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What offended me was your making this about gender.
It is bad when ANYONE gets SA. Inserting a dialogue of women getting some kind of privileged status in rape or assault is dismissive and insulting.
There are plenty of people in this thread, and in the original post that are calling out OP for assaulting someone. Yet you say such things 'never' happen.
The reason we have a divide is because of people like you, who instead of looking at the commonalities, and actually looking at what is happening, insert a misogynistic narrative. “If it was a woman getting assaulted NO ONE would be giving OP a pass!!”
Here, a woman tells you, it happens all the time.
I did get therapy, which is why I can speak plainly and clearly about my experiences and stand up for ALL genders that experience sexual assault, without trying to create a divide.
You know, women can be of great support to men who have been assaulted. Stop vilifying us.
Relationships always have problems but loving partners don't pretend to stop talking to someone and then go talk to that person behind their partner's back. They don't let others talk mean things about their partner. Op's husband is basically looking a way out and op leaving would be the best outcome for both of them.
He dodged a bullet and got hit with the ricochet. You should apologize. And moderate your drinking if continuing at all.
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These days you're considered dysfunctional if you never had a marriage and divorce at least once.
You have presented a healthy response to your predicament.
What offended me was your making this about gender.
It is bad when ANYONE gets SA. Inserting a dialogue of women getting some kind of privileged status in rape or assault is dismissive and insulting.
There are plenty of people in this thread, and in the original post that are calling out OP for assaulting someone. Yet you say such things 'never' happen.
The reason we have a divide is because of people like you, who instead of looking at the commonalities, and actually looking at what is happening, insert a misogynistic narrative. “If it was a woman getting assaulted NO ONE would be giving OP a pass!!”
Here, a woman tells you, it happens all the time.
I did get therapy, which is why I can speak plainly and clearly about my experiences and stand up for ALL genders that experience sexual assault, without trying to create a divide.
You know, women can be of great support to men who have been assaulted. Stop vilifying us.
Apparently, you love having drama and a gaslight in your life. I would correct that situation.
Relationships always have problems but loving partners don't pretend to stop talking to someone and then go talk to that person behind their partner's back. They don't let others talk mean things about their partner. Op's husband is basically looking a way out and op leaving would be the best outcome for both of them.
No, it’s not normal.
Choose someone without that friction. It would be helping you both.