He's not your best friend. You guys just got out of a relationship so it feels that way. You guys will not be able to actually be friends for a long time. It's not possible to get over an ex while being “best friends” right after a relationship. You guys are just having a hard time letting go. Get in or get out. With his manipulative tactics, I say get out.
Time for you to grow up, decide whether you love the girl and want to be a father to the baby or a POS which sounds like how you re leaning. Your best friends sound like Dbags, pressuring for an abortion, she seems to smart for you to be honest, you sound like a boy. Time for you to make some grown up decisions.
Me: So you would want a blowjob from someone else? Someone other than me?
Him: With your permission yes, if someone offered it and the opportunity arose.
You responded as if you give him blowjob's…
He isn't talking to other girls. Isn't seeking out blowjob's. Didn't try to pressure you to give him one. He made an offhand comment while talking about dreams and hypotheticals that s blowjob would be nice….
But since you've never given him one and he presumably knows your opinion/feelings he isn't expecting one from you and doesn't intend to pressure you for one either
He's love bombing you so you stay and he has a backup. The trust is broken and so is the relationship, there's no going back. I'm sure he's being obvious again because that's clearly his M.O.
The most important question you have to ask yourself in these situations is “am I happy?”.
And so, I ask you: are you happy right now? Is this what you want? If you don't mind a cheater, then by all means, stay. Otherwise, just move on, because this cycle will never stop. Ever.
You say you don't know how to be yourself without him, but honey, you've been alive 23 years. Don't let almost 2 measly years with an AH ruin who you are. You're really young and this will be an important lesson for the future. The heartbreak will soon fade and you'll feel good about this decision.
Believe me when I tell you he's not unique in any way. There are almost 8 billion people on this Earth, you'll find a Mr. Right soon enough. One that's not a douchebag.
He's not your best friend. You guys just got out of a relationship so it feels that way. You guys will not be able to actually be friends for a long time. It's not possible to get over an ex while being “best friends” right after a relationship. You guys are just having a hard time letting go. Get in or get out. With his manipulative tactics, I say get out.
The way my head snapped around when he said that ??
MFer, you stupid? Probably should call her your ex-gf ??♀️
Time for you to grow up, decide whether you love the girl and want to be a father to the baby or a POS which sounds like how you re leaning. Your best friends sound like Dbags, pressuring for an abortion, she seems to smart for you to be honest, you sound like a boy. Time for you to make some grown up decisions.
If you want to be willfully ignorant of how discussions unfold on reddit, be my guest.
Him: well it would be nice to get a blowjob
Me: So you would want a blowjob from someone else? Someone other than me?
Him: With your permission yes, if someone offered it and the opportunity arose.
You responded as if you give him blowjob's…
He isn't talking to other girls. Isn't seeking out blowjob's. Didn't try to pressure you to give him one. He made an offhand comment while talking about dreams and hypotheticals that s blowjob would be nice….
But since you've never given him one and he presumably knows your opinion/feelings he isn't expecting one from you and doesn't intend to pressure you for one either
He's love bombing you so you stay and he has a backup. The trust is broken and so is the relationship, there's no going back. I'm sure he's being obvious again because that's clearly his M.O.
The most important question you have to ask yourself in these situations is “am I happy?”.
And so, I ask you: are you happy right now? Is this what you want? If you don't mind a cheater, then by all means, stay. Otherwise, just move on, because this cycle will never stop. Ever.
You say you don't know how to be yourself without him, but honey, you've been alive 23 years. Don't let almost 2 measly years with an AH ruin who you are. You're really young and this will be an important lesson for the future. The heartbreak will soon fade and you'll feel good about this decision.
Believe me when I tell you he's not unique in any way. There are almost 8 billion people on this Earth, you'll find a Mr. Right soon enough. One that's not a douchebag.
Good luck.