Relationships always have problems but loving partners don't pretend to stop talking to someone and then go talk to that person behind their partner's back. They don't let others talk mean things about their partner. Op's husband is basically looking a way out and op leaving would be the best outcome for both of them.
We had sex but that was it!
Yeah no shade but this sub has a bit of a “gossip at Christian summer camp” vibe that may not produce a great answer.
Yes, maybe in an EU country like France or Poland.
Would that really make a difference when he is trying to control her appearance?
Congratulations for your graduation.
Don't worry. Just go get your degree.
It's your Hard work. So don't think unwanted. Just planned to celebrate your graduation.
Currently your brother also planning his marriage celebration. So why you confused.
All the best for your future.
OP don't want to accept their BF is a dick. Probably too scared to be leave him and be single.
Relationships always have problems but loving partners don't pretend to stop talking to someone and then go talk to that person behind their partner's back. They don't let others talk mean things about their partner. Op's husband is basically looking a way out and op leaving would be the best outcome for both of them.