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Date: November 26, 2022
Wasn’t thinking do dictating how she behaves just feel like I can point out a bad thing someone does, and I don’t think I deserve her, either way I’ve cut contact and walked away, seemed easier in the long run.
I mean she assumed he was gay because he didn’t want to sleep with her. He was just letting her know that you have to be more than just a warm body and pretty face for a relationship with him. I think what he said is fair game after that assumption.
If anyone have any advice, I'm all open for it. I'm lost.
I'm sorry that this relationship didn't work out, but it sounds like you got out of something that wasn't that good for you. Use this relationship to grow, get to know yourself, reconnect with friends and family. I kept a journal during breakups when I felt like I'd been venting to my friends too much. I would say enjoy the time being single. Learn your boundaries and your wants/needs with a partner. You weren't asking for too much and to some extent, neither was she. I'm sure there's a person who will meet her needs and definitely someone who will meet yours; you just weren't meant to be.
Also, something that really raised red flags for me was her “not wanting” you to spend time with your friends. My bf and I always always encourage each other to spend time away from the relationship. There are times when I really wish he would stay home, but it's so important to maintain those friendships and to have a life outside of your relationship. Best wishes for you !
Yay! Hope it goes well for you guys
Yes, I know the spot number but in order to get in the garage you need the decal. The decal enables the garage to open through a sensor.
I hope you and his ex best friend get jumped fuckin bitch, i would spit on you but i don't wanna waste my energy on a creep
Ooh good idea. I have a feeling he just does it to see me react with disgust ?
Found OPs alt account
You 2 have rushed WAAAAY too quickly into this relationship; engaged and pregnant after only being together for 8 months? That's crazy!
It sounds like she rushed into and tried very hard in the early days of this relationship because she wanted a stable family life for her child and because she wanted for the dream to seem real. But since thenm she has realised that this isn't the relationship she wants and is now being cold towards you because she feels stuck by the predicament (the unplanned pregnancy, the 2 baby daddies situation, etc) she got herself into.
Your GF sounds very unstable and this is going to be bad for both her children. Your relationship is not ideal, but you also need to think about the future welfare of your child and the other kiddo. If you give up on her, she might spiral even more. However, there is also no point in trying to fix the flagging relationship if her heart isn't invested in it anymore.
Have you 2 ever had sat down and had a really honest conversation with each other? About the mental health problems, communication problems, desires, fears and concerns over the state of the relationship. Has your GF ever recieved any therapy for her past trauma, and do you feel her mother is a positive influence in her life? Does your GF have any real friends or support networks? Do YOU have any friends or support networks? You really need to talk about these things.
Things cannot even stand a chance of work until you can learn to communicate with each other more honestly and calmly. You may find out that in the end, you are not suited towards one another. But you won't know until you learn talk better and be honest. And regardless, now a kid is on the way, you need to think of a plan if you aren't going to stay together (i.e. where will your GF live, how will you pay pay for this child? Etc).
Your GF has already effectively told you that she feels trapped in this relationship. What you need to find out is if there's anything you can do to fix things and reduce the pressures she's feelings (and if not, what you are both going to do from here on out). But this is only going to start by sitting down and talking more honestly (about everything). I would also recommend calling off the engagement and any wedding plans as this kind of stuff will not be helping anything right now.
You know what's going on. Screw her and go talk to a lawyer and get rid of the trash
Maybe he's not physically cheating, but he's absolutely emotionally cheating. There is absolutely no reason for him to talk to her that frequently for so long. You know he has been gaslighting you. You have the proof you need that he is having an emotional affair. Why does it need to be physical at this point? He's lied to your face over and over. He's done a lot of shady stuff. Maybe she is an ego boost for him, but why would you want to live your life always wondering if he's cheating or talking to her again? Good luck OP. The only thing that would keep me in a relationship with a man that has done all that, is if he agreed to find another job and start couples therapy. He should earn your trust back. Your gut has been telling you all this time and you're still here. Please keep us updated.
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