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obviously not
I mean, I wouldn't classify it as emotionally cheating. People's definitions vary, but to me emotional cheating would be if he is complimenting her more than you, being extremely sweet to her and not to you and wanting to spend more of his time with her than you. This is more as crossing boundaries in your relationship.
You are right, so many people on reddit are always quick to say someone is controlling or demanding when someone lays boundaries but it isn't. I was labeled as controlling when I left a comment on another post that said I always make sure and have a discussion about boundaries when it comes to respect. One example I've always had was if I'm with someone and it's our time after work or late in the day on weekends, then there's a level of respect that it's our time, not spent buried on phones. Yet I had a few wanting to say it's controlling but if you don't spend time with them during the day, it isn't being controlling its respect for time.
He definitely is crossing boundaries because you are right, the giving birth thing that should've been her husband 100%, not your ex.
You have to communicate what you can and can't afford, and you also have to decide if its important to you to go on this trip. It's wrong for him to expect you to pay for this trip and it's also wrong for you to assume he is going to pay for you to go on this trip. I know you mention you think they are wealthy, but frankly, it doesn't matter – their money isn't yours.
You should suggest some alternatives for still getting to spend holiday time together. For instance, you can do Christmas with each of your own families then do something together for new years. Maybe you will each save so you can visit the other person's families for a parents birthday or something (when things are likely to be less expensive).
If it's important to have someone who can support you more financially, then you and your boyfriend may not be compatible because it sounds like he wants things to be 50/50. And if what you're saying is true, I'm not sure how much he is not really supporting himself right now (I am guessing he is still early in career/intern with lots of debt) – he gets help from his parents.
This is your reality. I don't think either of you are wrong for wanting what you want, but you just need to communicate that and come up with compromises (or decide not to compromise and move on).
Happy Xmas to you
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No, 0% chance you’re pregnant
That was all he could even find to try and make some kind of deal of. I know he is being crazy about it but I try to be understanding of his trust issues.
Why do you make excuses for him? How is he working on his trust issues? Is he in therapy?
Sure, I think that's good, but at one point
Nah let her work on herself, she’s getting the help she needs.
Is this the same deadbeat boyfriend with 2 kids outside of you who he never sees, moved in with you and doesn’t help with any bills, and has never told you that he loves you after 2 years? Leave him. Not for the gaming reason though. You’re wrong there.
Seems like some individual and couples therapy would be wise. Not only for this current issue but for the whole process of IVF, pregnancy, and parenthood. All of those things can put strain on a marriage.
Disordered eating is clearly one issue. But I have to wonder if she is having anxiety about the IVF process and side effects, pregnancy, childbirth, parenthood, etc and is kind of self sabotaging?
I think some men like the idea of being a parent but don’t comprehend the impact that pregnancy and parenthood can have on a woman physically, emotionally, life long earning potential/career, and how often women end up with the majority of the parenting and household duties.
I always figured I’d have kids at some point but it wasn’t until we started seeing a fertility specialist and saving for IVF (US, out of pocket) that I really thought about what having a baby was going to mean for me and my life. And once I really sat down to think about that, I decided that I did not want to have kids.
I’m not saying that’s your situation, but it’s certainly possible.
He’s not forever. If he was, you would survive long distance. Don’t give up on your dreams. You will resent him and the decision to stay for the rest of your life.
Oh this isn’t fake ?. I’ve read this exact story like 3 other times. I just can’t tell whose fantasy this is. Is it a lonely wife, the closeted or down low husband, or the gay BF.
“I’m not attracted to you right now because our sex life has been disappointing” is very, very different from “I’m not attracted to your looks.” Your entire post is about his looks.
Communication is all well and good, and good on you for wanting to talk through things, but come on. You see the difference, don’t you? If you mentioned his looks at all during that conversation, I guarantee you hurt him. He can try to change things in your sex life. He can’t really change his appearance for you.
You come off like you are either asexual or you weren’t attracted to him…
Mix that with the fact that you literally look down on his needs/wants
He did what’s best for you both.
Honestly yes most men want sex, weekly. From someone who has ENTHUSIASM for it. A small minority of men are asexual or not really into ti
Yeah if he isn’t there for her during this time in her life, this says a ton about him as a partner in general. As in, he is a mega shitty one.
He sounds awful and completely selfish. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. In my experience people rarely change who they are fundamentally, and I truly think you deserve a whole lot better
Yeah, if you're interested, just a call or sending more then “sup” should be on top of your list lol.
You’re being super generous with that 1. Ugh this guy sounds awful.
Jesus these dudes are gross as hell. Especially that last one. How little social awareness can somebody have to agree with the dudes that made you uncomfortable while you’re literally admitting that they made you uncomfortable. Like, even if he believed it what kind of weirdo wouldn’t be able to read the room well enough lol.
None of these are masculine. They're not gendered in any way. Tell your BF to quit being such a fragile, insecure little man-child if he's so bothered by it.
Sorry about your brother but very glad to hear you’re doing so well. Is the bike something you could just let go for now until your brother is finished his sentence?
She’s on vacation. Wait and see what happens when she returns.