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Was he walking around with $800 in his pocket! Did he actually spend that or did the atm make a mistake?
this. run now. it’ll get even worse once you’re married.
You are too nice. You should have told her long distancr partner he was cheating. Why did you let him walk scott free? You could have showed them the evidences you had of the cheating. Make it a rule of thumb, dont wrong someone by your own accord, but if someone wrongs you dont let them walk free. It is not about avenging something, it is about understanding your own value and commanding that respect for yourself that people cant come and treat you any which way they like.
You could easily make that serving at a nice restaurant. When you turn 21 you can easily make it bartending at just about any bar that has steady business
First of all I'm so sorry that this happened to you and second of all i don't know the extent of your injuries but if your ovaries are still intact or even if they are not having children is definitely very much still on the table for you guys, you can adopt!! A lot of kids are out there waiting for a family, so definitely a dick move by your MIL, because honestly it's out of your control, i think you should tell your husband because it's clearly affecting you, and perhaps even making you feel less like a woman and i think he needs to know what his mother is saying and how she's treating you
People can get banned on cod, and if they do get banned, then they cant use voice chat or send messages. And in that case you have to use some external app to chat while playing. Id say that they are just friends that play games together.
Now obviously its up to you if it bothers you. Thats something you have to decide for yourself.
Uhhh more like 18-29. That one last year makes a huge difference. He’s not almost done she’s just way younger
Poor guy, you’ve got him convinced he can’t do any better than you. If you truly “regret” what you did, then you’d let him go and move on. But it sounds like you’re more comfortable with the idea of using him to be “practical”. Yuck.
I think that in your attempt to hide the shame from family, and under the misguided belief that this was going to be better for your daughter, you've actually made the situation way more complicated. Unless both parties were sincerely attempting to salvage the marriage, you should have begun divorce proceedings years ago. I mean, how was this supposed to play out, you eventually supporting her and her long term boyfriend in some weird “throuple” scenario? The fact that your daughters mother (quit calling her your wife, that ship has sailed in all but the strictest legal sense) has the balls to call you selfish while you leave the room and she talks to her boyfriend, in a house you pay for…this is some of the craziest bizarro fiction I've ever read. Come to terms with being separated from your child, the mother will most likely get custody, get used to holidays and summers. Send the mom packing and begin divorce proceedings. As for the military, you could do a lot worse, I'm retired after 22years of active duty and my retirement pay plus VA benefits mean I don't have to work but do because I still have one child in the house and I think it's important that children see that's what men do, we get up and go to work. Oh, and if you do go military, for the love of god, please try to go AF or Navy first, quality of life will be so much better…cheers and hope you find a way out of this mess
Euw…. He’s pulling an Adam Levine… it’s gross
I would be upset too. Yes you should have told her how you felt. And you are not over reacting. Maybe it was an innocent thing. Who was there that she wanted to pay attention to other than you? If you want to let this one go, fine. But if she ever did it again in any setting then I would move on if I were you. Her behavior was rude and hurtful. She basically sent you that message out of obligation. I don't think in the end she wanted you there. I would be asking why personally. People words mean absolutely nothing. Their actions say it all.
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This sounds like a really exhausting relationship. Glad you are thinking about a fresh start
It's hilarious to me that you cooking a dish for your shitty husband is what you consider rash.
Fucking go snip the cords to those Bass speakers. Dip all his shoes in water. Tell his family his shitty behavior is why you're no longer attending at all.
By cooking for him, you're telling him that you're willing to sweep all this under the rug so he can go play presentable to his parents. You're hiding his bad behavior and if it turns into abuse, you'd probably hide that, too.
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Hey OP, I can't update on the update post but I hope you are okay
Your husband has more or less told on himself – and he knows it, which is why he can't bring himself to agree to talk to you.
You can't force him to talk – and honestly, I don't think he will talk to you unless he thinks he can make up a good enough story.
I used to work with survivors of domestic abuse and sexual assault. My recommendation would be to let your parents know first, then someone speaks privately to your stepbrother – don't ambush him with everyone at once – and asks him straightforwardly if he ever noticed anything strange about your ex, or if he had ever been made to feel uncomfortable. I hope for everyone's sake that the strange jealousy is all it ever came to – but please brace yourself in case the answer is worse than you think.
I understand the fear and shame that comes from talking about this, but what you need to remember is that you have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of here. I was absolutely appalled to read that a man pushing 40 asked an 18 y/o (who he's known for years!) how/what he masterbates to.
IMO Your stepbrother is old enough to know at least the gist of this – make sure he knows that you don't blame him at all, this is entirely the fault of your (hopefully!) ex and his gross behaviour.
Honestly, you might find it easier to show them your posts because you've included all the relevant information there.
Best of luck, and again – no one has anything to be ashamed about, except for him! The goal is to love and protect your brother now – and your family should be there for you too. I can only imagine how devastating and infuriating this entire ordeal has been.
Also, having kids. That is a surefire way to make sure that you will always have the other parent in your life till one of you dies.
Tbh I would never have kids with someone without marriage. Too much risk for a man who is willing to commit to lifelong co-parenting and scared of divorce.
Breakup or divorce it will be rough either way.
You shouldn't have to tip toe around things you say, but very few people will want to know the details of their partner's sexual past.
You can still be best friends with someone and not discuss that stuff in such fine detail.
That is NOT excusing your current partner's behavior. He's an ass. No one gets to treat you that way. If he doesn't want to hear about it, he can ask you nicely to stop.
That’s substantially what I told OP in my original post: if this is a problem for you, break up.
I wouldn’t have a problem with it because the context makes it explicable and because I trust my partner. If he doesn’t enjoy those luxuries, he should push off.
it’s hard to do that he’s literally close with my whole family
So? He nearly killed you and you need to consider reporting this…
Have the fight.
To be honest, she needs to know she is not treating you right. And from what you've said, she will get seriously offended the moment you bring it up. And
So, go ahead and have the fight. That's where you're headed anyway. Because if you don't, this relationship is going to go down the drain.
Though, you should consider dumping her. She sounds really immature.
You can end things for any reason you want but if you're not exclusive it's hard to judge him for not being faithful.
What happens in Vegas, in fact, does not actually stay in Vegas. Especially if there pictures – even cropped out lol. With that being said… are you sure it was a “date” and not “friends hanging out”?
If I was you, I'd ask him bout the picture and what exists between the two of them. And if you want to be exclusive? Stake that claim… or exit stage left because of what happened on vacation. I'd at least get his response first and go from there.
Hey love. You need to not go. Text “I quit” and block him and your coworkers. You have a very hard time saying “no.” You have a hard time having any boundaries. You let people walk all over you.
Did you have parents that didn’t care about your boundaries? That you felt you did that want to get upset and had to give in to? I grew up in that environment and its very hard to unlearn. But you can.
You are being abused right now. He is a grown man, he will figure his own shit out. You are a student, you are there to take care of yourself and your own education. Do NOT go back. Do not show up, give your text and then block everyone. I also recommend getting therapy because this issue you have with an innability to have boundaries and speak up for yourself will never go away.
Please take care of yourself. You can do it love???
Call the police, he is a ducking animal!
You do know she can also get herpes even if she doesn’t kiss them? There’s genital herpes.
It’s a really weird hang up to be honest.
Just call it quits.
You really, really need to leave. Their financial situation is NOT your problem. This is borderline abuse, if it isn’t actual abuse. Your mother has no right in your space and to constantly give you shit for YOUR things, is so fucked up. I live an hour away from my parents and they do the same thing. While it may never actually change, the best thing you can do is leave.
After all this time and all the time he's put into you and your children I'm inclined to think he's in love with you and has been for the majority of your friendship.
Definitely more likely now. You're right, I don't trust her, but I've known her for years and I'm so insecure that I really could just be making it up. I'm not gonna end something good right away over one Reddit comment lmao
You’re young and frankly, probably not ready to take on a full blown commitment. Most 19 year olds are not. In fact, two years is a pretty good run as a couple. Let that be OK just tell her I’m not ready to be committed. I have other things I want to do more like a business and college and so I’m breaking up we can be friends at some point but it’s not working for me anymore. There’s no way to do it without hurting her if she likes you. I’m sorry you’re gonna break your heart. It’s just the way that it is.
Exactly. I guess it's that opening part I need and when to bring it up. The fact that I had to ask reddit is ridiculous because I'm making it a bigger a deal than it is. Lol
You mean transactional?
It does sound like you are walking away from your marriage. You do talk about you and you. Your husband seems like a burden to you and your future.
I do not think your marraige will last. You might want to consider getting a D. and let him find someone that wants to be in a relationship with him.
You spelt ex bf wrong.
And before you leave, swap the lube he uses to masturbate with for something spicy, say puréed ghost peppers, or superglue, so when he uses it after you leave he strips something of himself.
Nothing about what you described is remotely clingy or inappropriate behavior. You’re just dating a dickhead (and it sounds like your friends aren’t great either.)
This is just about the stupidest thing I’ve ever seen someone say on here.
I could tell it was just about trolling and I didn't feel like entertaining that but there could actually be people that might bring up the fact that it's her grandma argument, which is why I replied.
It’s not black and white. He definitely should take up marriage counseling. I was in a similar predicament but not for 10 years and I know from that experience that forgiving is very difficult
I'm not saying he's not responsible. I'm just saying it's not all his fault
UPDATE
Hi all!
Thanks everyone who commented on this post. One or two people had been asking for an update so here it is…
Turns out he has been having some kind of an affair with that friend of his that I mentioned in my original post. I found out yesterday because he left his Whatsapp on and logged in on the laptop. So I could read along while he professed his eternal love for her, mentioned that he will separate from me soon, hinted at their previous meetings and tried to set up a date to go and meet her parents. She kinda turned him down though.
So there we go. I guess that's the reason he suddenly started getting so jealous over me having male friends or colleagues. It wasn't me doing anything wrong, it was him projecting his own actions. Mystery solved.
Oh god ew… I somehow glossed over that bit…
Ohhh. I never read those clickbaity things. My poor boomer mother does all the time and gets lost in endless internet holes ????
Let's not forget the Porsche
Something I like to do to calm a hectic situation is “the art of distraction”. I will throw out something so wildly confusing whatever was currently going on is completely forgotten. Your husband is doing this to you. However, I am a preschool teacher and do this with children.
Also….he's probably cheating.
I say go for the abortion and tell him you miscarried. He doesn’t own your body. Then tell him to get a vasectomy which is much faster and safer than tubal ligation
Yeah… I read as far as the group chat thing and it's like… even the first post descended into chaos, fairly quick. It was obvious that what they had together was something I believe no outside relationship could withstand, considering how much he facilitated it.
Yikes…
He probably should’ve either sorted this out before you made things official, or decided he couldn’t get past it and not pursued the relationship any further. It’s not fair of him to keep throwing it back in your face after knowing what happened and still choosing to date you.
While it’s admirable for you to be really supportive and sensitive to his feelings around this, it sounds like it might be at the point where you need to tell him to either sort it out or break up. That he can’t keep using the information against you in every argument or issue.
If you stay with her your teaching her its ok to be dishonest and unfaithful as well, where will it end? If she knows you will always forgive her for even the worst transgression will she even think twice about doing something not as bad?
I'm willing to bet you often compare your new man to your ex, whether out loud or just to yourself.
Don't. It's up to her when she feels comfortable, it's not for you to try to convince her otherwise. Be happy with her just the way she is.
Thank god my gf doesn’t care about ring price. I could get her a 100$ ring and she would be happy.
You (collectively) need to decide if you want to have kids or not. That’s the conversation you need to have. You clearly want them, so if she doesn’t, divorce her and find someone who does. You’re getting to the end of the rope as far as kids are concerned. If you wait much longer, it’ll be too late.
She's a serial cheater. And her lying is practically pathological at this point.
I think you're in love with a person that doesn't truly exist, as harsh as that may sound.
You’re so fucked up, you don’t even know what loving and caring mean anymore.
1) Giving out fake numbers is becoming less effective, because guys nowadays will call the number immediately to check if it's real
2) Lots of guys don't care if the woman they're pursuing has a boyfriend. OP even said that his girlfriend did the the guy that she's taken, and he still kept pushing
My god OP, reading through your responses. I'm pretty sure your relationship is gonna end soon.
You sound more emotionally insecure than your 20F GF.
You went and tattled to her dad?
“I need you to pay me back that $1K I loaned you ASAP. Thanks.”
Lol she’s hilarious for that
You might be right, but I couldn’t imagine my life without my fiancée in my life for my son, and myself. I also couldn’t image my life if I couldn’t see my son everyday.
Definitely it's weighing heavily on your mind.
If I may add another suggestion, resist the urge to help things along by trying to direct his actions. eg setting up appointments for him, telling him what he should be doing for you, googling his issues and then forwarding articles, etc. If he's deep down a conniving rotten apple he'll use all that to tell you what you want to hear and show you what you want to see. I know it's hard but let things unfold naturally if you want to see something genuine.
Sounds like you've already started yourself off on the right foot, good luck!
Just hide the rug. If they come over again you won’t need to hide it because they’ll just assume you got it after.
You are being used. He knows it and doesn’t care. Otherwise this problem would have been solved. Instead he tries to make you feel bad and says you are complaining. Time to move on and find someone who understands that relationships only work when there is reciprocation