I don’t want to do that. I love him too much and don’t want to be with anyone else. And I also know that despite everything, he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. But I totally get what you are going through and it’s such a hard position to be in. It hurts like all hell. You have to be honest with yourself, is this something you think you can live with. Only you can make that decision. Only you know the truth of your relationship and what you mean to one another. 22 years and 5 children together is an entire lifetime that you would be putting behind you. I’m sure you are questioning your self-respect (I know I was/am) but it’s not necessarily about that. It’s about your life with him up until this point and how it would change moving forward. Is that a life that you can live?
this actually makes sense, he said he's gonna continue his study at uni in my state which it's possible for us to meet. but for now, yeah, maybe i just love the idea of him. do you have any idea what step i should take?
I opened this expecting that you took a few hours to respond OR that you took a few days to respond to a text that didn’t seem that important, and perhaps an age or personality difference was at play. The last is kind of true but the rest isn’t.
You took two days to respond to something that she made clear was important to her. First, she said she needed to talk, which indicates it’s something weighing on her that she feels is important. Second, the particular topic she brought up is related to relationship expectations/dynamic – something serious and not like, light or undefined.
Taking a few hours is one thing. Taking more if the topic seems mundane can be passable though it would irk some people (this is where she and personality can play in). Taking days over something obviously important/serious/relationship centric sends a message that you are not taking her or her concerns seriously (or worse, gives the impression that her worries are accurate). She was probably anxious about your response and lack of one the entire time you didn’t bother to respond.
She didn’t dump you over being too late in responding. She dumped you for being negligent of her concerns. It would not have killed you to just be like “I would rather discuss this more when we see each other and am busy the next couple days, but I am interested in you beyond just sex.”
Without sounding too insensitive to your family's cultural or religious beliefs, this is not the way the rest of the western world lives. Get out now before you waste your life.
think i’m gonna do the same thing to her but while she’s stuck here. never have even thought about it but now i want her to see how i feel
Yep. There it is. So many people are brushing this part off.
“I still don't believe it was sexual assault like most of you say”
It very clearly is sexual assault. Play the gender-reversal exercise with this story if any of you are having trouble seeing this.
Better to throw 5 years down the drain than over a decade and kids and a mortgage.
I would absolutely not give my abusive and neglectful mother my eggs to create a baby regardless of her age. You made the right call
Always put yourself first here. This is your body, your future. He doesn't sound like someone you want to be tied to forever. Get the abortion. Say whatever you need to say to get away from him safe.
Then never believe a “pull out” guy again.
Thank you.
What do I do?
Either find some self respect or continue to enjoy being his meat flashlight on a call.
Dude. Don’t be a tool. And don’t talk down to women.
sorry to hear you're a former addict. I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16 but you can't post here as minors so yes i lied about that. i just want advice cause i don't know what to do. I'm genuinely in a horrible situation and scared. this may be rude to ask but since you're a former addict you could even have the best advice for me out of everyone.