Can you go to therapy? That’s a good first step to breaking the bond. Specifically a therapist who specializes in trauma bonding if you can find one, but therapy in general will help.
If not, it takes will power and the determination to say you’ve had enough. You are worth more than this. You deserve better. You can be enough on your own.
OK, so here’s the real deal it’s your body and you get to do what you want with that. However, when you’re in a partnership really important decisions should be made together. So you have to decide whether you are a single person who is deciding to end the pregnancy of a child, you don’t want. Or if you’re in a couple and you have to take the other person’s feelings into consideration, I know it’s not an easy decision, but that’s kind of what your face with.
Talk to her about it. If she can't see the error in her ways you have to end it eventually. You are 18 and in college!! You are too young to be stuck in a toxic relationship. Relationships are supposed to be fun! They're not supposed to be this stressful.
You should be able to bring up issues without your partner turning them around on you. That is emotionally abusive behavior. It prevents you from bringing up these issues in the future.
End it please. Go out and get some pussy and you'll feel so much better
Y’all just aren’t compatible. Bob cannot be forced to share his feelings, bob cannot be forced to step up and become emotionally mature enough to have a healthy mature relationship. There is no mending this, it’s been years.
You are a terribly selfish person. I hope he sees the real you and declines your generous offer of friendship.
Well my options are try to win his love now, or risk someone stealing him
Can you go to therapy? That’s a good first step to breaking the bond. Specifically a therapist who specializes in trauma bonding if you can find one, but therapy in general will help.
If not, it takes will power and the determination to say you’ve had enough. You are worth more than this. You deserve better. You can be enough on your own.
OK, so here’s the real deal it’s your body and you get to do what you want with that. However, when you’re in a partnership really important decisions should be made together. So you have to decide whether you are a single person who is deciding to end the pregnancy of a child, you don’t want. Or if you’re in a couple and you have to take the other person’s feelings into consideration, I know it’s not an easy decision, but that’s kind of what your face with.
Look up what being a “little” is. She may be trying to coax you into it slowly without coming out and saying it.
It's a link where one is acts child(sub) like and the other is the dom. Can flip roles too.
Don’t do anything at all. She doesn’t get to make that decision for you. Her opinion means nothing. Smile, nod, and have as many babies as you want.
Talk to her about it. If she can't see the error in her ways you have to end it eventually. You are 18 and in college!! You are too young to be stuck in a toxic relationship. Relationships are supposed to be fun! They're not supposed to be this stressful.
You should be able to bring up issues without your partner turning them around on you. That is emotionally abusive behavior. It prevents you from bringing up these issues in the future.
End it please. Go out and get some pussy and you'll feel so much better
Y’all just aren’t compatible. Bob cannot be forced to share his feelings, bob cannot be forced to step up and become emotionally mature enough to have a healthy mature relationship. There is no mending this, it’s been years.