Might be worth her setting him straight with a warning first that she isn’t interested in relationship and doesn’t want any interaction other than what’s necessary at work
Very controlling indeed. The control and throwing your controller are both signs of an abusive partner. If everything has to be her way and everything is always your fault be especially careful OP. You will be stressed and her servant for the duration of your marriage if she is an abuser.
Nice that she’s attracted someone else’s attention? Ngl, it seems a bit messed up that he’s taken the opportunity to start flirting with her right after she went thru this traumatic breakup.
Oh hell no. She's not the “wonderful” wife you think she is. She has already cheated on you and is now pressuring you to let her open her side of the relationship. That's basic cheater 101 and you do NOT need to stand for that. You need to tell her to cut this woman from your life and drop all contact. If she refuses, it's time to consider seeing a lawyer.
You are trying to sprinkle this with logic, but there is no logic here. Your wife carried on a sexting affair. She is now trying to guilt you into letting her have sex with this woman. You are not in an open relationship. You need to stop it now or you will regret it. Your wife should in fact be begging for your forgiveness and cutting contact just to save your marriage.
You need to stop with the crying. You need to initiate the 180 immediately and start considering what life will be like without her in it. Man up and set some boundaries, because she obviously won't do so herself.
You can get it amended for the next girl
He’s not the one that has to carry it in his body for 3/4 of a year and endure all the physical and mental consequences that entails
He thinks I should have it and go through the pregnancy then give it up for adoption
And he is free to think that, but since he’s not the one who has it growing inside him, he doesn’t exactly get to have the final call here
When you really get down to it, unless that something you actually want, why should you?
It’s not his decision to make for you ?
Might be worth her setting him straight with a warning first that she isn’t interested in relationship and doesn’t want any interaction other than what’s necessary at work
unfair and controlling.
Very controlling indeed. The control and throwing your controller are both signs of an abusive partner. If everything has to be her way and everything is always your fault be especially careful OP. You will be stressed and her servant for the duration of your marriage if she is an abuser.
He isn't that into you. Best to leave and find someone who knows you're a frigging Goddess.
Nice that she’s attracted someone else’s attention? Ngl, it seems a bit messed up that he’s taken the opportunity to start flirting with her right after she went thru this traumatic breakup.
I would never do that, normal or not, as it disrespects my husband.
Oh hell no. She's not the “wonderful” wife you think she is. She has already cheated on you and is now pressuring you to let her open her side of the relationship. That's basic cheater 101 and you do NOT need to stand for that. You need to tell her to cut this woman from your life and drop all contact. If she refuses, it's time to consider seeing a lawyer.
You are trying to sprinkle this with logic, but there is no logic here. Your wife carried on a sexting affair. She is now trying to guilt you into letting her have sex with this woman. You are not in an open relationship. You need to stop it now or you will regret it. Your wife should in fact be begging for your forgiveness and cutting contact just to save your marriage.
You need to stop with the crying. You need to initiate the 180 immediately and start considering what life will be like without her in it. Man up and set some boundaries, because she obviously won't do so herself.