I get that but if she genuinely does see a path to getting back together after some time apart, do you think keeping the water warm would be beneficial to some extent?
Maybe she just isn’t who she claimed to be and it took this long to see that. I’ve been there. I was with someone around a year and boom they changed… a lot. In really bad ways and I was devastated. Living in what it used to be likes and why is this happenings. It sucked real bad. But my best friend eventually reminded me that this is not the person I fell so hard for- that person was fake…. An illusion of what the actual person thought I wanted. He was correct- it was exactly what I wanted. Which is why i was so devastated. But it didn’t matter. He lied. Used and abused… just plain wasn’t a good person. Which is what your ex sounds like. It sucks and I do feel for you. But man you have got to help yourself. Pull up your bootstraps or whatever and on to the next one bud!!
I don’t have to hurt your feelings. You’re already doing that to yourself by having low self esteem, daddy issues, no morals or standards, probably a long list of other shit lmao. So yeah I feel pretty bad for your mom and she’s definitely right.
Just in the interest of accuracy and since you’re giving very sound, reasoned advice some of which borders on legal:
If he is indeed based in the UK, a woman cannot legal rape a man in this country. Legally in the UK, the term “rape” specifically has to involve the penetration of another with a penis.
The punishment for what this woman could be charged for, before everyone jumps on this being an injustice, is able to be just as high as rape. But it’s important if you’re giving someone sound legal advice to not say anything misleading.
So to tell this guy he has been raped, if he is indeed UK based, is simply not the case, and once he seeks proper legal advice he’ll learn that very quickly anyway. It’s just that the crime that has occurred is legally not going to be defined as rape.
That and she's not even working in her field. Like why did she spend all that money on the degree (the variable interest rate is another poor decision) just to end up to not work in the field. Wild. OP you're making the right choice, money choices can affect someone for a long time and what you do to get out of them too shows a lot too!
“…doesn’t want me having space that I have been asking for because it’s giving me ways to ‘hate’ me more.”
So he doesn’t want you to have time to think about all the ways he sucks. Stay here, stay distracted so I can keep acting like I always do and own nothing.
This guy is a manipulator and also I can hear his cringy whining just in your description. If you weren’t married to him and someone treated you like that you’d call the police.
you ma'am. You need to end it. You are the chosen one.
I get that but if she genuinely does see a path to getting back together after some time apart, do you think keeping the water warm would be beneficial to some extent?
I came here to say this! The gagging over cum was the first big clue!
This might be a ‘story’…but in this story…the wife is gay.
Maybe she just isn’t who she claimed to be and it took this long to see that. I’ve been there. I was with someone around a year and boom they changed… a lot. In really bad ways and I was devastated. Living in what it used to be likes and why is this happenings. It sucked real bad. But my best friend eventually reminded me that this is not the person I fell so hard for- that person was fake…. An illusion of what the actual person thought I wanted. He was correct- it was exactly what I wanted. Which is why i was so devastated. But it didn’t matter. He lied. Used and abused… just plain wasn’t a good person. Which is what your ex sounds like. It sucks and I do feel for you. But man you have got to help yourself. Pull up your bootstraps or whatever and on to the next one bud!!
Why do you even feel the need to lie?
I don’t have to hurt your feelings. You’re already doing that to yourself by having low self esteem, daddy issues, no morals or standards, probably a long list of other shit lmao. So yeah I feel pretty bad for your mom and she’s definitely right.
Yes!! You deserve much much better, good luck to you op!
Just in the interest of accuracy and since you’re giving very sound, reasoned advice some of which borders on legal:
If he is indeed based in the UK, a woman cannot legal rape a man in this country. Legally in the UK, the term “rape” specifically has to involve the penetration of another with a penis.
The punishment for what this woman could be charged for, before everyone jumps on this being an injustice, is able to be just as high as rape. But it’s important if you’re giving someone sound legal advice to not say anything misleading.
So to tell this guy he has been raped, if he is indeed UK based, is simply not the case, and once he seeks proper legal advice he’ll learn that very quickly anyway. It’s just that the crime that has occurred is legally not going to be defined as rape.
That and she's not even working in her field. Like why did she spend all that money on the degree (the variable interest rate is another poor decision) just to end up to not work in the field. Wild. OP you're making the right choice, money choices can affect someone for a long time and what you do to get out of them too shows a lot too!
“…doesn’t want me having space that I have been asking for because it’s giving me ways to ‘hate’ me more.”
So he doesn’t want you to have time to think about all the ways he sucks. Stay here, stay distracted so I can keep acting like I always do and own nothing.
This guy is a manipulator and also I can hear his cringy whining just in your description. If you weren’t married to him and someone treated you like that you’d call the police.