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Exactly ! Lol .. the issue is now no one obsessed over him ??
You are 22. Why would you even think of marriage now? Go explore the world. Your gf should do the same.
Nope. He is just humoring you as you seemed to not able to let him go.
Dont send anything. Move on
and you have nothing to say of his controling behaviour..?
You publicly accused your sister’s boyfriend of sexually assaulting you so now that there is evidence showing you were mistaken you need to publicly apologize in the group chat.
Do you think we can work through some of these issues?
What do you mean, “we”? These aren't issues that belong to the two of you, they're issues that belong to him and only him. The only person who can save the relationship is your ex. And so you're asking the wrong question. More importantly, you're asking the wrong person. The internet doesn't make this choice for your ex. Your ex makes this choice for your ex. You would need to talk to him.
And I'm not going to lie: if he came to us with the other side of this story?
Hey guys, I have a question. I had a pretty good connection with my ex, but we broke up. Now she wants to get together again, but she's only interested in doing it if I make significant changes. What should I do?
The advice I would give him would be to walk away. I would tell him that he should be looking for someone who wants to date who he is now, not the person she hopes he can become. And I would give him that advice even if the changes his ex wanted him to make are positive ones (which in this case they are).
Besides, what if, instead of trying to bend him or yourself over backwards, you just went out and found a different guy who, uh, doesn't have these problems? The advice goes both ways. Don't look for someone where you want to date who they could be, look for someone where you want to date the person they are.
You don't want to date the person your ex is. That's why he's your ex. Leave him that way. =)
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She wants to fuck around and find out. Let her find out. Plain and simple. I do chores and my wife does chores. We both sat down and said the chores we like and the chores we push on with. We both have a chore list that is weekly, monthly, and daily. I get all the manly outside stuff, she get all traditional wifey stuff and we split a few up from time to time. And yes I earn more than she does (by a lot) but we have a traditional marriage. I respect her need of sharing the workload of the house as she may want to grab lunch with friends or maybe she will want a spa trip and would want to come home to a clean house and get frisky for me. It's a relationship that is perfectly normal. But your situation is a lady that needs to get the reality check she needs. Anyone who makes these kinds of statements past the age of 15 (I read this online and therefore it's true and I want it or I am leaving you) needs to get checked. Why marry this type of woman in the first place?
Vaginismus. Talk to a doctor, there are ways to help.
Wtf 😀 Does she have some bad mental health issues?
I didn’t mention in the original post bc I wanted people to kind if take his side so I could hear it, but he games for hours a day. Works 15 or less hours a week, and games the rest of the time.
I feel for OP here and agree with most of the comments that this isn't a good look. My only issue is I have read a hundred of these exact stories where a dude says the same thing and the comments are exactly opposite, telling him to get over it because they didn't explicitly say there were excusive and in a relationship. Which actually drives me nuts but thats neither here nor there.
Again, agree with the comments here just wish advice would be more uniform and not depend on the gender of OP.
I'm proud of you.
What is even funny about this?
THIS!! Do not let him know what you have or where you have it!
What an insensitive thing to say to someone who’s clearly struggling.
Commenting so this hopefully gets boosted. Please do this OP!!
So the whole “22 year old boyfriend befriending a 17 year old” thing isn’t weird to you?
You aren’t butting into anything! That’s what’s great about Reddit!
I’m glad our stories helped you in some way and that you’re free from your abuser. It’s sooooo difficult to even get to a point of recognizing that we aren’t crazy or the problem in the relationship.
For you to have accomplished that and to have totally cut them from your life is truly an amazing feat and I hope this isn’t weird but I’m proud of you! ❤️
It’s really hard to quantify to those who have never experienced anything like it how truly deeply these abusive relationships affect us. Reading others’ stories here has helped me soooooo much on my journey of healing. It helps me process things that have happened to me in a different way because when I see it happening to someone else I realize how bad it really is. I’m not sure if that makes sense lol but for me it’s easier to recognize the bad situation you were or are in when you see it through another person’s eyes.
Our minds and our reality get so twisted up by our abusers and getting out is like trying to separate chocolate and vanilla ice cream. A lot of it just feels like it’s so mixed up that it’s turned into a new flavor altogether and that’s hard to accept sometimes.
It’s really sad another person is taking the force of his abuse. We just have to remember that there’s always going to be someone they’re hurting until the abuser gets medical help. Try to remember how hard it was for you to leave and if it’s appropriate and safe then maybe just make sure she will have access to support when things get really bad. It’s really all we can do as survivors.
Sorry for rambling! I wish you all the best in the world ❤️
This has to be fake right?
Girl, it was 5 months not a one time thing. He treat you like a queen and this is what you do to him. Gurl… ?
He doesn't drink often.
I’ve been talking/ unofficially dating this guy for over a year
why? sounds pretty dumb
GP is male.