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Wanna break it off and be the good guy?
Here’s a suggestion:
Follow the advice on cameras and removing valuable stuff AND departing for the 30 days after you file an eviction. As you’re driving away, call her parents and let them know what’s happened. You do not owe them an explanation.
Since it’s Christmas, give her $4000 and a dog/puppy/cat/kitten/distraction that demands attention/affection. Write a letter saying the $ is for an apartment and whatever else you’d like to say to her. It’s up to her how she is to spend the $ after that. Basically build a safety net without you in it for her to fall away in.
Go no contact and be prepared to get a restraining order.
You’re out of options. Do something or lose your sanity.
If not married, I would set a goal ex. 15% of incomes and map out what that looks like. From their work hard and hold each other accountable. Once married or moved in together combine household incomes to meet goals. Good luck
Did he have his phone therapies at your grandparents house?
If so, i would honestly talk to a lawyer or get police involved when you go to your parents house have her unluck her phone and make sure everything is deleted, an no back ups. This is blackmail, emotional distress, recording of private conversation with a licensed medical personnel. Honestly I would have any remorse and consideration with this person. Hopefully like this your family will realize what what of person M is , and how they unvalidated you, and your parnet for this evil person that isn't even family.
Well you said it’s not just his teeth specifically you both also neglect your weight so you are neglecting your bodies and he wont see a doctor either. Why are you also neglecting your body?
Did they glow in the dark well???
Dump him
Yeah that’s a big no from me.
I can understand the effects of being in an abusive relationship, but that’s the kind of thing she should have worked on before looking for a new relationship, let alone deciding to get married. The fact this other guy still has some sort of hold on her, to the point she needs to tell you this, is something that would be difficult for me to get over and would make me question her commitment.
Since you’re married, it’s tough to say what you should do, but this is definitely something she needs to work on in order to one day convince you it’s no longer a problem.
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Yeah like, some people are in lalala land on stuff lkke this
Reading your comments specifically about putting a gun to this guys face. There's probably very little chance this relationship is going to last much longer.
It's also probably safer for you to get the fuck away from him.
See a therapist
If I had a neon sign flashing the words sexual assault I’d hang it here.
Dance classes, Martial arts, the gym, volunteer groups, fellow students, friends of friends?
Just sounds like you need to meet different people closer to your age range. Saying everyone in their 20s but you is “super shallow and too naive” just comea across as judgemental and egotistical
Dating someone from work can get pretty messy and adding a 17 year age gap on top of that? Yikes.
You're both in VERY different stages of life right now.
So then I hope you understand where I’m coming from. It’s not like I’d ever believe that my girlfriend would ever hold it over me, but at the same time I don’t want her to be the one having to take care of me. I’ll gladly give her the food off my plate and the shirt off my back but I can’t accept it the other way around. It doesn’t sit right with me personally
Oh, for fuck sake. Fuck you. Stop wasting her time.
If you don't want to get married that's one thing, but you're essentially stringing her along if you're not breaking up with her. She could be going out and spending time finding someone that does want to marry her and isn't just thinking of themselves and how difficult going through a break up will be for them. Eye roll.
She wants to be married. You don't. Ergo the conversation goes something like, 'Hey, I don't want to be married. But I understand that you do, and I want you to be happy, so I would rather you go and find someone who is going to make you happy and marry you.' Done.
Stop being selfish and wasting her time.
Getting “whiney” is coercion.
This has been a reoccurring topic, and we both cried when I told him how scared I get when he’s careless with what he says and does surrounding acts that can be considered “degrading.”
“He’s not a cruel person by any means, and he held me and told me that he’d never, ever want to do anything to hurt me.”
Reread these two statements….
Absolutely, having a conversation will help you to figure out where this is heading.
It’s necessary to know… you guys have entered into a marriage where you promised to build a life with TOGETHER.
You’re 29 years old and financially independent. Her opinion doesn’t matter here.
You did nothing wrong, she cray cray, and even if she WAS asleep this would just be some freak accident and you shouldn't blame yourself or feel guilty about it.
This sounds exhausting. You both need to have a real conversation about what happened. She was 100% consenting when it happened.
You absolutely should not dictate his life. That would be controlling. It's one thing to state a concern, but you can't control his behavior. What you need to do is set a boundary for YOURSELF that you won't be with someone who engages in these unhealthy, self-destructive behaviors, particularly if they're not doing even the bare minimum to seek help to remedy the situation.
I believe you that he's a very kind person. You say, “I don't want to just abandon him if he has a real problem.” You are not abandoning him by ending this relationship. He lives with SEVERAL people. He is not YOUR responsibility. Perhaps you have a savior thing going on in addition to your codependence issue?
You NEED to prioritize therapy for yourself. Go, right now, and find one. RIGHT. NOW. Call a friend and ask for a recommendation. Call your medical doctor and ask for a recommendation. Google and find a therapist in your area who specializes in codependence. And start seeing the therapist ASAP. If it turns out the therapist is a bad match for you–which is quite common–find another one. You're making excuses at this point, instead of getting help. Which is exactly what your boyfriend does.
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It's not fair to have that “if you leave me I'll kill myself” gun pointed at your head.
It’s also a basic plot of Jerry Springer episodes
You were her emotional crutch. She sought out someone else to be her sexual crutch. Her libido was only low for you, not the other guy. Let that sink in. She only wanted you to stay in her life to be her emotional hug doll, nothing more. She brings no value to your future.
If your condition is that she go on birth control, that's a tall ask my dude. So many women don't respond well to it and even the ones who are more or less okay still have tend to have some side effect(s) that they'd rather not deal with. 2 forms of contraception as a condition is fair. Insisting that one of those must be a hormonal birth control would be absurd.
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Why do you think your wife needs to meet her grandmother, who ignored her son's horrendous abuse of your wife? Who refuses to acknowledge she raised a monster and turned a blind eye to him nearly killing her granddaughter?
And who is even now completely disrespecting your wife because she thinks her abusive son deserves the chance to inflict more pain and stress on your wife?
Can you explain why you and your wife have any reason to trust or believe she is any different from the selfish person she has always been? She is the woman who thinks her son, who beat and terrorized your wife as a child, then threw her out of the family, is an innocent man who deserves to meet his son-in-law and grandchild.
She's a wicked, evil old woman who does not deserve the consideration you and your wife are affording her.
It's bring given to you, not your partner. He can live elsewhere if he doesn't like it. His feelings of indebtedness are his problem. He needs to work on that and not make it your problem too.
Your boyfriend doesn't get a say in this.
This is your dad giving you a house.
If he doesn't want to feel in debt. Tell him that he can pay rent.
So you wouldn't cry if you found out that your partner, who you agreed to marry, not only didn't trust you enough to tell you about their transition, but made up a fake sibling to avoid telling you the truth? You wouldn't feel hurt by that? Not even a little?
Enjoy this trip to be close to her and then chat openly with her
Everyone here is telling you to not tell her but honestly, I think you should if it is causing you to feel so much guilt you know? If you don't tell her you will always think about it. Get it off your chest. I don't think your gf will react badly since you were single at that time, if she does I'm sure you can work it out and if you can't then maybe she isnt the one.
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I (22f) have been with my husband (38m) for just about 2 years, married for 1.
We met at my college, on the first day. I was moving some stuff into my dorm and he offered to help carry the boxes as my father wanted to leave. I never really questioned why he was at my college, because I was just grateful for the help.
After he moved my boxes in we started chatting and found we had loads in common! I was ecstatic when he asked me on a date.
We kept dating and saw each other basically every day for a year. I was in love. So when he asked me to marry him I didn't even hesitate.
This is where the issues began.
I found out that he had 3 kids, that he hadn't mentioned. But I was so blindly in love I didn't care. It took me posting on AITA and people thrashing in the comments to understand the red flags.
He assumes that I should do all the housework as that was what his ex wife did, even though I have a job thats meant to put me through college (I still attend)
I work long hours and I study on campus yet he's listed me on his children's school as their immediate emergency contact.
Although there are some positives, he never lets me pay for anything, refuses to accept my money. And he takes me on date nights every friday evening that I have off from work.
His kids are wonderful, even if we have some rocky moments.
But I don't know.
Youre literally harming her right now by forcing her to live with your wife
Sounds like the woman hopes OPs husband had the same character defect she has… wanting something that isn't available. I bet her marriage was setup for this purpose
I got maybe 4 posts down and went yo wtf and left promptly.
The difficulty is, would it seem like a blame placing game if I start off telling her this. From the uncountable accounts of conflicts, I was always reminded that I should pacify her first, admit my mistake and rectify for that – before we even kickstart for any meaningful discussion. Sorry for another follow up 🙁
Maybe… As I was writing this reply I realized that a while ago I stopped having sexual cravings because I was feeling too sexualized by his horniness, every time we'd make out he wanted it and not in a way where we'd set the mood and make it happen, it was all too automatic and it was making me feel bad… So yes, he has never known how to set the mood for us… And I'm his first gf, so I get why he doesn't know how to do it… But since I posted here we started talking a bit through text and I was able to introduce the topic, he understood my point and we'll talk about it when we meet, but I already feel more confident cause he kinda admitted that he doesn't know how to set the mood…
Sexism aside, the second option is better for everyone. OP's boyfriend can just find a different woman who loves anal sex, and they will probably have a great sexual relationship. Continuing this relationship is only going to instill feelings of discomfort about sex in OP while instilling feelings of shame and frustration about sex for the bf. Very toxic for both parties
Don’t worry about it. It will probably be something to laugh about later.