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Take the plan b. Getting pregnant and calling it a gift might work for now but if the guy doesn’t want it, he will hate you. Ask yourself if you’re ready to watch the man you created a child with get a girlfriend & give her the life you want, just to spite you. Men do that sort of thing in situations like this to make a point. Rarely do they come around and fall in love in a situation like this. Even if his lack of involvement isn’t a problem, ask yourself if you really want to put your body through 9 months of pregnancy along with irreversible changes to your entire life for someone you don’t love. It’s not worth it. Look at it this way. Take the plan b & if it doesn’t work then you can say a pregnancy was meant to be. The pill is not 100% effective. The side effects of plan B are completely manageable and temporary.
Well guess who else is going to cry? The baby when it comes. Have fun caring for two babies. You’d decided to procreate with someone with the emotional stability of a child.
“a lot of women lie”, thats a lie. This isnt a very common thing as the comments are making it out to be. A couple reddit posts and stories doesnt equal real life.
It’s more about a commitment issue in general it’s stemming from. Fearing making the wrong choice so thinking and overthinking all his options and then just being unhappy. He used to have a motorcycle in Chicago and just perceived himself as “cooler” and “harder” than he is now it was in Nebraska. We’ve talked about all this and it circles back to him not feeling totally secure in his job yet and wanting us to do more couple things together like travel internationally since that’s Been limited due to Covid. We’ve talked about a plan to buy somewhere bigger to live next year. I talked to him about marriage again and he’s just scared about making the commitment just like with everything I talked about above.
Give him time to process it. He put it away from his thoughts for a reason, Now you pop this question and he now has to relive it in his memory. He had an issue dealing with what ever happened and never resolved it.
You ambushed him, now he feels less safe around you. You have less trust now going forward
My ex- husband always made me feel like I was his maid. I tried several ways to improve his cleaning habits – incentives, chore lists, me going on strike from cleaning… none of it worked. I married him anyway and continued to build resentment over the years.
Guess what? He got worse, not better, over time. Now, I’m leaving out some major details of other things in the relationship that went wrong, but the straw that broke the camel’s back was when he refused to watch the dogs while I went away for 5 days for a charity event. I had to hire a pet sitter.
Was all downhill after that…
Dont get me wrong, he had many good qualities and things he did for me that I loved. It just wasn’t enough to overcome the man-child tendencies that I had to deal with as a trade-off.
I’m now remarried to a wonderful person who makes me feel so loved AND who actually cleans up after himself. It’s amazing and I am thankful for him every single day.
Don’t settle for less than you deserve. Set some boundaries about cleaning and tell him to meet expectations or you’re out. Then follow through if he doesn’t meet expectations.
Take the plan b. Getting pregnant and calling it a gift might work for now but if the guy doesn’t want it, he will hate you. Ask yourself if you’re ready to watch the man you created a child with get a girlfriend & give her the life you want, just to spite you. Men do that sort of thing in situations like this to make a point. Rarely do they come around and fall in love in a situation like this. Even if his lack of involvement isn’t a problem, ask yourself if you really want to put your body through 9 months of pregnancy along with irreversible changes to your entire life for someone you don’t love. It’s not worth it. Look at it this way. Take the plan b & if it doesn’t work then you can say a pregnancy was meant to be. The pill is not 100% effective. The side effects of plan B are completely manageable and temporary.
Read his comments, explains a lot
Well guess who else is going to cry? The baby when it comes. Have fun caring for two babies. You’d decided to procreate with someone with the emotional stability of a child.
What a baby, get a grip pal!
“a lot of women lie”, thats a lie. This isnt a very common thing as the comments are making it out to be. A couple reddit posts and stories doesnt equal real life.
She's jealous of a pillow. An unthinking, unfeeling, inanimate object that is altogether featureless.
A pillow.
IMO you are a fool if you stay with someone who has lied and hidden his true self from the beginning. Not a good foundation for a future together.
It’s more about a commitment issue in general it’s stemming from. Fearing making the wrong choice so thinking and overthinking all his options and then just being unhappy. He used to have a motorcycle in Chicago and just perceived himself as “cooler” and “harder” than he is now it was in Nebraska. We’ve talked about all this and it circles back to him not feeling totally secure in his job yet and wanting us to do more couple things together like travel internationally since that’s Been limited due to Covid. We’ve talked about a plan to buy somewhere bigger to live next year. I talked to him about marriage again and he’s just scared about making the commitment just like with everything I talked about above.
Those are usually shadow banned people, not sure if it’s fixable on individual forums. They reply because they don’t realize they are shadow banned.
Give him time to process it. He put it away from his thoughts for a reason, Now you pop this question and he now has to relive it in his memory. He had an issue dealing with what ever happened and never resolved it.
You ambushed him, now he feels less safe around you. You have less trust now going forward
I will, thank you.
It’s like I’m reading a post from my past self.
My ex- husband always made me feel like I was his maid. I tried several ways to improve his cleaning habits – incentives, chore lists, me going on strike from cleaning… none of it worked. I married him anyway and continued to build resentment over the years.
Guess what? He got worse, not better, over time. Now, I’m leaving out some major details of other things in the relationship that went wrong, but the straw that broke the camel’s back was when he refused to watch the dogs while I went away for 5 days for a charity event. I had to hire a pet sitter.
Was all downhill after that…
Dont get me wrong, he had many good qualities and things he did for me that I loved. It just wasn’t enough to overcome the man-child tendencies that I had to deal with as a trade-off.
I’m now remarried to a wonderful person who makes me feel so loved AND who actually cleans up after himself. It’s amazing and I am thankful for him every single day.
Don’t settle for less than you deserve. Set some boundaries about cleaning and tell him to meet expectations or you’re out. Then follow through if he doesn’t meet expectations.
Good luck. Hope it works out for you.