I’m trying not to be judge mental here. With that said, let’s boil this down to syrup. If your wife was a single mom the conventional (and to my mind, correct) advice is to not bring the guy you are dating around until you are serious.
In this case you are bringing around the less serious “fun” relationship around your daughter and hoping she doesn’t get attached. This is madness.
I don't think I'd be with someone low on cash and unwilling to get their 100 bucks back. But I'm also in my 30s and don't want someone lazy. Do you want to date someone who is passive in their own life?
Yeah. The point of my comment is that she has options: she can literally keep dating her boyfriend if she moves out and becomes financially independent. She can get Pell Grants for college by being financially emancipated from her parents. It's a process but I did it when I was 19. Luckily, I had several credible witnesses about the abuse I endured that allowed me to be emancipated; one was a youth counselor, another was my Pastor at the time, and then I had a letter from myself as well, detailing what I'd been through. Anyhow, she could always wait a year or so to go back to college. I think most states stop asking for parental financial information around 24-26 years old.
In my country when 9 year olds don't listen they get slapped. I used to get hit with a variety of objects.
If you just told the story you would have gotten some replies
I’m trying not to be judge mental here. With that said, let’s boil this down to syrup. If your wife was a single mom the conventional (and to my mind, correct) advice is to not bring the guy you are dating around until you are serious.
In this case you are bringing around the less serious “fun” relationship around your daughter and hoping she doesn’t get attached. This is madness.
If he's lazy, he's lazy.
I don't think I'd be with someone low on cash and unwilling to get their 100 bucks back. But I'm also in my 30s and don't want someone lazy. Do you want to date someone who is passive in their own life?
Why do you feel sorry for those people? I know I’m far too busy to care about writing what happens in my day and don’t need pity for it.
Yeah. The point of my comment is that she has options: she can literally keep dating her boyfriend if she moves out and becomes financially independent. She can get Pell Grants for college by being financially emancipated from her parents. It's a process but I did it when I was 19. Luckily, I had several credible witnesses about the abuse I endured that allowed me to be emancipated; one was a youth counselor, another was my Pastor at the time, and then I had a letter from myself as well, detailing what I'd been through. Anyhow, she could always wait a year or so to go back to college. I think most states stop asking for parental financial information around 24-26 years old.
Please explain to me why you think it’s perfectly okay to threaten and spit on people you don’t like.