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Date: October 10, 2022
I think he was being honest.
My read of the landscape is this:
His opinion of his wife is clear: he doesn’t consider her to have sexual value unless it’s in relation to him. He depleted any store of her sexual usefulness (in his mind). He wants to have sex with other women and, based on her opinion of her sexual value (low) assumed that his wife would be a willing participant. He suggested swinging because he believed that everyone would feel the same way about her as he did: that she has no sexual value and no other man would be interested in her. This explains his reaction to her dating other men, despite his “consent”.
I don't think him coming from a wealthy family is the main problem. I think his lack of concern and understanding for your situation is something that isn't excusable and probably comes from his education. He absolutely needs to do better. Also it may be cultural, but I think his family shouldn't even be making you pay but should simply invite you. Heck, he should be inviting you. It's simple, if someone close to you wants you somewhere with them and know that you can't afford it and they can, they pay so you can attend. Your gift to them is your presence, especially for an occasion such as Christmas. My parents have done that with me, my boyfriend also has and I've done that for friends and family. Thinking that everyone needs to pay equally is misunderstanding what equity means. Maybe this is common in the states? Either way I don't think it's normal.
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Thankyou that really helps a lot ??? xxxx I could do with a cuddle
A lot of people here are just asking you to have sex again. While I personally would go with their suggestion (bc I love sex lol), I understand you and your fiancé have different values. So I'd like to present a different perspective.
Sex played an important role in your relationship. It's only understandable that suddenly removing it would change your dynamic. All of a sudden, you removed this act that provides you with so many things such as:
*oxytocin or the love hormone *a physical way of strengthening your connection *an avenue for intimacy with your partner *and, quite frankly, an opportunity to just have a good time
It's possible that you have been fighting more often than the usual because you aren't meeting those needs. Have you and your partner come up with a substitute for sex which still allows intimacy and connection? Because if not, then, you may be experiencing a lot of dysregulation in your hormones and emotions. Someone who feels like their needs are not being met will snap and get angry easier than someone whose needs are satisfied.
You also need to observe the pattern of your fights. What usually triggers it? What are the words that you use when fighting? What usually turns a simple disagreement to a full-blown fight? Answering these questions will help you understand what specific needs you and your partner are being deprived of. Maybe it's lack of intimacy? If so, schedule specific times in the day for just cuddling. Maybe it's a weakened connection? If so, dedicate quality time wherein you just get to know each other deeper. Maybe it's feeling undesired? If so, make it a point to still compliment them, to express how much you still want them, and to touch them in sensual but not sexual ways. Maybe it's sexual frustration? If so, maybe you can come to a compromise and just masturbate in front of each other. If that's something that still goes against your beliefs, try to think of your own way to address this need. Because it is a very normal, very human need that no one should be shamed for having.
I hope any of this is helpful. I may not agree with abstinence but I do respect your decision. It's a difficult thing to do and I wish you the best of luck.
I'm not saying limerence isn't treatable I'm saying that OP doesn't sound like she can ever forgive her husband for the emotional neglect and dishonesty that lasted two decades.
She found someone with more money.
THIS! I regret so much telling my cousin my problems with my ex/other romantic relationships. She would start to hate them to the point where it was affecting my relationships. I constantly had her nagging in the back of my head and all the red flags she saw even if I didn’t consider them a big deal. Now I tell her nothing.
Does the lease allow a dog? Is she on the lease? Are you the only person on the lease?
Ya I just messaged him that his wife can call him. I just really don't ever delete messages. My entire conversation history is there. If I was actually doing something suspious i feel like i would have deleted it.
Where does it say they are propositioning him for sex
It sounds like you'll be a good mom and you'll be happier too regardless whether you're single or with someone. Congratulations!
This ⬆️
It's not about sex. It's about feeling equal and having fun in a relationship.
You ARE being taken advantage of
I’m trying to think but I’m trembling and scared.
Coming to a site like Reddit for advice about this is pretty appalling tbh – this place is a misogynistic hellhole. You should call RAINN and talk to them. Although if actual medical professionals tell you that she has injuries consistent with sexual assault and you STILL doubt her….maybe break up with the poor woman? For her own sake?
As an update- I broke up with him, blocked him on everything, and told him to never contact me again in this life. Lol so much for him gtting the chance to end things with me 🙂
Jesus you’re both awful people and probably deserve each other. When you both inevitably cheat on each other you’ll both get the karma that you deserve, congrats.
Not a bad reason.
Listen, you are asking him to be present to the quality time spent together, which he is already taking for granted by being in his phone.
And I saw you said you have an ex who only has a flip phone, so never on his phone. Which is a bit odd, cause only people over 65 have flip phones still LOL
Anyway, it’s a valid reason to end things if quality time is your love language.
I just read the title. So when he goes out with his friends, you go out with your friends. Doesn’t matter that he “says” you “can’t”. Watch me
You should butt out of this. It's none of your business. Stay out of it.
I think that’s something you should discuss with her. There could be something going on you don’t know about that you could work through together, or maybe you’d be better off ending the relationship. I wouldn’t present it as an ultimatum, personally, but make sure she understands you have serious concerns.
Thank you, I completely agree. I think rehab would be very beneficial. Unfortunately I know he won’t get help unless I force him to rock bottom, by leaving.