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Date: October 6, 2022
Does he not know what fwb means….
You’re living in a nightmare. If I were you, I’d just move out and start over. Let her stay. You’re not responsible for someone else’s mental well-being. It’s her responsibility to make sure the relationship is doable for both parties involved.
I wonder if there’s a deeper issue here that’s causing Penelope’s behavior. Her saying you told her fiancé to wait to proposed is a wild claim, but I’m really curious where she got that idea from…
If I were you I’d do this: 1). Ask your friends if this is the first time Penelope has talked badly about you behind your book. Did Penelope only start talking bad after she found out you were pregnant? If not, how long has she been doing this? This answer will tell you if she’s always been a fake friend OR if there is indeed something deeper going on that’s altering her normal behavior 2). Based on the answer from #1, if I found out she’s always been talking crap about me, I’d cut her off and go NC. But if it’s a one-time thing (I.e. she only started after you announced your pregnancy) I’d try to sit down with her and confront her to figure out what the hell is going on
Do whatever feel comfortable. This is just advice based on what I’d do personally
So apologies my meaning to “I’m not a jealous person” prior to this relationship to where things that have happened has made me a jealous person in this relationship. And it’s not to all things it’s to certain things that seem “off” to me
Why do you think of this guy as your bf?
Ok so he's not hiding your relationship. I think it is a bit weird but some people dont even have social media. How does he feel about if you tag him on photos/posts instead?
Tell him that sex is important to you and that you need to connect intimately again.
I don't know how long he needs, but would you be able to find 10min sometime during the week?
The fake cum shit is a lil' bit gay tho.
In 7 months you have never been to his home? Have you been introduced to his family?
Sounds like you’re the side chick and the room mate is his main chick.
dude you have kids. when you have kids you can barely have sex. you gave up that right until they are grown enough. at the end of the day its just smashing eachothers pissholes. how about you cook and clean and take care of the kids then your wife will want it.
My views on the topic are pretty set by now.
Go though the acceptance path first. I won’t say find confidence, because I feel like it lost its meaning nowadays. Everybody has flaws, things you like better, things you hate about yourself. Noticing them and accepting them is a huge path to cross but so rewarding. Learn to love yourself with your defaults, even if you see them as such. And if you truly can’t, then change the feature. But the only person you should look at to see if there’s something to change is you. Don’t compare yourself to others.
The whole thing about dating someone more handsome, out of your league etc makes no sense. You’re not just your looks. And your partner chose you for a good reason, he’s not mistaken, he sees you everyday exactly as you are. You’re his match. You don’t need to change in order to keep him. Would you jump immediately on the next guy that would be more handsome than him ? I’m pretty sure not. Why would he ?
Instead of thinking of what you could change to match his level, I would want you to ask yourself why don’t you feel worthy enough of him as you are right now ? This is deeper than look.
I just feel like society doesn't want that type of relationship to exist. What should I do ?
Way to blame society for your inability to remain loyal to someone you claim to “love”. This has nothing to do with society. He wants monogamy and you apparently can't give him that. Set him free and stop being selfish.
If my wife contacted my boss for anything… let alone arranging for me to take time off, I would be mad as hell. That’s a bad surprise. Likewise, as a boss, if an employee’s boyfriend called me and asked for authorization to take time off, I would be miffed. Her time bank isn’t at your disposal. You could have planned this for an evening or a weekend and not messed with her job. You’re not even married… you had no business doing that.
Never ever move in with someone until they’re finished with their schooling, there’s a graveyard filled with dead relationships that women have walked away from once they finish their graduate school and lived for free for years
You’re not married, stop playing house where she gets everything she wants and you’re stressed out from the burden and there’s no guarantee she sticks around
Get your career going, get your money sorted then revisit this in a few years when she’s done and you’ve got yourself on stable ground
You could get a monthly subscription of something she likes sent to yourself. Then give it to her or make it for her. they have hundreds of different kinds of subscriptions nowadays. It could be easy to find something she likes or something you both like and can do together or gift her with.
There’s nothing you can do for your marriage, until you do it for yourself. If you don’t want to stop watching it, and it’s a clear boundary for her, you two aren’t compatible.
Though you’ve now added multiple layers of hurt for her. You chose something you knew would break her, to cope. Pretty fucked up and I’m sure shattered any rose colored glasses she had for you.
Thank you. I don’t know if she’ll even try family therapy with us but I’ll suggest it to my parents.
So this is the FOURTH time you've posted about this guy.
Either suck it up and accept you're ok with a guy who controls you, accuses you of cheating, makes you question yourself, is a HUGE hypocrite, doesn't trust you, etc OR actually do something about it and leave.
I’m doing all the things required of me. Medicated, therapy, no contact etc. it’s a constant thing though.
You don’t sound happy now.
Why would a selfish person want to hear anything else. You need to do more reflection. No one of any moral character and reflection says that self centred behaviour will lead to happiness.
You are judging your relationship by now. So still no reflection about time.
You did say that because you assume guilt needs to be the motivation.
It’s unfortunate you don’t want to be a better person. All that anger will slowly eat you and push him away.
In another comment OP confirmed that he asked her if she would be screened too and she said it's not the same cause men are more likely to abuse.
Definitely sexist.
You selectively ignored the fact that he required them to move to a much more expensive area for his medical residency/schooling- he’s the reason for the higher cost of living- that’s why people said they should pay 50/50.
Just because she has OCD, doesn’t mean she gets to dictate everything. Listen to music in the shower, tell her to kick rocks if she has a problem with it. Maybe you not giving in to all of her whims will cause her to stay elsewhere.
But you were just talking, not exclusive. I had been casually seeing someone when I started dating my significant other. I actually went out with someone else the day after I met him, slept with my hookup during the week, but then decided he was worth holding out for. So for ten days we were texting a lot, and gave up my hookup guy then. I didn’t lie to my s/o, but I didn’t tell him I’d seen others either, while I had a really good feeling about him, he had to “prove” he was worthy of me and my time before I “went exclusive”. You weren’t exclusive, I don’t think you should judge over this.
Go to the party and say goodbye to his fam. Tell them you love them but bf cheated and you need to move on. It will be cathartic and he will get what he deserves.
Sit down with her parents and tell them that if he turns up in a clown suit you will be leaving the ceremony immediately and eloping instead. That the resulting fall out will be on them and you will sue him and them for the cost of the wedding.
Right? I have adhd and I fall in love with people all the time! This is a personality disorder sis.
No. When you decide to bring a child into this world, you don’t get a break, but OP isn’t the kid’s father, and clearly isn’t looking to take over as one. He gets a break, even if he’s in a relationship with the kid’s mom, and especially when they don’t live together, aren’t married, and he didn’t always join on the weekends together.
He's tired. Being the emotional support of someone mentally ill can be very difficult. Even more at this age.
Both of you are still young and immature, you should probably break up and get therapy, focus on healing and then everything will be okay.
“Goodbye” is plenty. He doesn't deserve to know why. Get tested anyhow.
From what you’ve shared this definitely sounds highly suspicious. Unfortunately I don’t think you have any options left beyond giving him some time to let his guard down and then doing some snooping.
I know it feels bad, and make no mistake: if you do find something and confront him he will try to turn it around on you because of the snooping. I’ve been there. But you can’t be sure any other way, and you know you’re not doing it regularly or without reason.
That's completely fair! Sorry for my lack of information. Prior to this job, I had gone to a trade school for a similar job in the same industry but ended up diverting from that. Before that, I worked in manufacturing for 11 months and left without another job lined up, so I have had a history of doing so. I will say that I had left the manufacturing position due to terrible management and quit on the same day, which was the only job where I left without notice.
Fr these men are so repressed 🙁 toxic isolating culture
Comments – ex is a drug addict and it would be full custody of a severely traumatised 13yo 🙁
Get her a cape and let her be Super Mad!
He probably feels humiliated. Latin families might have different boundaries but this isn’t typical latin family behavior, this is shameful behavior. They humiliated him. You have just figured out that your family isn’t going to let you go out of their control. Now you need to figure out if you want to just go along with their control, and find someone they approve of/aren’t threatened by, or if you are going to go your own way, and pick your own life.
That's exactly it; he just sees her as something pretty to stick his dick in.
And there's no reason to wait around for him to start complaining about her looks the second she dares showing signs of aging or looking different after giving birth.
If that wasn't enough reason to leave then there's the whole having absolutely no respect for her boundaries and personal space, the massively unprofessional behaviour, and complete lack of interest in her as a person that all on their own are reason enough to run far away from this man.