“We want a boy SO bad”- And what if you get a girl? “I don’t know how we’ll adjust to having another little one running around”- Adjust in what sense exactly? If we're talking finances, then you need to plan very seriously and realistically with that not only because of the rising costs of living, but because the global economy is also tetering on a recession. Whatever decision you do make, should not come at the costs of the child you already have (for example if you can only afford to give one child a really good diet & education, then don't have another).
I am so sorry that this happened to you. This is so disheartening, and I don’t understand why it would make things more complicated if he’s living with your friend, especially when your relationship would be private. I’m wondering if there’s more to things- like maybe he has feelings for your friend too? I’m not sure what else there could be that would logically make sense.
My best advice for you would be to work on letting this one go. You will find someone who cares about you and will reciprocate your feelings, I promise. Sometimes things don’t work out the way we wish they would, and that really sucks sometimes. I feel so bad that this happened because these kinds of feelings can be overwhelming, but you will find someone. He may not be your friend’s roommate, but the person you’re meant to be with is out there.
No no, I certainly agree with you. I majorly messed it up, there’s no two ways about it. I guess what I want to know is how best to heal things with her?..
This is normal, before I was married (pre-living with my wife) I showed before I saw her but if we were not together that day maybe I would skip but after moving in together it was shower immediately after work if I had any hopes of touching my wife. Lol ?
“We want a boy SO bad”- And what if you get a girl? “I don’t know how we’ll adjust to having another little one running around”- Adjust in what sense exactly? If we're talking finances, then you need to plan very seriously and realistically with that not only because of the rising costs of living, but because the global economy is also tetering on a recession. Whatever decision you do make, should not come at the costs of the child you already have (for example if you can only afford to give one child a really good diet & education, then don't have another).
I am so sorry that this happened to you. This is so disheartening, and I don’t understand why it would make things more complicated if he’s living with your friend, especially when your relationship would be private. I’m wondering if there’s more to things- like maybe he has feelings for your friend too? I’m not sure what else there could be that would logically make sense.
My best advice for you would be to work on letting this one go. You will find someone who cares about you and will reciprocate your feelings, I promise. Sometimes things don’t work out the way we wish they would, and that really sucks sometimes. I feel so bad that this happened because these kinds of feelings can be overwhelming, but you will find someone. He may not be your friend’s roommate, but the person you’re meant to be with is out there.
Does it count if she is already dead?
Please say no
No no, I certainly agree with you. I majorly messed it up, there’s no two ways about it. I guess what I want to know is how best to heal things with her?..
This is normal, before I was married (pre-living with my wife) I showed before I saw her but if we were not together that day maybe I would skip but after moving in together it was shower immediately after work if I had any hopes of touching my wife. Lol ?
Dude… That should destroy your trust for a millennium, I mean wtf is her excuse?
What do you think I should do and when?
Or just keep any explicit face details out.