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Date: October 29, 2022
you need therapy immediately. seriously, this is just fucked man.
Yeah there’s something really weird to me, about someone who loves to watch someone fuck and someone be fucked. Really awkward to me. My ex told me his phone was filled with porn. Like downloaded onto his phone. He said he needed to “clear out his phone” when we got into a relationship bc I voiced it to him that porn made me really self conscious and I don’t like my partner consuming it. Instead we made our own videos, and he told me that as long as he had our pics and videos he didn’t need to watch porn. But the dude was definitely a sex addict. Or porn addict or both because I think he would just lie and watch porn anyways and just hide it from me 🙁 I never went thru his phone one time. Never even tried. Never wanted to. But yeah. He had them downloaded. Like you’re a true addict if you have to have it downloaded into your phone. I really hate to think too that our generation is so saturated with porn consumption that it has become something “normal” and nearly a form of entertainment like watching a show on tv. And if you’re against it then you’re uptight and selfish and controlling.
Get out of there
I was once in a Discord chat and there was a private girls only channel. One day the admin fucked up the permissions on it and allowed everyone access to it.
What was in that channel destroyed the friend group and and two relationships.
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FFS. ?♂️ So now you're a mind reader? Stay in your lane and let the man answer for himself.
Let me clarify. He professed his love for her, then he purposely didn't ask her to be exclusive so he could go fuck other women while he was on his vacation. Please explain how he's got a leg to stand on here.
Tell them you suspect your passport number is on a watch list, so you're not comfortable providing it. You have to be very careful since you travel for business, etc etc.
I try not to divulge my past to my gf. I try to be as stoic and strong as possible. For the sheer reason that I dont think she will want me any more if I show weakness or sadness to her.
If she does that, anyone who does that to their partner, don't deserve to be in a relationship. Being vulnerable is a human trace, that has nothing to do with the gender each one of us identifies as. You are human and you have every right to cry, not be strong, be weak at some points, be sad, be anxious, be everything.
You have gone through things that are way above reddit's pay grade, but you are in the process of getting over them with your therapist and that is great! Allow your girlfriend to know that you are struggling. You have your own reasons to be uncomfortable with families, but to her you might come off as indifferent or even an asshole. If my partner did the same, and I didn't have the info about his past, the first things I would think is that he doesn't like my family, I would make up senarios about the reason and think for sure that he is hiding some serious shit.
Please, consider opening up to her. I know it is scary, but do it step by step and at your own pace. If she doesn't accept or acknowledge all these and doesn't show the will to support you, well… you dodged a bullet there.
I am a neurodivergent man and have some similar experiences to your partner, I can't speak to whether or not he also falls into this category but it does sound like it could be close. Now that I'm nearly 30 I've been lucky enough to meet my wonderful fiancé and have a brilliant group of friends with whom we can share anything, but making new friends who don't already “know” me is… difficult. I get told that I'm blunt, or harsh, or intimidating, or a “know-it-all” and a huge amount of that comes from me not understanding social cues, it is never my intention to make anybody feel this way or to come across in a certain way, and the people I share my life with closely all know that I have good intentions so they don't see it, but that goes less for strangers.
One of my love languages is info-dumping, and I fully understand that that can be annoying but I don't realise I'm doing it at the time. There are a few subjects where because I'm so interested in them I've got a pretty hefty amount of info in my brain, and when my friends ask me questions I want them to be as informed as possible, and can talk for a while about things I enjoy. This isn't because I like the sound of my own voice, I get carried away because I want the people I love to have every bit of their question answered, and they know they can stop me at any point. With strangers, this gets perceived as me “showing off”, hence the know-it-all comments, and it sucks to be seen as that way when in my head I'm just answering someone's question to the best of my ability. Maybe if your partner is very keen on UFC his co-workers feel like he goes overboard talking about it so don't include him, when in actual fact all your partner wants to do is be involved in the conversation but tries a little too hard in doing so?
One of the other cues I struggle with is people asking for advice, because I've found that many people just want affirmation or validation, not an actual solution. My close friends all know this now and we have a system whereby if one of them comes for advice or consolation, we have an exchange of “Am I listening today or problem-solving?” So that I know how to respond. We had a friend who used to come over a lot to cry/complain about dating a string of unpleasant guys one after the other, and she told us that she kept saying yes to guys and going home with them even when they were mean to her because it was better than being alone, I told her she needed therapy to figure out why that was, and she was upset and told my fiance it was harsh. Afterwards, I realised that I could have put it better and it came across badly, and I apologised and it's all fine now, but I had to explain that I wasn't being dismissive or critical, I genuinely felt like therapy was a good way to address the issues that she was facing because they were beyond my paygrade, so to speak.
Basically, many neurodivergent people don't know how to spot all of the “rules” of social interaction that exist amongst neurotypicals. This can be fine amongst close friends who get to see all the good as well, and know exactly how you mean everything, but it can be very challenging to interact with strangers/new social groups because each one comes with social nuance to navigate. A lot of neurotypical people also don't feel like taking the time to accomodate neurodivergent people because they feel like “everyone should just know these things” which can make it especially difficult when you had an abnormal upbringing, parents who didn't know/get you tested/were in denial about potential issues, or you didn't have access to resources and care. Maybe people just need to get to know him better! Have a serious, face to face conversation with your loved ones about what their issues might be, and don't let up if they continue to be dismissive of your concerns 🙂
Uh, no. You got him a job – that’s his reward.
Forget his wants. What do you want? That’s all I’m interested in. It’s all that matters.