I agree. But adoption is thw way to go if OP want to pay for child. Because then he is reconized as one of the parrents, not just because the kid is livong with him (and the mom, if they move in together) but also legaly with right so she cannot just move/divorse and take the kid and half the money without him having rights to keep seing the child
Maybe you could rent a couple hotel rooms and host a get-together there, if meeting at your family's house is too gross or stressful for you?
I agree. But adoption is thw way to go if OP want to pay for child. Because then he is reconized as one of the parrents, not just because the kid is livong with him (and the mom, if they move in together) but also legaly with right so she cannot just move/divorse and take the kid and half the money without him having rights to keep seing the child
How are they deceiving?
Yeah I know, it was just a juxtaposition that made me ಠ_ಠ