You might be better off asking in a subreddit or Facebook group for your specific area. With the Facebook ones you can post anonymously now, and frequently I see people ask for therapist referrals on there.
40M: Get out of it and figure out who you are before committing. You bringing your old issues into your new relationship will absolutely destroy it. My ex-wife was just about everything you described and for ten years, I’d tell myself “it’ll get better”. Meanwhile, I was adjusting my life to fit around her insecurities, which was not only un-healthy but also very un-fair. I couldn’t go out with friends, I stopped many of my hobbies, i changed my career path, I cut a lot of people out of my life all because she didn’t feel comfortable and was insecure over what went down in her first marriage, all of which had nothing to do with me. Self-work and self-care before getting involved with people is imperative.
You might be better off asking in a subreddit or Facebook group for your specific area. With the Facebook ones you can post anonymously now, and frequently I see people ask for therapist referrals on there.
40M: Get out of it and figure out who you are before committing. You bringing your old issues into your new relationship will absolutely destroy it. My ex-wife was just about everything you described and for ten years, I’d tell myself “it’ll get better”. Meanwhile, I was adjusting my life to fit around her insecurities, which was not only un-healthy but also very un-fair. I couldn’t go out with friends, I stopped many of my hobbies, i changed my career path, I cut a lot of people out of my life all because she didn’t feel comfortable and was insecure over what went down in her first marriage, all of which had nothing to do with me. Self-work and self-care before getting involved with people is imperative.
True i agree with you. If i persued this from your opinion what would you forsee?
She sounds like a female hipster. I bet she can’t cook.
Divorce him.
Under the reasons put 'fuck around and find out'
Is she bad and unworthy for having an OF? Wtf? No… sex work is work. It’s 2023 lmao.
She’s bad and unworthy because she wasn’t upfront about it. She lied. Multiple times.
No.