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I think you need to talk to your wife, especially if you are feeling driven to text this guy or meet up with him again. I don't know the specifics of your “free pass” arrangement, but I assume it was supposed to be a one-time thing and not on-going. From what you've written, I gather you want to keep having the best sex of your life with this fellow, but probably don't want to leave your wife in order to do it.
So I think first you should sit down alone and think long and hard about how you want to move forward. If you don't want things to change with your wife (i.e. you don't want to have an open marriage or explore polyamory) then you have to decide if you can leave this amazing sexual experience in the past and never revisit your attraction to men. If you think your wife might be open to something other than monogamy, you should think about how to start that conversation with your wife. If you don't think she will be open to exploring polyamory/open marriage and you can't imagine going through life without having that kind of experience again, you need to come to terms with that.
And then you *have to talk to your wife*. Because this affects her too and she deserves to be clued in to your sexual self discovery if it's going to impact your marriage.
I don’t know many parents that would tolerate this crap. She is treating you like you are her slave. If she is in any of your bank or credit account take her off. Sit her down and tell her she either gets a job and pulls her weight around the house or she can find another living situation. The free ride is over. If she has a car, give her $20 every other week to put fuel in it so she can go to job interviews. Lock up your wallet and cards when you get home. Remind her each week how long she has to get a job and insist she do her chores around the house every day. She doesn’t like to cook – time to learn. I would eat a meal out everyday at a meat and three and have minimal groceries in the house. No junk food period. The only way this leech is going to change is if she is uncomfortable with her existence. You need a partner not a drpendant.
The animals are a part time job. Part of our agreement was that she would care for her animals cause that’s how we ended the cats – I cleaned up, I changed the litter and when she wasn’t willing to help out , we got rid of them.
I’m just not interested in taking care of animals. And I feel like I’ve been mislead into a situation like this where I have to cause she won’t. But I’m beaten down. I don’t care anymore
I’ve been in your shoes before, 6 yr relationship ends , immediately less then 3 months and he’s in a relationship. My advice : FEEL EVERYTHING, it’s shitty I know , but you’ll slowly get up and be one the best version of yourself by giving yourself the time you spent on investing on someone else. Better now that you are young, no kids. Put your sad playlist on and cry your little heart out , don’t ask for closure, you already have it. You’re not alone, ask a friend for their time. Just don’t get stuck for to long in your little black hole & pull yourself out. Save your money, build new friendships, seek new hobbies, open your mind and tell it the endless possibilities you are yet to experience, your life is not over, this person was just not for you.
I agree, it makes me feel like im not that important to him. But then again i dont know if im being realistic in expecting to be prioritized first so soon considering its long distance and his first relationship!
I think you need to talk to your wife, especially if you are feeling driven to text this guy or meet up with him again. I don't know the specifics of your “free pass” arrangement, but I assume it was supposed to be a one-time thing and not on-going. From what you've written, I gather you want to keep having the best sex of your life with this fellow, but probably don't want to leave your wife in order to do it.
So I think first you should sit down alone and think long and hard about how you want to move forward. If you don't want things to change with your wife (i.e. you don't want to have an open marriage or explore polyamory) then you have to decide if you can leave this amazing sexual experience in the past and never revisit your attraction to men. If you think your wife might be open to something other than monogamy, you should think about how to start that conversation with your wife. If you don't think she will be open to exploring polyamory/open marriage and you can't imagine going through life without having that kind of experience again, you need to come to terms with that.
And then you *have to talk to your wife*. Because this affects her too and she deserves to be clued in to your sexual self discovery if it's going to impact your marriage.
I don’t know many parents that would tolerate this crap. She is treating you like you are her slave. If she is in any of your bank or credit account take her off. Sit her down and tell her she either gets a job and pulls her weight around the house or she can find another living situation. The free ride is over. If she has a car, give her $20 every other week to put fuel in it so she can go to job interviews. Lock up your wallet and cards when you get home. Remind her each week how long she has to get a job and insist she do her chores around the house every day. She doesn’t like to cook – time to learn. I would eat a meal out everyday at a meat and three and have minimal groceries in the house. No junk food period. The only way this leech is going to change is if she is uncomfortable with her existence. You need a partner not a drpendant.
The animals are a part time job. Part of our agreement was that she would care for her animals cause that’s how we ended the cats – I cleaned up, I changed the litter and when she wasn’t willing to help out , we got rid of them.
I’m just not interested in taking care of animals. And I feel like I’ve been mislead into a situation like this where I have to cause she won’t. But I’m beaten down. I don’t care anymore
Your sister was raped. She deserves your support. Your husband is a creepy bottom feeder, clearly.
I’ve been in your shoes before, 6 yr relationship ends , immediately less then 3 months and he’s in a relationship. My advice : FEEL EVERYTHING, it’s shitty I know , but you’ll slowly get up and be one the best version of yourself by giving yourself the time you spent on investing on someone else. Better now that you are young, no kids. Put your sad playlist on and cry your little heart out , don’t ask for closure, you already have it. You’re not alone, ask a friend for their time. Just don’t get stuck for to long in your little black hole & pull yourself out. Save your money, build new friendships, seek new hobbies, open your mind and tell it the endless possibilities you are yet to experience, your life is not over, this person was just not for you.
You should definitely tell him you don’t like it. Tell him how you feel about it.
you’re very right
You were evicted? Lease being up and eviction are two very different thing.
He is 37? Find an adult to date instead of a child with an adults age
An open relationship can just be hers because you want her with others.
How is that fantasy a positive for you or the relationship?
Which book are you referring to
I have asked for some time to see if things get better, like in 2-3 months. How should i ask for money as asking money from women is unattractive.
agree to do his least fav chore for week/month
I feel bad because OP wrote a lot of text but all any of us needed to read was the title.
“Another affair” is really all there is to know.
I agree, it makes me feel like im not that important to him. But then again i dont know if im being realistic in expecting to be prioritized first so soon considering its long distance and his first relationship!
This.
The “break” is the express lane to the breakup.
Just read a bit here.
Concentrate on your life and your future.