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Date: October 4, 2022
Communication is a HUGE thing in the lifestyle. Are you in the wrong? Both yes and no. It's he in the wrong yes, and again kinda not.
Communication is what's lacking in most relationships, but it is so very important in the swinging and bdsm lifestyle.
I use the ol Bugs Bunny analogy. If no one tells you to turn left at Albuquerque, you certainly won't turn left at Albuquerque.
You didn't know the limits because the limits he didn't tell you the limits, but you didn't ask either. On the flip side of that coin, he most certainly should have brought up that limit.
Now is the time to BOTH acknowledge the mistake of not communicating, and make that promise to EACH OTHER that you'll communicate every detail, no matter how minor it may seem.
You'll find an entire new level of respect and closeness you've never experienced.
Feel free to shoot a message and I'll try answer any questions you have
That's the best you can do….but you'll be fine.
She is choosing them that part is her responsibility and she can do better obviously. However, at the same time HE SHOULDNT BE CHEATING ON HIS GIRLFRIEND. It's not her fault he's a cheater. If it wasn't her it would be someone else. Your blaming the wrong person. I always find it weird that people get mad at the person who their so cheated on them with and not the dang cheater. It's not her fault the dude is a POS
this might sounds obsessive hahaha but i remember most things he says, it’s just like i’m in awe, he’s beautiful ? he normally remembers things i say, and he’ll always follow up with me and ask how it went! i’m not sure if he’s just being friendly or he is genuinely into me!
Love does not mean what you think it means.
If you cared even just a little about your girlfriend, you would break up with her and spare her.
The 2 hour sessions behind closed doors are definitely sus. He says he's satisfied with his therapist? I bet. ?
Yeah that’s an ultimatum and a threat.
Ffs. Do NOT email the professors. This will do nothing. It is your word against hers, if you have no proof. She will also still be allowed to Complete her degree. She is not a practicing professional, she does not have a license.. at best.. she is a drunk roommate giving you unsolicited advice.
The group of people completing psych degrees I graduated with, are highly questionable at best. Some were doing a degree so they could decipher their own trauma.
I would let her know: – you regret telling her your life history – you did not give permission for this conversation to be shared. telling her boyfriend about you was completely unacceptable for a friend/ roommate.. let alone a person going into psychology professionally. – her drunk behavior made you uncomfortable and felt like you were forced to share – her sober behavior is concerning bc she went through your medication (so obviously you are seeing a professional with more experience than she) And she talked to her f*cking boyfriend about a personal convo!! – reset boundaries with her. Like, we are not discussing my mental health.. it’s under control. She needs to acknowledge this was shitty behavior both sober and drunk. And you need to put in a plan of what else you are not comfortable with as a roommate. It’s not okay she went through your stuff and drew conclusions from prescriptions and coerced you into talking.
She’s just cringy, and thinks she is very smart. If she is not receptions to this boundary talk, then apply the threat of telling her professors or moving out. She honestly sounds lonely, clueless and overall shitty as a person.
That’s what I assumed. (Never heard it called a temperature check though, that’s cute & spot on)
When the hubs and I first met… we both had already had a bad/serious relationship behind us. We talked about this all before our first date, just to make sure we were looking for the same things, in general of course.
That was 2 decades ago.
Right – I meant that his expectation that everyone is topless (like the servers at the bar he’s dying to visit) versus he COULD see boobs is out of whack. Thank you for helping me clarify. ?
What you should do is leave and let your boyfriend find someone who will love and respect him the way he deserves.
I don't usually think this of people, but considering your blatant disregard for someone you claim to care about, you're a horrible person.
Find a consenting and mutual polyamorous relationship, and stop cheating. You're not in “that type of relationship” all you're doing is being a cheater.
I didn’t even know painal was a thing. As someone turned on by the taboo of anal I must say painal turns me off. Far too aggressive, the point is to make sex pleasurable.
I barely have time to sleep with my GF lol, there's so much to do in life aside from flirting and fucking other people. I always wondered if these kind of people just live a simpler life, so many cool hobbies you can do as a couple and by yourself plus if you get a competitive workplace you really don't have that much time to go be unfaithful somewhere.
I feel like having sex with two people during the same timeframe is too much of a hassle, I would break up and change at most. I bet you 10 bucks your ex will be single at 30 y/o and will get bitter over time because of it. Sounds like he overestimates himself and it's on course for a reality check as he gets older.
That’s out of context… re-read it. He’s not insecure about her LEAVING him because he knows she loves him…
Maybe read the part a little further down… you know… this part “I know I’m in the wrong feeling that way. I don’t want to control her or make her feel controlled in any way”.
You are free to do sex work, but he is also free to break up with you.
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Not many places hire strippers over 25
It really sucks being cheated on and I have given 2 cheating boyfriends a second chance in the past and they both cheated again within a few weeks.
You're young and I'm sure you're a smart, beautiful, and strong woman. It shouldn't be hard to chart a new path forward with someone new who respects you and your relationship. If you forgave this jerk you'd just be settling for being treated as though you're second best and you deserve much better than that. Good luck for a happy future without having to deal with a cheating jerk.
Go for it. You only live twice
I got a skin rash when visiting my brother in Prague. I had to remove all my rings – including my engagement ring. I wore it as a necklace.
I told my now husband as soon as I got the rash and what I planned.
Try talking to her about it.
I don’t think anyone should be saying dick about what happened with her loan. She actually sounds pretty responsible for a 20-year old.
You pig
I mean she could have gone to the doctor about her sudden anger and mood swings that were impacting her life, and the doctor could have recommended therapy or a psychiatrist. The fact that she didn't try to do anything about it (and was taking her anger out on her husband) and just kind of handwaves it away when asking him about another kid is concerning, and OP has every right to be pissed that she didn't try to mitigate it in any way. But yeah, they're both a little delusional about how much a doctor can actually do here about this, and how much her hormones can be controlled during pregnancy.
My nephew has a 12 yr old 125lbs of muscle, German Shepard /Labrador/ Rottweiler/ Husky mix. Gentlest dog you will ever meet. He knew my Mom had Alzheimer's (mind you she never forget him)…he would lay on her lap to get hugs …walk slowly next to her if she was unsteady…walked behind his human brothers as babies to catch them if they fell.
So your dog has lots of potential! Having said that…his parents did lots of work.
From the time he was a pup he was taken to training. Every year they did more training & followed through at home. He also gets a ton of daily exercise & interactions at the dog park, so that he is not bored. He has toys for his size & strength. Constant interaction.
I imagine you know, large dogs do not do well in apartments. Your husband may want to rethink keeping the dog. Re-homing to someone who has time to train it might be better..for BOTH…
No, how can you say that. OP clearly states it is NOT a veiled attempt to get out. /s
If you were in the wife's shoes, what would you want the other woman to do?
I just want him to talk to my dad again.
What?
Yeah I guess
I asked her to tell me but she told me to wait till home. That's playing games, emotionally draining me, and she doesn't seem to mind. I wish I knew why.
You have to have some respect for yourself. We've all been there at one point or another but just block her. You'll thank yourself in 3 months.
Ya'll, I'm pretty sure this is the well known fake that Ebbie has been warning people about.
Lmao, do you really believe that? Have you seen who is the winner in the current society? (Spoiler: it’s not the physical fit)
Lmao, do you really believe that? Have you seen who is the winner in the current society? (Spoiler: it’s not the physical fit)
Lmao, do you really believe that? Have you seen who is the winner in the current society? (Spoiler: it’s not the physical fit)
May not be a reason you’re expecting though. Maybe it’s a kink and writing about it is how he keeps from asking his girlfriends to play along and do CNC role play.
Maybe he’s a survivor of SA and writing these stories helps him feel in control, but making the victims women puts enough distance from his own experience that he can get through it
No,no coworkers!
Why are you involving her parents in your relationship? I find it super odd you forced her to tell her parents.
Have you thought about anything you could do that might make the experience more exciting or enticing for you? Variety is the spice of life. If you're pretty vanilla, I bet there are things you'd really enjoy that you've never tried.
Any fetishes or things you were curious about? Role play? Bondage?
You don't have to share here. The point is sometimes things that we think we're not super interested in just need an approach from a different perspective. Not sure what that would look like for you. But I do think working on yourself to increase the frequency that you genuinely desire a sexual experience is the answer. Keep your mind open.
Don't do things like you've always done them. You need to change things up. I would bet you stumble over new things that surprise you by how much you enjoy them. Then it's another “flavour” of sex. Once you have a good variety of flavours to play with the frequency will be easier to manage for you.
I mean, my wife and I had a baby in a 900something sqft, 1.5-bedroom apartment. That said, this was in the before-times, so we got to leave every day.
Tldr my boyfriend is actually a female
….. or worst woman in history.
OP, I have a talker for a spouse and I've had to learn how to navigate that (and you can too!). The problem here is your husband has his own unspoken expectation that you always have to be “on.” He expects you to be emotionally and physically available for these monologues at any time, and that's impossible. If you don't put up some boundaries and if your husband doesn't respect those boundaries, that exhaustion you feel will curdle into resentment. That can be hard now because you've probably spent a couple of years acceding to this, thinking you're being a good partner. But it will absolutely wear you down.
Someone who talks a lot can unintentionally make you feel as if you don't matter. That you're just sitting around waiting for them to start talking. I'd share with him how it makes you feel. It's not all about his feelings. And it's not all about how you're feeling in the moment about a particular topic (though that's of course valid too). It's about the expectations and burdens this puts on you. Marriage is about compromise. How would your husband respond if you insisted on putting on a 2-hour movie every single day that he had to sit through and watch, whether he felt like it or not, whether he wanted to or not, whether it interested him or not? Just because you love him doesn't mean you have the capacity to listen to his monologues. No one does, it's exhausting!
tl; dr—he has expectations of you and you're not a bad or unloving spouse for enforcing boundaries
That is very abnormal behavior. NOT NORMAL! I don’t know how I can say it more clearly that other relationships are NOT like this!
You were broken up and they did something. You need to get over it otherwise you could hold it over them. If you can’t get over it then don’t get with them again.
No the answer truly is to leave him, and if you're on her side idk why you are harping on her for overdrafting so little when he is the literal fucking problem.
Don’t blame the alcohol if It was consensual…y’all knew what y’all were doing.