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He is showing you who he is. Believe him.
Wow dude. That's foul.
Equality in a relationship has nothing to do with how food is apportioned. It is about shared power and equal partnership rather than one having control and one submitting to that control.
It works by each partner having a voice in what happens in the relationship, both of them caring about each other's needs, and both of them engaging in healthy communication and conflict resolution when differences arise. The pragmatic aspects will vary from couple to couple, because people are different and what works for some doesn't work for others.
You might consider the polite fiction that you accepted it and then decided it seemed messed up to propose with a ring from a failed engagement.
This guy is a complete turd.
Have some self respect and lose his number and never speak to him again.
I also feel like my pov is going to get a lot of downvotes but Im sorry, reality is NOT EVERYONE IS READY TO MARRY SOMEONE ELSE
It is not “you are going to break up”, my mother took 12 years with her partner before she married him because not all relationships are the same, I absolutely cant agree with the logic that if you dont want to marry someone it is surely just because you are playing with them or waiting for someone else to pass by
Yup gg. People with BPD who don't treat it, are a danger to society. Unfortunately they have little to no control over when they have a manic episode. The problem is you can only ever blame the disease not the person potentially being manipulative.
It is a horrible disease even for those who do successfully manage to live a full life with it.
Reconciliation is hard. The survival rate is abysmal. Around 15% of couples report still being together 5 years later by studies done. Add in this extra layer and I cant see the difficult work being done. Best way I move on and let someone more emotionally invested in her help her heal. Read ‘Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life’, ‘Cheating in a Nutshell’, and ‘the body keeps the score’. Visit r/survivinginfidelity and r/asoneafterinfidelity for a glimpse of the future. And look At survivinginfidelity.com.
She’s likely incapable of doing the work necessary to recover.
He is probably angry about something else and has chosen this to act badly towards you. It sounds rather childish.
You can try to rationalize with him but why bother? You cannot force him to respect you.
How is he going to finish college if he moves 3 hours away?
Stop giving him spending money. Just stop. That should solve the problem one way or another.
I'd call.mom and say why the fuck is your earring in my bed?
Maybe your girlfriend doesn't realize it takes that long to walk?
I know it would have felt better if she asked you, but you could also communicate with her on that. She can't read your mind.
This whole thing is bonkers, she’s acting like a foolish 21 year old that just got her ID to go to bars. First off; she assaulted you Second; she tried to go home with a stranger Third; she’s fucking 30 and still behaves like this, I’m guessing there’s a form of drinking problem there.
You aren’t responsible for her she’s a grown ass adult and she is now seeing the consequences of her actions. If you choose to stay every time there’s a situation with alcohol I wouldn’t be surprised if you’re on edge. Plus if you weren’t there was she planning on cheating?!
I think it's safe to say that what you did is a dick move. If someone doesn't want to do something, let it go. How difficult is that? I understand that you may not have known, but YOU used the word “forced”.
IF YOU FEEL BAD IMAGINE HOW HE FEELS AFTER THE SITUATION THAT YOU FORCED HIM INTO.
My dad is a white supremacist and I was heavily abused by him for the entirety of the 18 years I was forced to live with him. My partners going forward may not even meet the family that I'm close with. I just don't see it as worthwhile.
And I can’t believe people are still having to explain to you that you shouldn’t fuck people your SISTER is dating, even if they’re not “official.” You don’t get off on a technicality here, that was a shitty thing to do.
Cutting you off was probably the best thing for her. It doesn’t sound like you even care about your relationship with her, you just want her to talk to you so she can give her blessing for you to keep fucking this guy. It’s not going to happen, let it go.
Yet he's the one who is trying to sneak his way into my pants.
Look, I’m saying this as the daughter of an absent father. Just choose your wife and newborn and prioritise them, it sucks but you have a choice right now – try to repair a damaged (and honestly spiteful) daughter and risk damaging your second child too or choose to put your efforts into your wife and newborn and not repeat the same mistakes.
If you continue this way you will give Amanda more ammunition to throw (because look, you’re doing it to your second kid!) and you’ll probably lose your wife and both kids. You tried your best OP, cut your losses now and let Amanda choose if she wants to make the effort or not – she is an adult, not a troubled child.
You know the answer, she clearly doesn't love you as much as she's claimed because she's still texting her AP. Deleting messages isn't innocent.
You let her get away with it once and she's shown that she's seen it as ok to do because you'll just forgive her again eventually. Don't.
You're disgusting.
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Well I wouldn’t be dating her if I didn’t think she was beautiful.
Then let him go, if you’re not ready that’s okay you don’t need to let him pressure you into it.
He also doesn’t have to wait around if things aren’t going at a speed that works for him.
NTA but you‘ve definitely outgrown him and he knows it. He wanted a wife who’s easy to control because she doesn’t have other friends or hobbies. He wanted to feel superior. And now you‘ve gone and changed your life for the better, the only thing that’s missing is a better partner.
Easy. Couple's therapy, first. Then your wife needs to clear up her lie by telling the community that it's actually your son, and she needs to explain why she lied about it.
Can you hear yourself? You didn’t stand up to your friends as they sexually assaulted your girlfriend because you were afraid they might assault you to? Why the hell are these people your “friends”?
Ngl 20 should even be a red flag bro
I would start by telling her what you've told us, that she's so lovely with the baby, there's a whole new facet of her personality that you've discovered and you love her even more. Then you can move on to “it looks like you'd be a really great mother”… You were both afraid of repeating your parents' mistakes. This does happen, you tend to parent the way you were parented. I used up an inordinate amount of energy avoiding a repetition of my mother's mistakes (psychological and physical abuse, but pretty low level). But I did manage to parent my kids the way I would have liked to be parented.
One very positive thing that I read about recently: it was a huge study of kids who called a hotline when their parents abused them. There were kids from all walks of life, with all kinds of home setups: single parents sharing custody, mum and dad together, etc. Just one setup was not represented, i.e. no children from that setup ever called the hotline: two-mother households. Maybe there were no two-mother households where the mothers had both been abused, but as I said, it was a huge study involving 8,000 kids IIRC. So statistically, it looks good for you.
One thing you need to think about: suppose she were to say “oh I can do it for this kid, but I know it won't be forever. A kid of my own, no way, how could you suggest such a thing? we agreed no kids”. Would you be able to just back off and say “OK, you have the right to veto, I'll say no more” and also think no more of it?
In a fairy-tale world, she might be thinking “hey, looks like I can do this after all, what a pity I'm with a partner who doesn't want kids”.
Last time I told someone on here to “GO FOR IT” he updated a week later and the long-lost GF he'd managed to find answered his message within minutes of sending it. So, OP, GO FOR IT!
It isn’t!!
Health nuts don't “cut out soft drinks” … they never had them in the first place.
It's possible he means she's becoming one, in an effort to lose weight (and good for her if she is) but yeah, no health nut drinks soda, lol. It's basically pure sugar in a can.
Thank you for your advice and for the birthday wish!! 🙂
Sure! His ex-fiancée was a Christian and he is agnostic. Although at first she told him it was fine that they didn’t share religious beliefs and could still have a relationship, in the end she decided she didn’t want to marry a non-Christian, so they ended things. In his other relationship, he was basically raped. The girl would climb on top of him in his sleep or initiate sex when he wasn’t feeling it. If he pushed her away, she’d insult him and repeatedly asked if he was actually gay.
Probably already taking his wife.