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Date: January 12, 2023
Even if she was a lesbian, it doesn't bar you from hanging out with her. He's being weird and controlling.
Then POOF! He deletes his account lol
It may be painful in the short term but if you love her and value her happiness (and your own), leave so she can find someone who wants the same things in life because if you rob her of this, whether by lying and staying and having a kid you never wanted or by staying and not having a kid when she wants one, she is going to have lifelong regret. Leave her so you both may seek happiness with someone more compatible. Ultimately, you would be unhappy if you had a kid you didn’t want, the kid would suffer, your girlfriend would suffer, just not a good idea. If you don’t let her go live her life the way she wants to, she will resent you overtime until she eventually leaves you. I’m sorry you are in this predicament. I hope you both go on to lead happy lives, truly.
I love hearing about this. can you tell me how the “disrespectful” comment may come up?
I think it's very forward, but depending on how much you two dirty talk then it mayyyy be alright? I think you could say “It's honestly too bad the wedding was postponed because I was looking forward to seeing more/all of you” and it'd be a little less intense. It's really up to you two though, regardless I'd consider it a tease.
Unfortunately we have friends in common. I will have to tell them not to mention his name when I am around.
That’s your (lengthy) assessment of it, that’s for sure…?
I usually don't reply to these as most people say what I need to but I am so sorry for what you are going through. It's exhausting and can really bring you down. I know everyone is quick to say break up but I think at least a temporary separation would be good. Your wife seems very opposed to working on herself and a separation might make her reflect on things and take counseling more seriously. Even if that fails I think you just need a moment to yourself. You have been trying to mold yourself to fit someone else for so long and it seems she has put no effort to fit you. I hope you allow yourself time and find a support group or even some people just to talk to. My boyfriend and I are very open about attraction with no jealousy and if there were we would be able to discuss it and move on. She is repeatedly bringing up the past- either she needs to moves on or she can stay in the same cycle. I truly wish you all the best.
She sounds like she's suffering from some form of mental illness. She is aggressive and abusive.
Oh I see, so you were seeing your fiance before your divorce was even finalized. This tells me that you were either cheating or that she was a rebound. I think you and your ex need to admit to each other that you are still emotionally involved. That is why neither one of you wants to dissolve the business or let one of you buy the other out.
You need to admit to your fiance that the only reason you got with her was because you wanted a child. You also need to admit to her that you are not over your ex and let her move on to someone who really wants to be with her.
I don't want to be a downer here but THC at a young age (especially for men) has serious ties to early onset alzheimer's or weaker long-term memory.
1) you don't sound toxic at all. 2) this can happen, especially in long distance relationships that are not as strong as one party thinks 3) He has needs and you have needs. You may not fell love the same way (more on that below) 4) Instagram is staged. Some if it us actually green screen. Do not use it as a basis of normal any more than you would a Disney movie. 5) You can't read his mind or see his life. This is an issue
OK, first, you didn't say why you are apart or for how long. A LDR is very difficult to maintain, especially at younger ages. You both need to work.
Second, guys are clueless. He may think that if he is happy, you are happy. He may think he can set you down, do other things and you'll be right where he left you, waiting.
Third, you are not getting the love you need. He may love you unconditionally and be ring shopping, but he isn't giving you the type of love you need. When I was just a little older than you, I got the book “Five Love Languages” by Dr Gary Chapman.
Ask you BF if you can send him a book that you need him to study. Buy one for each of you. Write in it on the margins anything you realize as you read it. Swap books when done. There is a 93 question test to determine what your love languages are (most have a primary and secondary, some have 3). If he feels love primarily through physical touch (hugs, hand holding, a gentle caress) then video calls suck. It's like going to a restaurant hungry with no money. If your's is gift giving, then leaving a flower unpicked is a missed expression of love.
You need to understand each other. You need to express love in a way the other can receive it. If he is frustrated he might be pulling back. He might no even understand that his love displayed to you isn't seen or understood.
I do feel empathy. But it makes me feel like I'm less.
If what your friend says is true, ask to look at his messages with your wife.
99.99% chance he is lying about that too and you need to get a divorce
Exactly what I was thinking
There are plenty of expensive things you can buy for yourself. You have someone who wants to make you happy, that's more important. Yes, you had a plan/goal but these things change, and in your case it's wonderful that it changed coz of someone's loving gesture. Apologize to her, and in the future be more mindful of how you word your feelings.
Honestly I don’t know. I’d like to think I can but idk if I can put my feelings aside for that, idk if I’m that mature.
If not meeting his family is a dealbreaker you should communicate that. And you should probably also talk to him about your insecurities.
Maybe come to terms with the fact that he’s not as far along his journey as you and that means he may not be ready for his sexuality to affect his other relationships the way that it may.
But honestly you’ve known him less then a year and dating a month. If you don’t trust him and don’t believe he’s gay or bi enough for you to have a meaningful relationship you probably shouldn’t be in a relationship with him.
I’ve thought about that, like I said in other comment, I give him all the money to pay for everything. I know everything we pay and the numbers add up. But I always have that weird feeling on my chest. I always have to beg him for us to go out, not to spend, but to have a nice chat outside of the house. And I always have to make sure he doesn’t buy something we can’t afford.
Not as much as you think they do.
Telling a fun joke or two never hurt a good time
I would Not even consider dating the jersey. He has shown he doesn't really care about your feelings because he keeps pushing an issue you've made clear.
Why have you asked him for divorce so many times?
I have more to say and I will, but this is important.
Happy Belated Birthday, and Congratulations on finding out that you do actually have at least one friend. I’m sorry the rest of those people disappointed you, but on the upside “now you know”, as they say.
I personally would just ignore them. A month of notice, and a 4 day reminder, with a text the night before, means that their actions, however hurtful to you were a choice they made. And they may have truly thought they were each the only one skipping the festivities, but it still doesn’t excuse them. Assholes, one and all.
If you want to keep them in your life as social acquaintances, that’s up to you, but I wouldn’t waste any effort on the. Give me one friend who shows up over 50 that don’t.
I guess it highly depends on her feelings around abortion no?
That would be a very mellow manic…? Once the breaks go, it often goes way harder. Plus lack of sleep etc becomes more obvious to a spouse.
I see things in a different light when you clarify how you believe she experiences my behavior, perhaps i am colored by my own experiences during the weekdays i have spent at home to fully realize that she may well experience entirely different things.
We usually spend 1-2 hours every evening with each other, and the same amount of time before falling asleep.
Can't say don't take it to heart, that'd be rude, but understand that it's okay. And it'll be okay. You can't do anything about not being compatible, and atleast it was only two months… little positive things like that are what you need, along with maybe a chance of pace in various ways. I remember being depressed after breaking up (but it was more because of how it happened, or rather what led to it) for two months, what helped me was doing various things that made me feel more positive about life and the coming days. But it took me two months to even get to a point where I could think of those things, so it tells you how bad it can get, only for things to get better. I'm not an expert though, this is just my little personal experience in how to move on. Take it with a teaspoon of salt.
You’re very welcome. To be honest it sounds like you’ve got a good understanding of this situation and he doesn’t like that you’ve seen through his half-truths. He might be doing this out of habit after being bullied about being on the spectrum. Maybe rather than trying to pin down past facts and figures you could rule a line under the past. Tell him that the truth in future is all you need. Take the pressure of reconciling past lies away so you can walk forward together.
It sounds like your wife never moved on from her ex.
You're lucky you don't have kids right now, if you're a one person household. Why is she working against you and not with you?
She's spending like she's earning money that can be spent, she's not supporting you in anyway. This is the most important thing, if you had kids would you be happy with her treating them like this?
Please, do not let this woman be the mother of your children. You deserve better, and so do your kids.
I mean don’t press him on the issue. Sometimes people make things up or stretch the truth to make themselves look or feel better.