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but I did specify that that wasn't my intention to avoid misunderstandings.
Sure…but what if he mentioned it to his friends/siblings? Someone might have put this thought into his head.
So just communicate.
Sorry but he's just not that into you. It's only been 6 months, just kick him to the curb.
He'll apologize once he's out and needs a place to stay. Don't be there when it happens and change your number. File a lawsuit on him for the damages
It’s time to leave. This is a major breach of trust.
I mean this was in front of everyone. Me, my bf, her sister, my other friend and his fiancé like we were all taking about sexual experiences. I actually started the convo by asking what everyone’s number was jokingly. And we were all poking fun at her about her story. As for the number she gave him it right in front of her sister (I’m closer with her sister and would absolutely 100% trust her sister to tell me if anything shady was going on) and me and like I said they knew I could hear so it’s not like it was a secret but idk. I trust my friend and I trust my bf but in the “trust but verify” type of way. I’m not so worried about the number exchange but the way my bf acted after like I just want him to be open with me and say “Yeah I think she’s cool and I’d like to be friends.” I’m ok with that but not acting secretive. I’m an insanely jealous person so idk if that’s clouding my judgement or not.
Your problem isn't with her family, it's with her. It should be absolutely evident to you (and her) by now that her family will do everything possible to put impediments into the path of your relationship. So if she's still listening to them (and even living with them it sounds like), then you and she have no future. If she were the one asking for advice people would obviously tell her she needs to move out and start living independently. But we can't force her to do that and you can't either.
Thank you. I have had therapy recently but they weren’t a great fit.
I agree. I will look for a new therapist.
And for everyone else who sees this: any tips in the interim?
My thoughts so far: – therapy – journaling – not drinking
Go without him.
Question – when you say you moved into a new home, is this one you have bought, or rent/lease?
If rent/lease, then move all your stuff into storage, go on holiday, and when you get back, find yourself a new life – new job, new home, now partner.
If bought, then tell him that you will use the time apart to decide on the relationship.
Does he do that with male friends? I would guess not. There's your answer.
you're right but everyone reads whatever they want to read. You shouldn't have been downvoted. It looks like that people cannot understand that you can explain a behavior without justifying it.
Next time, slip a finger back there and see how he reacts… That should answer some questions…
I wish you nothing but peace and love because this whole situation is some bullshit. I hope you get a good's night sleep because you deserve it after the past day.
Oh my god, you are 20 – go live your life. No, you do NOT want to marry a guy who is rushing you into a lifelong commitment without really knowing or valuing you. He doesn't care about you or what you want. You shouldn't even be talking about marriage this early, much less haggling over a wedding budget. This is insane. There are plenty of other guys out there that you will find physically attractive – give yourself the chance to find a better option.
I think the guy is mad that you won't give him a blowjob.
I think the fact he said he'd only do it with your permission is kind of a saving grace here, and makes me think maybe he doesn't have cheating on his mind and really does just want a blowjob.
Either way, if blowjobs aren't on the table for you, you guys should sit down and honestly consider if you can keep going like this with one person clearly upset about sexual incompatibility.
Ok so let's start at the beginning. You claim you are “soulmates” yet you chose to treat her poorly. So that's a bit of a misnomer.
You then have a break because of it and in the process of the break, you give ever appearance that the relationship is over without actually saying it is. Blocking someone everywhere is pretty much the non-verbal equivalent of saying “we are done” after all.
So withe her now seeing that you guys are completely done with, she moves on with someone after an unexpected chance encounter and lo and behold, he is actually someone that she is looking for – someone like you but with the added ability of being better at handling their emotions. So of course she has fallen in love with him (or at least is starting to).
And then you unblock her and being the mind reader that she is (not), you think that your behaviours will all suddenly be forgiven, you have learned your lesson and is she dtf!
Sadly, real life doesn't work like that and even sadder for you, you have shown her rather inadvertently that the thing she was missing in you – that all important emotional attachment – is actually available is spades! Not only that, it only took her a couple of days to find someone better than you!
So now she is torn. She has some history with you but the new guy is an upgrade in every way. She found her soulmate and she didn't even know she was looking for one.
There is not much you can do now OP. Hindsight is a wonderful thing and what you should have done should have happened years ago. But it didn't and here you are.
I guess the only thing to take away from this is the “mistake” you made in blocking her without telling her was just the latest in a litany of “mistakes” that have happened throughout your relationship. The proverbial “straw that broke the camels” back as it were.
So for now, you just have to accept it. The guy she is now looking to be with has what she is looking for and you need to do a hell of a lot of work to catch up to even become competitive. You are out of time though and the work you should have done, wasn't.
But look, as harsh as all of this seems, you now have the opportunity to work on yourself, to work on these robotic emotions of yours and grow from this experience. Be better, more loving and not so closed off for the next girl who comes into your life.
Put this one down to experience and let her go to enjoy the person who should be in her life.
You can eat absolute garbage all day long as long as it fits in your calories.
Get an app and check it out.
I lost weight mostly on homemade pizza, dumplings and sushi.
I mean women break up all the time to hook up with a different guy. It's the primary form of cheating women engage in because it's arguably not cheating. So the fact that less than a day later you were lining someone up seems suspect to say the least.
You learn as a man to spot this behavior and see it for what it is. I mean I had a girlfriend break up with me, about a week later I was dating someone new off a dating app and about a month after the initial break up gf #1 was back trying to reconnect. She was super upset that I had replaced her because her plan was to try out new guy, if it worked don't look back, if it didn't come back to me, she was upset she was left with no one.
Reasonable secure people with a stable definition of cheating.
Do you actually love and respect your gf? Because all you have been doing is undermining all the work she does. Her degree is 'easy' and 'won't make much money', but you are so graciously okay with that because you're such a good person. She does the majority of the housework but it's still not good enough for you. She works 6 less hours than you at her “easy” restaurant job, so she should be dedicating every free hour she has to making sure the house is completely clean and tidy 100% of the time. God forbid she lets the bed go unmade. I'm not convinced that you see her as another person and not just an accessory to your life to make it easier.
Yes, they are the same.
But yes, he is allowed to date or not date anyone he wants for whatever reason he wants.
I would suggest counseling before your divorce. The first year is really an adaptation between two people. And there are many women that go from their home intermarriage. There’s something else going on. She’s scared. She’s not happy and doesn’t know what to say. I would get some counseling first.
Don’t send in the marriage license. If it’s already sent file for annulment. If your husband thinks something this silly deserved this much drama your marriage will be a miserable thing
No need to worry about others, do this for yourself and your SO. Thats really all that matter in most relationships. You can not please everyone, just please those in your life that matter most to you
Do you about to be with someone else, or do you want tools for making this relationship better?
If you want to break up, you’re allowed even though if it hurts him.
If you want tools or support for dealing with an Autism/ADD relationship, feel free to DM me. I have two suggestions.
Same still applies – you think his friends only hit on women at the club who are single?
He won’t be able to have a fun time while he is worrying about you being constantly hit on.
It is an insecurity that a lot of people have.
Maybe he’s afraid that his actions or behaviour (or lack there of) in stopping this from happening to you will cause you to see him in a different light.
Or maybe he is just selfish and doesn’t want to deal with the whole situation at all.