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How does someone you met 2 days ago even rise to the level of “partner” in either of your minds? That sounds unhealthy to me. I assume that inexperience has something to do with it, from both sides.
If you want a healthy and serious relationship, tell him to slow the fuck down. You are responsible for setting your own boundaries and not letting the love-bombing overtake you. For your own happiness and safety.
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If it was a guy that called a girl fatter than his previous gf. Or having smaller tits than his previous gf. And his current girl had the same reaction as OPs boyfriend, Reddit would have crucified the dude already.
Yes, but they are a team and need to work through it together. Just because he’s insecure about it and it bothers him doesn’t mean OP should throw her hands up and say well you deal with this. I mean she can do that but it’s not the way to a healthy relationship.
So this is going to be your life forever and then you die? I mean you are 31 and you have already given up on your life anyway.
You are not compatible and this is not a normal relationship. I read this as “nothing is good but at least he doesn't hit me” kind of thing.
I am not in your shoes but I do wonder why you even stay in your shoes…
This behavior is NOT going to improve…at least not without therapy. Do whatever you have to do to get yourself out of that relationship. Relationships that start out like this one can end up as an episode of 48 Hours or Forensic Files. Good luck. ❤️
It depends on how willing and committed each person is towards their individual growth and recovery.
No one expects you to grow and heal from trauma alone. People with damaging pasts can end up codependent on their partners, which isn’t healthy ma
It’s like building a house. If both individuals are shaky and have no real foundation, whatever is built is going to fall apart that much easier. Can you still have a relationship with the good parts? Sure. But if you don’t have the necessary skills to work through anxiety, trauma, and aren’t equipped to handle certain stressors… that house will topple right back down.
You have to have love to give love. You have to have peace of mind and stability before you try building that with someone else.
Then just do it movie style and tell him before you move, that way he wont feel pressured to give you a fast answer and you wont be able to see him anyways
Trust your gut, those weird feelings are there for a reason. Don't get caught up in the manipulation, because this is not what love looks like. You got this.
This, exactly. This is why I don't have social media, other than anonymous accounts, and I keep potentially harmful opinions to myself in real life.
Sounds like he has a kink. I think given you mentioned his mental health issues therapy is the right call for you two.
Totally. I wouldn’t like this communication style either for what it’s worth, but some ppl are like this.
My partner wasn’t great at texting when we first started dating. I asked him for a, b, and c later in the relationship and he was happy to do so, a total 180 flip.
Perhaps you are just coming on a bit strong with the singing. A person humming and making noise all the time is annoying. Singing romantic songs to him is cheesy and awkward. Asking his opinion regarding something he knows nothing about and doesn't interest him, then expecting validation and feedback, is not fair. Your family and friends are happy to watch your videos and cheer you on because it only takes like, 5 minutes out of their day. Your boyfriend has to live with it non-stop. You just don't have a good balance and respect for his boundaries.
There is a difference between someone not supporting you and someone trying to communicate that your hobby is disruptive. If you need to practice, perhaps you need to rent some studio space. Or perhaps you have a set schedule for practice time at home and limit the non-stop humming when he is around. And if you do sing and hum after he has asked you to limit it, don't be offended if he does seek out quiet time away from you.
Get legal advice
leave him alone. your relationship is over. it is time to move on. stay friends with an EX is rare. most people can’t do it even if they say they could.
I think you have to just let that pony run, sadly. We never really know why minds diverge, but when they do, it isn't the end of the world.
If she’s significantly higher up, I’d be concerned about a possible power dynamic issue.
But the touchy-ness definitely seems like some sort of flirting.
Nothing you said has shown you understand her. She told you what she wanted, you told her what you wanted and your angry that it didn’t match up. You can’t blame her for the sacrifices you made in order to match up with her.
Nothing you said has shown you understand her. She told you what she wanted, you told her what you wanted and your angry that it didn’t match up. You can’t blame her for the sacrifices you made in order to match up with her.
Honey, just break up! Constant fighting, scaring you and thinking he is innocent, he is actually toxic!
Forgive me if my math is off, but you “dated” online from ages 12 to 15. You’ve now been broken up for as long as you were together. Is that right?
Yeah, your gf barfing over your middle school boyfriend is not normal behavior. Therapy at least.
Your call
“She then said that I’m really annoying”
“I feel a bit hurt by what she said”
…what?
You are being financially abused, and abused in general. If I were you, unless you think that your wife has the capacity to listen, be fair and change, I would take her up on the divorce and leave her ass.
Based on photos, he knows it's his? Come on.
And no that’s not normal in a relationship.
Lol imagine thinking that your normal is everyone's normal.
Human beings are weird. We can be attracted to people for no reason at all – maybe it's the way they talk, maybe it's the way they look. While it doesn't happen to everyone, people can have crushes. And no, you don't have to talk to a person romantically to have a crush.
Either you have never dealt with that or you are in so much denial that you don't even see it, or you are just a kid who hasn't been in a relationship.
That’s true .. he keeps saying it is safe since it’s only to people he knows … and we have a solid healthy history before all this … but yea I absolutely don’t want to marry a dealer
the comment he made about society being too “woke” to recognize a relationship like that is a BIG red flag. having the feelings and acting on them are two very different things, but it is! yikes! that he appears to think that a relationship between the two of them could be feasible.
pedophiles cannot help their attraction to children. but it does not mean they have to act on those thoughts. i think it may be best for him to seek therapy — he won’t listen to you if you tell him to create distance (which he definitely should). a therapist may find him more healthy ways to deal with his… feelings? anyway. try and find a therapist and keep an eye on the situation. if things escalate call for help from someone else immediately.
He feels really insecurity, like if you go secretly to an organise each month.
Make it clear he had his daughter and you have your glamping. No one has to ask the other to abandon it.
He feels really insecurity, like if you go secretly to an organise each month.
Make it clear he had his daughter and you have your glamping. No one has to ask the other to abandon it.
Have some self respect.
Well I don’t ride that line at all so please don’t say I do
Exactly
He have depressive thoughts lately. I’ve been supporting him the best I could for several months, and finally convinced him to go to therapy. Sadly, it is hard to keep helping him when I am experiencing a very stressful situation with my job.
I should make this clear. Still not sure if I’ll ETA or just delete the post all together. But I pay all of my personal bills and our cell phones, he pays ALL of the household bills. Childcare would come out of our joint savings. He pays the mortgage, taxes, water, sewer, gas, electric, cable/internet, his health insurance, household groceries, the health insurance for the kids, etc. HE IS PAYING a lot out of pocket, far more than I am for household bills.