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Date: October 5, 2022
Why is it inappropriate? Can you give me an honest explanation? Do you want to have sex with every man you see? I am genuinely asking because I literally don't care who my boyfriend hangs out with and neither does he because we trust each other. You're ok to have your boundaries, I just find it very interesting
From a legal standpoint anything he buys in his name prior to marriage is separate property. Do not contribute a single dollar to this house purchase unless he’s willing to sign something saying you are a deed holder. Otherwise, don’t let him buy a house until you are married. Then it’s 50/50 ownership regardless of whether his name is the only one on the deed
Thank you for the kind words
Heya, Fellow ADHD human here.
I feel for you. I also struggle with some of things that your boyfriend also struggles with. Staying focused, getting stimulation while being intimate with my girlfriend (hugging and such) and just hanging togeather. I struggle to find peace in my brain with just doing “nothing” even though it's not really “nothing” is that make sense :-p please know that it's nothing personal. It's really an ADHD thing.
There are a few things I'd like to suggest. The first one being quality time. It's important that you tell him, that you don't feel like you're spending enough quality time togeather and that you'd like to fix that. Your boyfriend does seem to care, but he might just lack motivation to come up with an idea to fix it, or not really know what to do. So, that's where you come in. Instead of spending quality time at home with all of his distractions, go out. Find an activity or hobby that you two can do togeather. Say to him that you understand that spending time at home togeather doing low stimulation stuff is hard, so you'd like to spend at least 1 evening a week going out and doing something togeather. Something active, something catching, something to draw his attention. I know it's hard but don't take it personality if he does get distracted, our brains sometimes just stall, (for lack of a better term) and search for something to simulate themselves. Picking an activity that you two can do togeather could help you connect more and make sure that your relationship doesn't fall into just… existing togeather.
The next thing is sex. It's sort of the same thing, I'm not going to say that he isn't interested in sex. He probably is, but it wouldn't have the same “new fresh drive” as when you first met. But this isn't really an ADHD thing, but more of just a normal relationship thing. The honey moon phase is full of sex and excitement and simulating events. People with ADHD strive at this time, where we struggle is after that's over. It's not to say we don't care, or that we don't love you, but it's just harder for us. What you could try, once again talking to him about it, and seeing if there are ways you could spice up your sex life.
The other thing is the gifts and lack of dotting after you. This again is more normal than an ADHD thing. I've noticed that I do do this as well. But I try to surprise my girlfriend every now and again. With flowers (sometimes hard when living togeather) and things like that.
I know it's hard dating someone with ADHD, we get distracted, we're sometimes inattentive and sometimes do things that make it seem like we don't care. But, remember this, not caring about your partner isn't an ADHD thing. If your partner cares about you and truly does love you, then you sitting down with him and talking about your relationship concerns, should also be concerning to him. Try to sit down in a non confrontational way and figure this out together. Remember you're a team and you have your strengths and weaknesses and so does he. With being in a team, the weakness of the other persons can be balanced by the strength of the other person.
Something to think about – because I don’t want to advise you on your relationship as there is far too little information and only one side – but there are some studies that assert stress hormones during pregnancy can cause increased chance of learning difficulties later in life for the child.
Otherwise, it sounds like you both need individual and couples therapy. You sound certain it’s unsalvageable. But is that truly the case? Especially if you still love her.
Ah I read in UK percentage different with 70% having HSV1 and 10% having HSV2. But it’s still way more common than people realise and many don’t get symptoms. It certainly shouldn’t be stigmatised as something as “dirty” which it still it….hell I got it from the first guy I slept with! Hardly my fault for sleeping around!
I would just prefer people to accept it’s a transmissible disease that’s easy to get. Yes of course everyone should take precautions especially in new relationships but as a young inexperienced girl (it was a very long time ago!) I was the one calling the shots, so to speak!
This is abusive behavior. You said no.
He didn't/doesn't care enough to respect your voice.
She's a sugar baby for sure! Unfortunately, he may not only be emotionally and physically cheating but also paying this woman to spend time with her.
Man was just so fking sick of that workplace being a pile of garbage, he probably felt like on heaven and said “i will be so vocal they will remember me” nothing mental or physical health stop over goddamn thinking it.
First, happy birthday!
Next, I wouldn’t say you’re being unreasonable not to be happy about the gift, but strictly in the sense that you told him you want something meaningful and he disregarded that.
I wouldn’t be upset with him that he got the kettle bell from a perspective that he’s telling you to work on your body in a passive aggressive manner. I’d take this as him listening to you about wanting it and he went ahead and got it. I don’t think there has to be a deeper meaning than that.
As for the plan, just talk to him about it. No sense in staying quiet building up resentment just expecting to be let down. Good luck.
That's good. I gave you that link without making any comments just so that you can see for yourself that proposing an open relationship to a monogamous person very, very rarely goes well. The vast majority of the time, the person in your bf's position will just feel deeply hurt. They'll feel like you're telling them that you want to cheat. And they'll wonder why they aren't enough for you.
Even if all the other things are just right, if this one thing (his physical condition) isn't enough for you, then you should just tell him that if he doesn't start taking care of himself, you're going to end up leaving him. Or you should just go ahead and leave him.
Despite what other commenters are saying, there's nothing wrong with wanting a partner that values something (in this case fitness) as much as you do. Just don't keep the relationship on life support hoping that he'll suddenly change one day.