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Lila, 24 y.o.
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Date: October 30, 2022
Why on Earth are you spending $600 on Christmas gifts for #ONE PERSON?!
Y’all ain’t even married!
Hell, my parents are, and we don’t even go above $150 for each person in my family.
Let her be. The more you push the more she will pull. You can show her you care by respecting her choices.
It may be simplistic, but have you read “The Broken Mirror’ by Katherine Phillips? That may help you understand body dysmorphia better. However, it is not your responsibility to ‘fix’ or ‘treat’ your girlfriend’s mental health and whilst as a partner it is good to be supportive, she is responsible for managing her own mental health. By outsourcing this onto you, she is avoiding seeking treatment and finding good coping strategies to reduce her symptoms.
it really boils down to if you can get over it. If you are completely unattracted to him it doesn't really matter if it's a “valid” reason or not. No sense staying in a relationship with someone who has flicked your off switch. It will just end up making you and him really bitter/resentful.
I'm seeing a concerning set of posts in the last day or so, that follow the same theme, of infertility in couples causing problems in relationships, where there's a big gap in knowledge of the process people struggling with infertility go through. Like the writed didn't even bother to research it, is how it feels.
There another post floating around right now about a couple who tried for 14 years to have a baby, split, and she got pregnant on a one night stand, and they are both…surprised(??) that she wasn't the one infertile.
Like…if you tried for 14 years, don't tell me you didn't go through these options, and speak to a doctor, and check fertility of each of you at a minimum. (And no, there was no mention of religious reasons to not check this stuff out).
I was just trying to be intimate nothing else dude
It's been ELEVEN YEARS. He is not going to marry you. The only insight we can give is to accept it, or leave.
This guy also isn't as great as you seem to think he is. You dated for a year and a half before he revealed that—whoops!—he was actually still married? C'mon, girl. Wise up
I told her a relationship is what I was looking for, she knows that, we’re just not at that point yet
Yes. He clearly is still looking for a mommy to take care of him. He won't change unless he wants to. Get out now. I dated a guy like this in my late 20s/early 30s and I promise you, he will not change.
Dating 6-7 months is far far to early to be thinking of marriage. You hardly know each other. Tell her that.
And it will take you longer to get to a stage of knowing each other if you’re long distance. You would need to be living together before marriage to know if you’re compatible domestically.
He is threatened by your ability to earn more than him, and he's annoyed you are no longer doing “mommy” duties like doing all his ironing, bringing him his lunch, and cooking every damn meal for him. You enabled a lazy man previously, and now you aren't.
You have made INCREDIBLE AND AMAZING changes to yourself and your life. He should be your biggest supporter, but he can't see past his own selfishness. He is now required to be self sufficient to a much bigger degree than he was used to. Did he marry you because he loved you, or because you did everything bar wipe his ass for him?
He is actively trying to sabotage you and emotionally manipulate you. Do not fall for it, and NEVER make yourself smaller for someone else. You are so kick ass, and he's damn lucky to be married to you. Don't you ever forget that xo