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Date: November 6, 2022
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What are you going to do about his empty promises?
You're too young to waste your life on a man who doesn't appreciate you.
You’re going to be here in a year writing the same things about your new partner once you actually get to know him
My gf and I still go clubbing on occasion. We're both 36 now and our friend is a promoter, so we get free entry and sometimes sit behind the DJ booth where they have cozy couches and tables. We don't drink on many occasions when we go and if we do, we don't drink a lot. Mostly go there to vibe, dance, and hangout (music isn't like it used to be, though, but that's just me being old). It's a nice little escape from reality, being around a lot of people, listening to music, dancing, dressing up, etc., but speaking of “hookup culture”, there has been a few instances where I'd go to the bathroom and I'd come back to see some dude hitting on her. Back when we were in our 20's, we'd go clubbing too, and it used to bother me. Nowadays, not really. If I see a dude hitting on my GF, like if I walk away or something, I just hang back. She's nice, but doesn't take things too far.
It certainly can be hookup culture. For sure. But it also can be a place to just have fun with friends. It's a spectrum and people just need to make wise decisions, overall.
Yes, the same manipulation and deceit.
Seems like the dude is having a bit of an existential crisis and isn’t actually ready to be in a relationship.
I do understand what he’s talking about—I (44F) have never felt the same intense feelings as an adult as I did with say my HS or college boyfriends. I think it’s something you kind of grow out of. Even if you have good “new relationship energy” and those butterflies of attraction on a first date or the first month, it just doesn’t really last.
All that said, I think that most adults can tell you in the first 5 min of meeting if there’s chemistry or not. You’ve met up 7 times and many of those dates have been quite long. How do YOU feel about the relationship? Is it something you want to pursue? Because you’re not a passenger here.
In my (44F) experience, what you’re describing sounds like a case of too much talking before meeting and making an emotional connection but struggling to find a physical connection and hoping it will get better with time. Pro-tip: it usually doesn’t.