Have you ever talked to a counselor? That's no way to go through life. First of all if someone is going to cheat it can happen at any time. Doesn't have to be at a party. He's with you!! Doing things without your partner sometimes is a good thing, gives you something to talk about. If he treats you well enjoy it. Go with it. Sounds like you're creating problems in your head that are not there. You may be your own worst enemy. I hope you work on your self esteem and start loving yourself. Life is full of ups and down. We all go through it.
Whenever I’m feeling low, I put on an episode of ‘my 600 lb life’. Both those women have boyfriends, but they’re are confident, so I think that goes further than ya think. Confidence is contagious
If you want a partner that has a relationship with your family and goes to events, this ain't the girl. She's had 5 years and is so forcefully against it that it was the source of the biggest fight the two of you have had in your relationship. She won't tell you why, and it appears she will never tell you why.
What you have to decide is, is this your person? Do you want someone who acts like they hate your mom and won't communicate with you about it? Do you want someone who won't communicate with you, whatever the subject matter? She isn't going to do it. She's going to say no to any attempts to hang out with your mom. Yes, you're probably going to have to tell your mom that your partner doesn't like her and visit solo most of the time if you stay in this relationship. Make your peace with it or try to find someone that fits into your life better.
I feel like there are big details missing, though. I don't know what they are, but I have a very strong feeling they exist and would make a lot of this make more sense.
He posted this as his cover story for, not if…but when the wife finds out and puts two and two together. “Babe you told me to comfort her, all we did was cuddle and I felt bad about it as you can see by my post on Reddit the day afterwards.”
She did accuse me of financial abuse, her solicitor had to explain that you can't just retire at 39 and demand to have all your wants paid for as you're expected to work once your kids are late teens
A person does not forfeit their right to privacy when in a relationship. Your girlfriend doesn't have to tell you every single thing about herself, especially if there is something she is ashamed or embarrassed about.
She was honest with you about a situation she was in, she does not owe you every single detail, and frankly, from your post, it sounds like this is something you are going to try to hold against her one way or another.
As someone who sees horrible shit and deals with horrible people at work. He needs to leave work at work.
Have you ever talked to a counselor? That's no way to go through life. First of all if someone is going to cheat it can happen at any time. Doesn't have to be at a party. He's with you!! Doing things without your partner sometimes is a good thing, gives you something to talk about. If he treats you well enjoy it. Go with it. Sounds like you're creating problems in your head that are not there. You may be your own worst enemy. I hope you work on your self esteem and start loving yourself. Life is full of ups and down. We all go through it.
Dad vibe? So you're a father to them not a partner?
Of course they are. What people are trying to say is that no amount of positive qualities can make up for the behaviors you’ve described in this post.
Whenever I’m feeling low, I put on an episode of ‘my 600 lb life’. Both those women have boyfriends, but they’re are confident, so I think that goes further than ya think. Confidence is contagious
If you want a partner that has a relationship with your family and goes to events, this ain't the girl. She's had 5 years and is so forcefully against it that it was the source of the biggest fight the two of you have had in your relationship. She won't tell you why, and it appears she will never tell you why.
What you have to decide is, is this your person? Do you want someone who acts like they hate your mom and won't communicate with you about it? Do you want someone who won't communicate with you, whatever the subject matter? She isn't going to do it. She's going to say no to any attempts to hang out with your mom. Yes, you're probably going to have to tell your mom that your partner doesn't like her and visit solo most of the time if you stay in this relationship. Make your peace with it or try to find someone that fits into your life better.
I feel like there are big details missing, though. I don't know what they are, but I have a very strong feeling they exist and would make a lot of this make more sense.
He posted this as his cover story for, not if…but when the wife finds out and puts two and two together. “Babe you told me to comfort her, all we did was cuddle and I felt bad about it as you can see by my post on Reddit the day afterwards.”
They for sure fucked.
Tell her she can pay it or give you the phone back
Fair point but ….
A) I stressed luxuries
B) I took legal advice
She did accuse me of financial abuse, her solicitor had to explain that you can't just retire at 39 and demand to have all your wants paid for as you're expected to work once your kids are late teens
Didn't want to war and peace it 😉
Your husband is out of line with demands.
Deal breakers are set as boundaries at the beginning of a relationship, not as punishment for having a friend going through difficult times.
You're already married so the deal is DONE.
OP never let your SO dictate your friends. Next step is isolation and the step after that is abuse.
A person does not forfeit their right to privacy when in a relationship. Your girlfriend doesn't have to tell you every single thing about herself, especially if there is something she is ashamed or embarrassed about.
She was honest with you about a situation she was in, she does not owe you every single detail, and frankly, from your post, it sounds like this is something you are going to try to hold against her one way or another.
Bro was for sure a bully in high school.
People like sex.
Just because you've never had it happen to you doesn't mean it never happens with anyone.