![](/cs/camsoda2500.jpg")
0 views
Press right there to start video or
Room for online sex video chat Cicababa12
Model from: hu
Languages: hu,en
Birth Date: 1988-06-04
Body Type: bodyTypeAverage
Ethnicity: ethnicityMixed
Hair color: hairColorRed
Eyes color: eyeColorBrown
Subculture: subcultureHousewives
Date: November 23, 2022
This viewpoint doesn’t pass the vibe check. At all. He’s essentially raping OP every time they cave to make him lay off, and then he’s openly trashing them to his friends. I don’t care if they are online or not, it’s inappropriate.
I hate to break it to you but he likely is 99% of why the libido is down. Not feeling loved, secure, happy, or relaxed will kill anyone’s mood. He clearly doesn’t feel he has anything to lose here so he will treat OP however he wants like they are his doormat. Exhaustion from a long day mixed with feeling continued burdens without the opportunity to decompress is also a massive hit to the sex drive. Don’t be blaming the OP or making this situation their fault because he’s completely wrong in this scenario.
You two were broken up so obviously she can do what she wants while you’re not together.
Having said that, why are you staying in this relationship? Feelings like the ones she had for this guy don’t just turn on and off with the flick of a switch. They are former sexual partners. He has her nudes. They’ve shared that level of intimacy. They aren’t friends man, they’re more than that. Who knows if she would ever cheat, but her saying they’re just friends isn’t true.
You say you have a mutual respect for this guy, even though a friend who respects you wouldn’t mess around with your ex. You say you know for a fact that she would never cheat, but obviously that’s not true because you can’t know something like that on a factual basis. You’re telling yourself lies in order to make yourself comfortable in the relationship, almost like you have no choice to be with her and you’re making the best of it.
I’ll tell you now man, you don’t have to be with her. You don’t have to be with a girl who constantly keeps a guy around who waits in the wings for you two to have relationship issues so he can get his rocks off to her. That’s not a good friend and she’s not respecting your relationship. Why stay?
My advice is to break up for good and find someone who treats a committed relationship the same way you would. When you’re struggling to form an emotional connection to another girl because of the feelings for your GF, and she’s out hooking up with this guy who she keeps around, that just shows you two are on different wavelengths. Find someone who appreciates your dedication and commitment, not someone who treats it casually and convenient in the moment.
Honestly, before him I was in an abusive relationship so I think my expectations are extremely low, only just realising this
“boohoo you're so immature and selfish for us not pretending nothing happened after we abused your trust.” – fuck that noise
While still feeling the hurt & insult of OP & other women (I would feel the same way)…I'm going into the downvote territory, of saying I ironically agree with your last point.
I always had a very intrusive fear of children swapped at the hospital. The same way, I have an intrusive fear of my guy one day wondering if his kid is his, and me -in reaction – feeling hurt and insulted. So most likely, I'd like to have a double-paternity test. My only problem is now that I still don't know how I'd bring that up. Wanting a male-paternity test can also be twisted. Like “oh, she wants to know who to get for child-support”. So I'll just pretend (which ain't half a lie) that I wanna be 100% sure it's our kid. That way we both get confirmation.
Overall, it's such a “damned if you do-” situation for me, because I can understand BOTH sides. I'm literally an affair baby. It'd be an insult to be accused of cheating, but I can also understand the paranoia/knowledge of how twisted the human conditon can be. Aka you should only have a baby if you trust your spouse…but there's always 5% you shouldn't.