Don't blame him for both of your failures. You decided not to wear protection and him for continuing to have sex with you.
He already told you you aren't important. Even if you have the kid you won't be important, his kid will be. He won't give you want you think you deserve.
If you want to have the kid do it, but do it because you are willing and able to raise the kid alone. Not as a pathetic attempt to win back your ex.
I’m so appalled I don’t even know what to say. Your husband is an inconsiderate, disgusting monster. The idea that you’ve been plunging his shit twice a month for 20 years is so fucking sad. Yes marriage requires compromise, but not this.
I'll accept that. I am not and have never been a part of that group of people but I just know that everyone I know is in thier 30s and doesn't walk around saying “I keep getting rejected by preppy girls or jocks or nerdy girls”. We all outgrew that and now judge people on their character and actions or of course looks etc. Me personally I've actually learned to love all different types of folks that would seem to fit these “labels”. As a high schooler I was probably mostly only into cheerleader preppy types now I appreciate a way wider net. But again that is just my perspective and I guess I kind of got triggered by the subject of this post. It's hard enough to find a good partner much less writing off people because they don't have tattoos or whatever passes for “alt” these days.
I agree with you! OP being confused about the level of fucked-up-ness of this whole thing it's not his fault if he's always been subjected to that kind of behavior. Nothing that he can't fix, and it sounds like he wants to. Nothing that makes him less worthy of love
Don't blame him for both of your failures. You decided not to wear protection and him for continuing to have sex with you.
He already told you you aren't important. Even if you have the kid you won't be important, his kid will be. He won't give you want you think you deserve.
If you want to have the kid do it, but do it because you are willing and able to raise the kid alone. Not as a pathetic attempt to win back your ex.
We made a a deal to never tell my wife about this There's your answer.
I think you should be a team and respect his wishes and also you aren’t the hottest in them, since you asked
I got my dogs when I was 9 and I knew how to clean up after them! There are no excuses for a 15yo plus two adults to be living like this
She wants to bang a large black man.
I’m so appalled I don’t even know what to say. Your husband is an inconsiderate, disgusting monster. The idea that you’ve been plunging his shit twice a month for 20 years is so fucking sad. Yes marriage requires compromise, but not this.
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I'll accept that. I am not and have never been a part of that group of people but I just know that everyone I know is in thier 30s and doesn't walk around saying “I keep getting rejected by preppy girls or jocks or nerdy girls”. We all outgrew that and now judge people on their character and actions or of course looks etc. Me personally I've actually learned to love all different types of folks that would seem to fit these “labels”. As a high schooler I was probably mostly only into cheerleader preppy types now I appreciate a way wider net. But again that is just my perspective and I guess I kind of got triggered by the subject of this post. It's hard enough to find a good partner much less writing off people because they don't have tattoos or whatever passes for “alt” these days.
I agree with you! OP being confused about the level of fucked-up-ness of this whole thing it's not his fault if he's always been subjected to that kind of behavior. Nothing that he can't fix, and it sounds like he wants to. Nothing that makes him less worthy of love
People used to tell me I was mature for my age at 18, but I can tell you now, I was still a kid. How did her family feel about the marriage?