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Nice troll account. Just check the posts.
OMG please ignore it. You are way too young no matter how you try to prove otherwise. Enjoy your life pre children. Go get your BA with honors!!! Travel, save more money, gain some maturity anything but have a child so young.
Get a puppy!
She had a closed condom in her underwear? That would be extremely uncomfortable?
It honestly could have been an innocent slip. But if I were you I would start focusing a lot more on his behavior
Hmm I would leave unless you plan to be married and chained to his side forever and probably not allowed to see any friends or do anything without him. You can tell him if he'll never be the same or as friendly again then there's no need for you to come back to him after the trip.
Nope not an asshole thing to do.
Get out of your head bro. It's full of shite.
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Maybe not. Maybe he had a “big boys don't cry” father. That does NOT negate that he's now an asshole as a result and OP does not need to be with him.
Since she has been repeatedly telling you she wants to save the marriage your passive-aggressive “well go fuck your boyfriend, then” taunts accomplish less than nothing and your edit is beyond stupid and self-defeating.
Congratulations, you’ve got the most salvageable marriage that’s ever popped up here and you’re burning it down for no reason. Maybe once you’re done dismantling it your ex wife will be happier with someone less insecure and manipulative.
He is sexually harassing your sister. Ask him why he is sexually harassing your sister. Ask him if he would find it funny if someone was sexually harassing you while he was incapacitated and at risk of dying. Make him pay for a room at a hotel so your sister can get away from his sexual harassment. He can stay there alone until the trip is over and think about how rude this was.
I don’t know what to do. It’s not the first time he has hurt me but do I give it another shot?
No.
I spoke to both of the girls, the one he kissed said he found her alone and he told her he fancied the pants off her for years and kissed her.
This is who he is. He is a guy that has been sttracted to another woman for years and made a move at the first opportunity.
Also as it is his business, are their all his employees? Because that's a sexual harassment claim waiting to happen.
He has substance and committment issues.
I saw a text from a girl pop up which is obviously unusual at 2am. So I unlocked his phone. There were a string of messages initiated by him that were vulgar and highly sexual. Also asking her for explicit photos.
This? This is who he is. There's no 'drunk person' personality take over. This is who he is and what he wants to do when his inhibitions are lowered.
Don't tie yourself to this man.
You might as well break up. You don’t even like her
You might as well break up. You don’t even like her
You might as well break up. You don’t even like her
This is great advice, and I appreciate you taking the time to write this to me. Thank you a bunch. I’m glad to hear you’ve found some stability after what would have been a difficult time.
Now Reddit Brigade tell me if the genders were reversed, if a man did this to a girl, wanting violent sex, threatening to kill her if she left, following her to work, taking blood oaths? NO WAY IN HELL WOULD YOU ALL BE SAYING oh, sounds like young love, you need couples counseling, this is normal for young people…. I'm going to get downvoted to hell and probably called names because I think SHE is dangerous but I DO NOT CARE. This young man should RUN FOR HIS LIFE.
You have the number. Contact the person and ask her. I'm so sorry, but this sounds hella suspicious to me.
Everyone needs a Gunther now and then.
thanks for the advice bro.
The above comment is an important realisation for you OP – do you want to live your life always being considered as Plan B or do you want to be in a relationship where you are loved and respected and your partner puts you first?
Don't settle for anything less than being a priority!
What u/oat336 said is exactly how I read the way the conversation between the two of you went. And now you know why has never been in a relationship before.
The question you have to ask yourself: are your feelings for him strong enough to make you deal with al the drama he brings with him?
Surely I can try something else before that??
I know it's my fault. Nothing justifies what I did that night. But I don't want to leave him. He's the only thing I have in this world.
You can't really “deal” with that. There isnt something you can do to just make him stop. He is what he is and it doesn't sound very pleasant. Do you really want to deal with this your whole relationship?
You can’t. Speaking from experience
Please no. Just block him. The mental gymnastics to get around the ‘i like you so much i need to watch other chicks while fucking you’ is enough to warrant never speaking to this guy again
And instead of flying to another for vacation, he can't come support the woman he supposedly wants to spend his life with?? Honestly, if I was his mother there wouldn't be a vacation to be had because I'd be ripping him a new asshole telling him he better get his fucking priorities straight!
A woman committed and not wanting to lose a man, doesn't do shit like this!
exactly!
I feel like this might be a good time to mention that I pursued him, not the other way around. I have always dated older men and the only time it was a “power issue,” the man I was dating was hitting me among other things. My fiance is not forcing me to do the chores, I choose to do or not do them of my own volition.
I've been in situations, like the one above, where I have been “trained” to do certain things. I'm in therapy to overcome those. This isn't it.
My boyfriend sleeps over at his friends house occasionally, a lot of his friends are girls, I'm fine with him having a sleepover as long as they don't sleep in the same bed. He's his own person and I trust him completely. But I do get how someone can be uncomfortable with it, especially if they're more traditional.
I didn't move in with her pal, her parents were kicking her out. She didn't have many options she's not on the lease.
You said you're in the UK so at the moment your combined income after tax is about 4.5K, right?
You need to talk this through. Have a 'what if we did have kids' theoretical financial planning session to work through what would happen and how you'd manage, including things like tax credits, free childcare hours, paid maternity leave etc vs expected outgoings, mortgage and so on.
I am so so sorry dude, she is self centered, and made your family tragedy about her. This would be a deal breaker for me.
I'm currently dealing with a SH situation with someone I love.
Yes, it freaks me the fuck out to see the person I love bleed and while I know that she's not suicidal, I'm still scared that she's going to kill herself by accident. I do not want to live my life without her.
Her hiding the problem was the worst thing for me because I knew it was happening and I felt powerless to help. Open communication between us has been the best thing for this situation so far. She tells me when she done it, when she feels the urge, and most importantly how can I help her. Sometimes that means just being with her in the same room. She won't do it in front of me. Sometimes that means helping her with the bandages.
Being open with it has really helped her and me.
She is also taking medication and seeing a therapist and unfortunately life has piled on the problems for us and SH isn't the worst issue we have. Little by little she has managed to get better.
Side note:
they worked well in the beginning but not anymore
This can happen with any medication. It works well initially but then your body adjusts and then its no longer able to adjust the body's chemistry and can do nothing. All it means is that you need to go back to your doctor and try a different medication or have an additional one. There are so many out there.
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Probably mental wrestling with it in her head and not wanting to run him off f she says something. Now the issue would be if she was STILL doing it and not telling..THAT would be a deal.breaker. .Nothing against sex workers or sex working, . But if I found out after SECOND HAND she was still doing it . I'd just go.
Sometimes, you have to draw a line with people in your life, even family. Do so over text if conversations in person become fits.
“Hey sister. That's a cool looking meal you sent me. I have to tell you, I'm struggling in my own journey right now, and it's hard for me to not get into my own comparisons with you in it. While I love and support you in your health journey, it would be best for me if we don't talk about each other's diets/meals/bodies/workouts with each other. Please don't send me any more pictures of that stuff or messages about it.”
From there, you'll need to draw a line. If she keeps doing it, just don't respond. Delete the photo. Delete the message. Do not engage about any of it. If she corners you into talking about it in person, just say “I have told you that's not a topic of conversation I want to have, and I need you to respect that.”
If she keeps pushing, this might be an ugly part of her that you just need to distance yourself from her generally in life. Because if she can't respect you here, she's going to want to compete over your future plans, jobs, kids, etc. And that's unhealthy. In short, draw a line. If she keeps bringing toxicity into your life, distance yourself completely.
He cares for you…..hopefully you see this. People besides family can love you….just wanted you to know.
It’s not silly at all. If there’s no history of infidelity and you have no actual reason to believe your spouse is having an affair, blindly demanding a paternity test is degrading and insulting.
There’s no test to ensure he doesn’t go out and impregnate other women. Why is the woman required to go on blind trust, but a man gets to demand a paternity test?
If you trust your spouse so little that you genuinely fear they’re going to cheat on you and pass off someone else’s kid as yours — you should not have children with them. Full stop. That is not a healthy relationship, a healthy fear, or a healthy mindset.
This is not a normal thing people ask for IRL. This mindset is a product of people spending too much time online and going down misogynistic rabbit holes and feeding each other’s toxicity.
You have to assess your relationship individually. You can’t project the trauma of a previous relationship onto your current one. If there’s no trouble, don’t go looking for it.
Whoever wants to move that fast is a no. I can't be in a relationship with someone I don't have a clue who they are
Thank you for your answer. I agree with what you said about asking him the wrong question. I told him what I want, I said that for me flirting is not acceptable, this type of communication is not acceptable, to send pics, text after working hours, during weekened, while on vacation..He said he understood that and that he won't do that. I even asked him whether he understands why I don't like it, why that is not acceptable for me or not or if he gets that and he said yes. Because if I was just forcing him and he wouldn't understand what's wrong with that, that wouldn't work..
Sort of…
You essentially told him that you don’t see this as a problem for your relationship, so you put all the responsibility of this onto him and said it’s all his problem.
Your partner wants/needs to feel desired, and it’s hard to feel desired when your partner never shows you that you are desired. Putting all of the responsibility of initiating sex onto your partner and never initiating it yourself is showing them the exact opposite of desire.
Like someone else suggested, if you aren’t willing to show desire for your partner and put forth the effort to show them through action, which is to actually initiate sex equally, or figure out a solution where you feel like initiating, then you need to rethink whether this is the right relationship for you or do you need to be with someone asexual so you don’t need to worry about participating in that part of a relationship.
That I have feelings for her all along
Life is about choices. She’s making the one she feels is right. I was in a similar circumstance several years ago and my husband had to decide whether to take time off his brand new job for my brain surgery where we had to travel far away for. He had just started his new job and could have easily lost it. He didn’t even consider not being there. That was very telling. We weren’t in a position where us both not working was feasible but it was worth the risk to him. She’s not willing to risk one day off. That decision is on her but he shouldn’t be expected to be understanding and accepting of that. Going through a medical procedure to possibly get your ability to walk back is major. The fact that she is okay with missing it is telling. It doesn’t make her a bad person but it does convey that she doesn’t value the relationship.
My now husband lent me 700 just 4 months into dating and I didn’t ask. I mentioned how frustrating that work is slow and by the time I pay my bills they’ll all be late. So he handed me money and said give it back when you can. I paid 100 a week until he was paid! I couldn’t stand the thought of him having to wait for me so he could pay his bills. He could definitely pay his bills without me paying him back but I didn’t like the feeling of it. I just looked at your ages and he is 11 years older. You are still getting your career on track. He should (at his age) know the ebb and flow of his work and save for the lean months. The fact that he hasn’t said anything and putting you down for being “overly” worried is a red flag. You aren’t overly worried you are appropriately worried about money your grown ass boyfriend hasn’t made a single attempt to talk about what he owes you, let alone PAY YOU BACK!! He needs a hard timeline of when you expect to be paid back. Then regardless of what happens you get rid of him. He’s clearly unreliable