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Date: October 30, 2022
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I am so, so sorry for your and your wife’s losses. What you are going through is terrible. I can’t even imagine the pain you feel. I hope you can still carry on with some hope.
After reading some of your replies, I just wanted to second the idea of individual therapy, and that one redditor that mentioned Compassionate Friends. You and your wife can get through this, but grief takes many forms and looks so different for everyone. It seems that you understand how the grief is affecting your relationship, but make sure you realize that you must do what you have to do in order to get through this. If you and your wife’s relationship gets so toxic that it ruins you, don’t be afraid to put yourself first. This does not necessarily mean it must be a divorce or separation. It could be living separately but still seeing each other, or even just doing more activities that are independent from one another.
I would highly recommend doing an activity or hobby that gives you happiness and the feeling of purpose: pick up an instrument, try rock climbing, get into exercise, take dance classes, try yoga, etc.. It may feel purposeless at first, but doing so may help you a lot in the long term.
I am just a stranger and you are not obligated to anyone’s advice here. Therapy and professionals are your best bet. You can, and you will get through this. I wish you nothing but the best.
Has he tried magic mushrooms? There is ongoing research that shows it may work for people who don't react to antidepressants.
Warning: mixing with antidepressants might be dangerous. Also bipolar people should not try it
I don't know if I'm just getting paranoid at this point
Yeah I think I'm overthinking it.
OK, here is the idea: you do this as in a 28 day “him-time”. Than you don't see each other for a week, and have a 28 day “her-time”. You define before what you want included in this.
Further context here,
Till today we have not tried extensively to have baby and we were just about to begin trying but things went south, there were times in this duration where our parents kept asking about having baby, my mom took one step ahead and went to doctor along with my wife to find out if anything is wrong clinically although we have been telling her everything was alright, understandably by wife didn't take this well and since I don't like confrontation I let the incidence pass and then later spoke to my mom it was not a right thing to do, at that moment she didn't take me seriously, she went about talking to other family member about this, again my wife didn't take this well, one day we sat and had a conversation where my wife told my mom that there was nothing wrong clinically and we did have a pregnancy and we terminated dude to restriction to travel and we could not be with each other to enjoy the pregnancy, my dream is to always stay with my wife and look after her in this period. Again my mom didn't take this well, she might have gone around telling close family that my wife terminated the pregnancy she might have made it sound like it was her decision and not ours. Fast forward to now, Few weeks ago my wife found out that I had girlfriends before I meet her, I had not told this my self initially because I was worried how she may take this, I agree this is my fault, I had major doubts she may not take this well, which made it worst when she found out and didn't come out of me, one of the major reason why I had not told her before is because she believe in “one partner life time” and she was serious about it, considering some of the things mentally she was going through I was super scared to tell her this and put off telling about it ever since. Now that she has got to know she didn't take it well that I had not told about this before although I had hinted her before that I had girlfriends before. Between all the I know we were not emotionally well connected, I always wanted to improve out relationship I was putting all the efforts possible and I still was not upto the mark in connecting emotionally and lack of communication, but I never gave up, I was always putting effort in improving it as much as possible from my end. Now she things i'm a bad person, she says I manipulate her, and she says I don't stand up for her, there were many times I have stood up to her just not in front of her because I feel if she sees me fighting with other people she may not take it well, I feel like she will take it in a wrong way. She is a kind of person who responds rudely in her voice and delivery but she don't mean it bad, but this worries me, which I have been communicating to her all this time, I don't find her talking romantic but I can easily find her talking rude and harsh about me or other people. We had a very big fight today and she asked me to leave the country we are living and go back home because she is not able to tolerate me, I have always been sitting next to her trying to convince and calm her down. Im promising her I will be a better person and understand her sensitively, i'm willing to put all my efforts into this, she is not able to accept my mom's act and she keeps scolding me that I sound like my mom and I act like my mom and she is not able to accept that I didn't mention about the past girlfriends. At this point she is sleeping across me on the bed and i'm typing on reddit looking for advice and help for my self, how can I make her understand we have better future than our past, I don't want to give up on this marriage, help me with this reddit, let me know if I need to make anything clear in what I have told, I may have missed mentioning things which may not be on top of my mind right now. I think past is gone and we have to focus on future as long as we are involved and willing make it better, What do you think of this situation?
Marriage is something you discuss in a normal stable relationship, and you shouldn't expect someone to propose if younhave never talked about it.
Seriously this things have to be discussed, and that comment your boyfriend made about the giverment and marriage doesn't come from a normal sane person at all, this sounds like conspiracy theory crap, which means he must believe in a bunch of those.