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Date: October 6, 2022
Please get out now…he is literally going to kill you. He has already come close.
Run, get out.
To me whatever the actual issue is in a post is secondary. I pay more attention to the communication/conflict resolution skills.
OP's bf did something that wasn't an end-of-the-world issue but is both weird and something she is specifically sensitive to. She pointed that out and he was dismissive. She handed over the fries (potentially an overreaction but also potentially a coping mechanism – this can't upset me anymore because it's no longer my food) and he started yelling.
OP tried talking it out again but he continued to be dismissive of her feelings when it sounds like she didn't want to be fighting and would have probably been very satisfied by an apology and a promise not to do that again.
OP could be misrepresenting but my instinct is not. She seems very aware that this was a triggering situation for her (ie her emotions were not coming from this one incident) and tried multiple times to talk things out. She doesn't characterize this as being worthy of a huge fight.
I don't tell people to break up, I'm in the “you know your life best” camp with you, but what I see in this story is either deliberate boundary pushing or spectacularly terrible conflict resolution skills on the part of the bf. Unless he recognised that and committed to doing some work, I think I'd be done simply because something more stressful will happen eventually and this is not the teammate I would want when it does. I'll admit I come from a family full of people who are boundary-pushers and terrible with conflict so I probably have a below average tolerance for those things, but whatever OP decides to do, I think that's what's at stake, not the food.