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I hope you can redirect all that love and patience that you have for your gf towards yourself instead. I don't know what you have gone through to make you see yourself this way but I hope you know that others do not see you like that.
If your gf is saying all these negative things about you, why would she be dating you in the first place? Obviously you have many wonderful qualities. I think that it is really shitty of her to put you down like that. No one should be treated this way.
I hate to say it but I really wish you would leave that relationship. It might break you at first but once you heal from it you'll be so much better off.
This isn't going to work out. You need to leave her asap.
It angers me that she's getting tatted while you're covering most of the bills and got the fucking nerve to make a fuss about you buying a new phone with your own damn money. IT'S YOUR MONEY and you're the one PAYING THE BILLS.
This is a deal breaker. You're going to be in more debt being in a relationship with her.
If this isn’t a troll account you are an idiot.
So. Is your boyfriend this selfish usually? Stonewalling you whenever he doesn’t want to talk? Refusing to communicate if its something he doesn’t want? He sounds immature and idk. You really wanna be with one trick pony stone waller?
Might be a case of “Learned Helplessness”. I was in a similar situation once. My ex-husband and his family were quite wealthy, whereas I grew up in a low-income, single-mom household. I was a stay at home mom of a 2yo and wanted to leave desperately but had nowhere to go. He capitalized on this by treating me poorly, thinking I’d never leave the comfort of financial stability.
My days became bleak and dreary and I stopped looking forward to the future. One day I imagined my daughter dating and marrying a man just like her father, and I was terrified. She didn’t deserve that! But what are her options? Hide behind her fear and stay while slowly dying inside? Or face the fear of the unknown in a challenging situation but surfacing as a stronger woman?
When I shifted my perspective, I became empowered. I realized that if it wasn’t okay for her, then it’s not okay for me. I am someone’s daughter. I was once a little girl and I didn’t do anything to deserve this treatment. I realized I needed to leave for her, but also myself. I summoned a huge amount of courage by imagining that I needed to protect my daughter and the little girl inside myself.
It was easily the most difficult challenge in my life but honestly the HARDEST part was deciding to leave…and then following through. Everything after that was easier because by leaving, I was already a happier person.
I’m now sublimely happy, married to an amazing man. I often feel grateful for my life now. I have a calendar reminder every year of the day I left, and I want you to have the same. Find some courage by getting your dog out of that situation, or imagine your niece or little sister in your shoes. What would you want for her. Because you are her and you deserve better.
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It sure does!
It’s not about who he was or what he did. It’s about who he is and what he’s doing. And what he’ll do tomorrow.
You are obviously mismatched. Yes you’re tired, but it seems like you consider sex a hassle any way. Has this always been the case in this relationship, has it been the case in other relationships?
It's almost like people don't want to believe me when I say my child was and is an awful sleeper.
He was still waking up at least 2x per night at 3, he's 6 now and still wakes up at least 3 times a week just to come ask if it's still nighttime(even though he can tell time and has a clock.)
When I learned about this for the first time, I was furious. Someone needs to warn these women. I don't know any of them and have zero way of contacting them.
My boyfriend is very very forgiving. We've talked about his friends before and both came to a conclusion that no one is perfect and we can't expect we'll surround ourselves with perfect people.
I will say, I had a friend once who was racist and I immediately felt compelled to push her away. I did. She's no longer my friend. But that's me. My boyfriend is just too gentle with people. And like I said, I'm not about to tell him to stop seeing this friend because he's his only friend. I don't want to change my boyfriend or try to control him.
It's a tough situation to be in because if I knew these women, I would tell them IMMEDIATELY to run the other way. But my boyfriend does not do confrontation.
How did he react?
I too had to go back and look at the ages. I thought it was teenagers
Adults don't act this way. I too partied a lot in my late 20s and early 30s, and games like this weren't what we did. Those are adolescent games.
I would have major trust issues too if my SO acted like a teenager and played these kinds of games while drunk.
It shows her maturity level for sure.
Yeah that’s very good advice thank you.
When we have spoken about it before he has said “he hopes that I can see he’s just a good person helping someone out” which then makes me feel like a terrible person by saying to stop sending money to someone with cancer, am I?
*** everything below is assuming these girls are of age and not someone you know or something super creepy ***
Based on your replies, it appears you don't really agree with your boyfriend looking at other women/watching porn/etc, right?
Well you have the right to that opinion. He also has the right to masturbate if he wants, assuming the conditions in the top of this post are met.
Decide how big of a deal it is to you and then make a decision. But if you're out there looking for guys who don't occasionally look at naked chicks or watch porn….it's probably going to be a much tougher road to finding your eventual partner.
Oh my gosh, it’s not that deep.
That is RAPE. Report him and LEAVE.
I do love my wife, but I also love my best friend. We haven't done counseling. What would be the point? I know how I feel. My wife had heart surgery at the beginning of the year that was supposed to help her heart beat better and give her more energy. She hasn't done any exercises or anything since she got home from the hospital. She isn't going to change.
If the situation were reversed I would have asked her to leave me a long time ago. I didn't sign up to be a caregiver only, and wouldn't want her to.
i mean it matters bc in the long term OP will never have a healthy relationship if she allows her family to do that. by not stopping them she is actively taking part in hurting her SO.
Some ladies are crazy ?
Being uncomfortable because your partner talks about someone of the opposite sex is weird. I don’t necessarily blame your boyfriend for not wanting to be upfront about who he was talking to.
He has lived with two women before, the first was emotionally abusive and the other emotionally and physically abusive. I don't know for sure if that affects his feelings around it, but I think it could at least partly be that. I would be okay with waiting with moving, I'm in no rush. It feels so awful to lose him completely over this. I appreciate your comment.
I was thinking that maybe you could plan a trip somewhere for the two of you for romance. I actually like the above commenters idea more though. You’re a lucky guy! Treat her like the gold she is.
One day soon OP can be an ex that she sexts with and then her future partner will post here.
When somome tells you they're uncomfortable with your body and find it to be icky……believe them the first time.
Stop trying to change your boyfriend. He's just going through the motions for your sake.