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Date: November 3, 2022
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As others have said, sometimes people's bodies deal with it or can just be naturally immune. Your GF probably had it for years and was just dormant until now, doesn't mean she cheated. You both should get retested just to be safe. Just remember that it's treatable.
90% of the battle is raged in the comment section
You can’t have your cake and eat it too
Yeah…..he's not coming back. Should probably start preparing for that.
Why would you even want to marry such a disgusting woman?
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I’ve been in a relationship with a woman for over 8 months. In the beginning everything was amazing, but about 4 months in, I noticed that she started being less affectionate. I let her know what this was an issue for me and asked why the sudden change, and she always blamed it on being stressed out. I had genuine feelings for her, so to end the fight, I pretty much accepted that answer and less affection in order to move on. From there things continued to go down hill. From there I noticed that she started displaying sketchy behavior with her phone, we would get in arguments about it, and she’d always flip it back on me. She’d call me paranoid, crazy, insecure, etc. I even caught her one time back on a dating site and she claimed that it was a bait profile to see if I’d be “crazy” enough to find it. Again stupidly I let it slide and gave her the benefit of the doubt.
Throughout the entire relationship, I gave her the most consistent effort that I could. I was always available to her and her small child. I do favors for them, I’d give them my time whenever they needed it, took care of them to the best of my ability, and always put them first. There were plenty of good times, but always in my gut I suspected that she was not being honest with me, but again I cared about her so much I continued moving forward.
So many times she said that I was the only person who has ever shown her such kindness, the only person who’d consider her, the only person who actually did for her and kept my word, that she needed me, missed me constantly. She’d call me and text me daily, and would spend time with me almost every day.
Fast forward to February, we joined a new gym together. We had been talking about it for a while, and I decided that I’d pay for both memberships, since I was doing better financially and I wanted to treat her. She agreed to the idea knowing full well that it was very expensive and a 12 month commitment. One day before a workout, the sketchy behavior was just so bad, that even though I felt horrible about it, I went through her phone in the locker room.
What I found made me sick to my stomach. She had been on dating sites the entire time, and had been sexting multiple people (men and women) in graphic detail along with photos. I was so thrown off by this, that I foolishly didn’t take my time and even look through everything. I came back out handed her her purse and coat and stormed out of the gym. She chased me down, hopped in my car, and refused to leave. I told her what I saw and her first instinct was to deny it, but she finally had to come clean upon realizing I had seen a lot.
We talked for over an hour and she finally told me some truth. She basically said that all my suspicions were correct the entire time. Everything I accused her of was right, and she lied about everything. Even though she called me a narcissist, paranoid, crazy, insecure, I was actually correct and she was lying to my face the entire time. She said that she was addicted to attention these people would give her, and that even though she “didn’t actually want to physically do anything with them” she loved the high of getting praise and attention. She said she didn’t want me at a certain point, but didn’t want to lose me. She said that she should’ve never called me names, because she in fact is the “fucked up person” and a “narcissist” like her mother who she hates. Stupidly after all of this, I let my feelings get in the way, and gave her a second chance.
She was nice for 2 days, and I noticed she went right back to her usual behavior, Including, calling me insecure again, when I told her that I was uncomfortable with her still following someone she gave her number to from a dating site.
2 weeks later, I tell her that my needs still aren’t being met over a long text message which she ignored. The next day before the gym, I noticed that she was trying to pick a fight from the small things she was doing. I just ignored her and did my workout. After the gym we went to eat and she finally said she didn’t appreciate the long message. I told her that I needed to say those things and she never wants to talk, so I had no choice. She pretty much started an argument, but then wouldn’t allow me to speak. She’d tell me “fine talk” but as soon as I made a point she’d cut me off and threaten to leave. finally she threatened to leave again and started to stand and put her coat on. Seeing this I just got up and walked out of the restaurant beating her to it.
She chased me down saying that I embarrassed her, and that she could never go back in there and couldn’t believe I did that. When I asked “what were you about to do to me?” She said she wasn’t actually going to leave and that her coat wasn’t “on all the way”
we continued to argue until she finally said that she was “done”
Later that day, I messaged her trying to fix things and she essentially said she needed space. I messaged her once more apologizing and left it at that. The next day she calls me to “check in” and see if I was okay. I told her I was not and that I wanted to actually have a conversation. she said no and that she was too stressed and that things were done.
From there I sent two last messages. One explaining how she’s treated me, and one saying that we should talk when she was ready, and that I’d go to the gym at night, so she wouldn’t bump into me, since she could only go during weekday mornings.
she finally responded and said the following – “ Hello, I apologize for the late message. If I do not tell you this I do not want you to think something else will happen that won’t. This is the third and last time I tell you to stop. I’ve told you verbally, I’ve told you over text message and I’m telling you again now. Please, stop. It is done. You also went against your word and said you only go to the gym at night and you went this morning. It does not matter if it’s the weekend or not. If you say something, please stick to your word or inform me. I would feel more comfortable if you went to a different gym location so I can stop checking your location. This is my home town now and I would rather not bump into you. If you can’t do that please let me know. Again, I am not trying to say this in a rude way I am just trying to get my point across. And be as clear with you as possible. And again, please let me know if at any point you want anything or if you cannot cover the gym expense so I can figure out what to do with it since I don’t fully believe you will cover it and I told you months ago I could not afford it. Please, Let me know about that. Thank you”
So my question is, how should I proceed? I know I was a mistake in trying to move things forward after catching her cheating, but that is done now. I gave my word that I’d continue to pay the gym, because I feel bad about leaving her with that bill, but at the same time, the fact that she is trying to tell me to switch locations, and keep my word on what time I go is really bothering me. The fact that she also wants me to stay out of a city where I’d constantly go eat and shop, is a lot.
Please don't follow this advise if you want the actual truth. Talking only works is she is a terrible lier or she is innocent. If she actually is cheating this will just start the lies and gaslighting.
Check her phone when she is asleep or when possible, I know this is intrusive but anything on the phone will be gone after the first accusation.
The “why didn’t my brother invite me himself” makes no sense. Unfortunately, in heterosexual relationships there’s the expectation that the woman do all the invitations and thank yous – even to her partner’s family. It’s stupid, but tradition.
I'm a little concerned that you resorted to calling her derogatory names in the post, but you're obviously hurt and angry, and reasonably so.
Yeah their relationship can be over but that's still the mother to his child. It's scary.
Forgot you're too young for a drink. Stick with coffee.