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Room for online sex video chat Estelle_NightSun
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Date: January 8, 2023
Yeah, I know. I left him in November. We had been together for so long and I put up with other stuff too. I pity him a lot and I don't think he's a bad person, he just has a lot of growing up to do. I realize that I enabled his behavior and was too scared of his reaction (and still in love with him) to do anything about it. I think I was also kind of emotionally checked out already. We also lived together.
Make small goals and make a pointed effort to meet them. Put them on paper or a calendar and gradually increase the kind of goal..from getting out of bed at a certain time or cleaning an area of your place or growing a plant. See how you feel after and if you feel good keep going but if you still feel rotten on the inside you might need some help. Even with all the effort if our brains are missing something we gotta get help. Hang in there, take it step by step and keep moving forward.
You voiced your opinion and suggestions. You can’t do anything else. But if you spend the night with her. Go to sleep when you are tired and ready for bed. Just because she stays up late doesn’t mean you have to.
You obviously can’t trust this guy, make sure you go no contact after you’ve left him, this entire situation is ridiculous and irredeemable, some people aren’t worth the effort you’re putting into them
The back rub thing wouldn't be an issue if she didn't used to do it all the time. Now. It's literally the one thing I ask and it doesn't happen.. just feels like a piling on of disrespect..
She has gained at least 66 pounds in the last year and she is quite short.
Do you know this for a fact or are you just guessing? That's 30 kilos or an additional 4 stone 10 pounds. To put that much weight on in 12months is a huge concern and she should see a doctor.
In any case, you should break up with her if you aren't attracted to her. You're 22, you've been dating for 6 months, don't feel obliged to stay in a relationship.
35, it doubled. Down to twice a day and cuddling in between
Don’t drink
Thanks for this. Maybe I just needed someone who’s going thru the same things my wife does to understand and know more on how to handle her.
As a guy, he is full of shit and he got caught out.
As a guy, he is full of shit and he got caught out.
Bravo on your self awareness. It’s great. Take a deep breath and practice some cognitive therapy. Slow down and enjoy the process of a relationship. You’ve got this. ?
This is manipulation, he wants to “keep you on your toes”. He thinks you'll do more for him, be more submissive, insecure and anxious if you think he has many other options in the world.
The best thing to do is tell him that he is free to take up with those women as you are out.
Or – you can reply back: Jim at the gym, Barry at work, 3 guys from college are still circling. Give him your list of “options”.
It could be possible that he is just clueless. A lot of guys are. He could have just been talking out his ass.
Question, did they use you as a mocap model for bullet dodging in the new Matrix movie? Because they should have if they didn’t
So yeah don't tell her for sure lol. You'd only hurt her. I liked the suggestion of thinking of a different fetish to have and saying that's what it is and you just felt embarrassed lol. Or tell her you don't really have any fetishes but you have a fantasy and tell her about that.
Some feet are prettier than others. You can't help that fact. I've posted some feet pics on reddit and looked through the other photos and some of them are just not that attractive looking. And I felt bad for thinking it because it made me feel conceited, I don't think my feet are better than everyone's feet, but they're definitely better than some lol. There is a difference in feet and when it's one of the things that gets you going you're totally allowed to have a preference lol.
Discuss it with her after the job interview. Don’t stress her out more before then. But yes, you do need to raise this issue, and you do need to work out the details of how this debt will be handled BEFORE you get married. Also you should have a VERY clear picture of each other’s finances/debt/income/savings/etc. before you get married.
Also, I strongly recommend not getting married until BOTH of you are at least 25 years old. Statistically you are basically begging for a divorce otherwise. ANd there is no rush to get married.
I agree we need some counseling. I’m trying to figure out how to make that happen. Thank you for commenting
Not counting the hang outs where there was my friends as well, I've asked her twice, one time to got eat with me, she said yes and we went but it wasn't really a date I think and one time the one I said in the post and she was busy and said no. So you think, saying something like “do you want to go watch … with me tomorow” tomorrow being valentines day, is explicit enough?
It’s definitely not a porn position for the guy to be on his back and the giver to just be in between his legs, in which case yes, they’re definitely leaning on their elbows and forearms. Literally how else are you supposed to suck dick in a horizontal position without using your elbows?
The problem isn’t elbows. It’s out drinking till 3 with other men.
But she's been expecting a whole 3 hours now!!! Surely she deserves a pedestal
You sound like a dumbass who can't keep a partner. I literally told you the answer and you wanted to cry about it. You're not worth a serious answer.
I’d walk away. Take him up on the ‘your single bowl comment. A truely good partner wouldn’t do that.
As for how he could be ‘so sweet’ all the time and totally different now. Different alcohols can affect people differently. My partner can’t drink scotch because he becomes an arsehole who wants to fight everyone, he knows it and just doesn’t drink it (he worked this out before I met him)
You don't need proof to leave a relationship.
Don't waste any more time in a relationship where there's no trust.
Sometimes the wake up call people need is for the ramifications to be laid out in black and white. You can justify and make excuses and be brainwashed by your abusive partner, but when there are very simply defined legal consequences it puts things into perspective how messed up the situation is.
This was just black eye. Imagine if he becomes disfigured? Yikes.
“Just don’t care”
You’re an idiot and should not be owning an illegal firearm.
Aww thank you! Yeah the yellow isnt my fav either. Not bad just not popping like some others have. Im overdue to change colors and yall are riling me up about it! Lol
I think that would really help in the future. Thank you for that. We’re pretty good at being vulnerable with each other, but I probably should initiate that more.
Thank you again
i'm a state employee (obviously a little different in the states than it is up there, but it's govt work either way) and they usually pay for us to have our own rooms even if we are the same gender
Le gouvernement provincial du Québec qui force des collègues de sexe opposés a partager une chambre sonne comme un cauchemard RH.
Really? I’m surprised
So I have been on both sides of this. Inviting people over whether to house parties or birthday parties and they don’t show up or cancel last minute has been a recurring theme until I decided I was done with this and literally stopped inviting these fake “friends” and only invite the ones where there’s a mutual likeness and respect. Problem solved ever since.
The instance where I was on the other side of this. It was during that time, around those same people. One “friend” invited us over for a house party and I was the only one who showed up. Now while I completely understand how hurt my friend was (these same people did this to me too many times). He still didn’t care that I showed up and that hurt the most. He literally told me to leave saying he’s cancelling and no way he could have any fun now. It was incredibly hurtful.
I hope you treated the friend who showed up better than my ex-friend treated me. Also please don’t invite these people again. There are better people out there that would love to spend time with you and you wouldn’t have to ask twice.
Happy birthday!
Haha people believe this is real
Like even tonight she is coming over to have dinner with me, last night we had some of the best sex of our relationship
Haha people believe this is real
Compatability matters, I've had my own experience with one sided libido, it sparks resentment that grows into a wildfire the longer it goes on. Everything else can be perfect but people have needs. Like marriage, kids, finances, if you two want different things, it's not going to work out. Hopefully you can end things amicably, explain that it's an issue for you, that you don't want or expect her to change. You can still love her but not be right for each other, people telling you to suck it up are projecting their own unhappiness. To me they sound like “my parents fought constantly but they loved each other, so why is it a problem when we fight?”
Okay, so you seem to want to be moving forward at a rapid pace and are not focusing on anything other than this guy whose super busy.
My advice, find someone with more time if this is what you want.
Nobody cares what you think of our private parts.
I mean I wouldn't date her, but you know she's down for a friends with benefits deal.
Yes. I agree. But she denies it to this day.
You're expecting too much from a long distance relationship where you've never met, IMO. I've had long distance relationships before, but sometimes they're just not the same in person. For me, a relationship where you've met and felt chemistry can be maintained online and long distance, but it's never really a done deal before you've met in person and confirmed you both still feel the same way.
Her going to college absolutely explains her having less time for you, but honestly, it sounds like she's not as excited about you as you are about her. Kinda reminds me of my first girlfriend, though we met and spent a couple months together in person before going off to college. Soon after she left for college, it seemed like she suddenly had no time for me, ever, and I couldn't figure out what had happened. She broke up with me not long after, with no particular reason given. A few months later, she told me she was lesbian, but hadn't figured that out yet when we started dating, and wasn't comfortable telling me when she initially broke up with me. What you're describing sounds to me like that intermediate time when she was considerably less interested but didn't know how to tell me yet.
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Again, you ignore the difference in consequences. Male infidelity does not put a woman at risk of raising not her children without her knowledge. In fact in many uncivilised places, even when the husband proves the child is result of adultery he still needs to pay alimony on it.
There are issues that put women at legal or real life disadvantage, and the opposite is true as well.
By the way, a different friend has proclaimed she will never allow herself to be dependent on her partner (now husband). She has stated to trust him, but will always do things that will ensure that in case of betrayal she will have financial and real life security. This attitude is a result of her family history, but you dislike anecdotal evidence as excuse for actions and beliefs, don't you?
She even had him incorporate a house given to him as gift to marital commonwealth (even though it was given during marriage it would be usually solely his property, per law of my country).
Tell me, is she wrong in her attitude?
Girl this man had to have his friend TELL HIM TO STOP CALLING YOU A BITCH. Are you kidding me??? Him wanting a paternity test is not the only issue here.
I’m glad you got help, but please realize expecting someone to be your emotional lifeboat for multiple years is… a big ask. It’s not a moral failing for OP to not want to do that.
This sounds like you're jealous or something to me because all she basically said was that she's enjoying her man. Not that she hates everyone else. I don't see why this needs to be discussed nor why you are losing sleep over it nor why you would hurt her feelings about this. Maybe you could talk with a professional to get to the root of some things.
You just tell her. You keep it to “I” statements. “It hurt my feelings when we were talking after the concert and you said you only have fun with boyfriend, I know I haven’t been the best company lately, you mean so much to me, it just made me sad”
Yup. My boss hasn't eaten meat in like 20+ years and was a strict vegan for most of that time.
When his family comes to his barbecues he'll cook their meat, prepare dishes for them etc. he won't buy it generally, but is totally compatible with meat eaters.
Good friends/customers will sometimes bring us in food and will bring him meat dishes even though they've known him for years because they never realized he has a plant based diet
You know you don’t deserve this. Only you know what’s best in your situation, but I was in a similar one once and it slowly rotted our relationship. I always feared his next outburst. I broke up with him.
Isolated Manipulated into failing school/career Told to prioritize obedience
How many abuser flags does this guy need to wave?
Don't walk away, run!
Your boyfriend is an insecure child. You might want to date someone with more maturity.
So… it's by your doing? It sounds like they're probably just friends, and you're being insecure tbh
It’s almost like…y’all just met. This is so weird. I’ve even been on like third dates where this stuff was discussed. Have y’all never discussed wanting or not wanting kids either?