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Date: October 28, 2022
OP, please listen to this comment.
Your husband is abusing you 100% of the time. The love you feel from him? It's either toxic or fake.
You work, make money, but have to give him all that money in his personal account and you can't take any without asking for it? He's abusing you 100% of the time with that alone.
Financially speaking, in the laws of the few most developed countries, income from any spouse belongs 50% to one spouse and 50% to the other.
You should be keeping 50% of his income and 50% of your income, then both pay equally for the couple's common expenses and savings, and whatever money is left to each spouse belongs to that spouse in their personal bank account for that spouse's personal expenses or additional savings; obviously asking the other spouse in case of wanting to make a big expense. And bank/credit/financial statements should be shared too to keep each other honest.
Not telling her would end the friendship for sure. Don’t bring up the affair just tell her about the recording device and let her take it from there.
Call someone you trust. Ask them to come get you. Be safe.
lol such a weird personality disorder, the repetitive posting on Reddit.
Update:
The other evening she started sending me houses in the Sunshine Coast, Australia. She said “I've always wanted to live there and with you that feels possible.”
I've been really put off after that. She's implying I'll use my properties and investments as equity to buy us a house.
I'd say this relationship is over. Which sucks, because I think she might be actually expecting a ring soon (based off what her best friend told me).
You have zero reason to feel any guilt. He was a total bag of $unts to speak to you like that though! Nobody cheated you just had a shitty last encounter with a shitty ex boyfriend! No stop worrying and go be happy? Also hope you don't really remain friends cause he sucks.
Alpha = abusive behaviour 9/10 times imo
OP I doubt you were ‘insecure’ he was probably blaming you for his cheating ass.
She's cheating trust
My ex's mom was like that. It was always, he needs help. So get him the fucking help that he needs. Also, she would constantly say that she was getting tired of his shit and was going to kick him out because they were allowing him to live at home. Finally after 3 years of hearing her say that and nothing changing, I finally told her to shut up and stop saying it because we both knew that it wasn't going to happen.
very uncomfortable with this situation as i know how guys are..
You only need to worry about how your gf is. Trustworthy or not.
What if it just pokes you and that's it?
It may be worth having some words about it then. Maybe she doesn’t realize how important this is for you or maybe she’s uncomfortable with the different directions your lives are heading toward. I would frame this conversation less as a family obligations thing and more as a “what’s happening with our friendship” thing. Your hurt is totally justified in that sense.
Maybe you’re sexually incompatible. I’ve never heard of a guy not wanting to be on top. I can understand a guy not wanting to go down on a woman (will never be with me though), but I’m confused about him not wanting to be in missionary.
You’re right but I hate this answer lol
Emotional
If you make a tiny mistake (you threw away chips then offered to get new ones)
And he has such a big fit that it makes you feel terrible
That’s emotional abuse
Sorry to break it to you
Does this stuff happen normally!? Or is this a one off?
Dude this is not very conceivable to me. She would pull that money back just like I wouldnt do that to my step-son. No way that is ever a scenario. And I’ve been thru a nasty divorce and child custody so have some background on this.
My ex couldn’t and had no interest in trying. He was extremely selfish in bed and it was one of the main reasons i broke it off with him. My current partner is the complete opposite. Always asking me if i liked what he was doing and/or if he could do more. He makes sure i get off first, even multiple times before he does.
This exactly. I get this is not what you want but he's not taking your feelings serious and it's just going to get worse. You've already talked to him many times about this and he just does not care.
I sudden sitting down with the sister and just hearing it from her mouth, especially if it wi give you closure. he probably think it done with
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She claims it was a drunken mistake with some stranger. She said she did it because she felt lost in this relationship and was unsure where it was going. Now she’s apologizing and wants to work it out. She confessed after I bugged the hell out of her for acting very strange recently and I knew something was off
Never mind answering my other question. You're clearly clueless about libido.
INFO: Does your mom want her there?
Male here, I barely check my phone during the day. Also he’s at work, ya? Work is not time to text.
Maybe talk to him directly about this? The answer is likely just that he’s busy
it does sound like a big deal, because it is. i have 20 years on you please believe me that it’s not normal except for people who are controlling to dictate what you do with your body.
a normal person would go after seeing a picture “that looks cool, so you think you would grow it out again or do you like this length more?” you would then reply in the way you did here and they would go ‘makes sense’ or somesuch and never mention it again.
please reconsider your relationship because i suspect these aren’t the only things he “advises” or rather in truth pressures you on.
Ah, good point!
When we originally talked about it, we agreed on him texting her less and not around me. I made it clear then that it's something I am not comfortable with, but agreed to meet in the middle, because maybe it truly is harmless? Such a complex topic, haha.
I agree with you, it seems strange when people talk a lot but never mention their partner..like they are hiding it
No, lots of people in the real world, including ANY doctor or nurse, would tell you it’s not smart to let someone with Covid stay in the same tiny apartment as a 3 month old baby with an undeveloped immune system.
But that's not what OP's gf did. She asked to open the relationship, not what his thoughts were about the topic. Even having an active interest in opening the relationship is cause for concern.
I am waiting for the right moment, she was a shy girl
yep it was very hard to find a woman my age. had to settle for 1 year younger one. knowing this sub this age gap must be very unsettling for most
He knows and he doesn't give a shit. What a fucking asshole. Just block him and be done with him.
Jfc, you have waited over 3.5 years in hopes he will magically change. He showed you he was a cheated before you even dated. He cheated on AT LEAST 2 of his exes. How he’s cheated on you multiple times. What do you believe will happen which will make him decide he is done cheating?
You’ve already sunk 3.5 years into this relationship, STOP wasting MORE of your time.
1 is “if you are in town, you should visit this restaurant”
2 is “if you are in the state/province, you should visit this restaurant”
3 is “if you are in this country, you should visit this restaurant”
generally speaking
You don't need proof to be able to report something to the police. You just need to tell them what happened.
I'm in my 40s and use SC with a few people I char with regularly because I can send videos and stupid pics without taking up extra space on my phone. It's normal to chat with the same person on different forms of social media.
This is not what love looks like and this person is being really mean to you. Childhood sweetheart or not what's the point if they can't even be nice to you!! Have some self respect and leave. Don't let this person treat you this way!!!
dump him. he’s a cheater.
That’s really smart! Thank you!
About half of women who are murdered are murdered by a current or former partner.
It's around 10% for men.
So yes, possibly worse if they're your boyfriend or recent ex-boyfriend.
Your buying in he was abused by ex gf? He could tell parents anything, but truth is at that age, criminal charges would have been brought forth on his abuser. Ask him to go to the police and file charges against his abuser ex. He will say no, cause he made this all up.
Don't move in together. Find someone that will love you and think the world of you. This is just wasting time and will be hurting you and your son.
But don't you know he'll change eventually? Like when he's 60.. or decides to leave her for a 19yo ??♀️
I swear these posts get more depressing by the day. Contact a lawyer and see what your options are because this isn't a good man. And staying isn't gonna miraculously make him a good man.
And if OP says well he isn't always that bad.. i give up on life really.
I'm trying to put myself in her shoes and convince myself that I was just insecure. But I know with certainty if I acted that way to her with another woman, she would have ran out the bar furious at me. Seems the expectations are the same -she just didn't hold up her side of it.
He sends vids tho, but never video chatted
I wonder if she'd take fur from the camel after she broke it's back.
Ah, yes, that long-term goal of playing in several bands and never making time to foster meaningful relationships with a partner who you treat like a priority.
He’s the problem because he’s deciding to be in a relationship he isn’t willing to devote adequate time to. His lifestyle wouldn’t be a problem if he were single. Relationships require time and effort. He doesn’t have bandwidth to participate in a healthy relationship. So he needs to come to terms with that and either end the relationship or make time for it. Pretty straightforward.
You should both shower before sex.
You did right. Don't let those girls make you second guess yourself. Lucy didn't respect your relationship. She wanted to hang out with her friends, and showed she valued them more than you.
If she's willing to prove a change in attitude, then consider giving her a second chance. Otherwise, you'll keep having the same type of arguments.
You're both young, you're going to make these kinds of mistakes. But it's up to you to set the tone and standards of the relationship. It's called setting frame.
So this confirms two things:
1) they do hang out.
2) he's not shutting down a girl who's clearly coming on to him.
The medication won't strike you dead the first time you take it, like a bolt of lightening. It also won't cause you to grow horns or a beard. Try it, return to the clinic as advised, see if you are having any side effects and if you are, tell them to the doctor. At that point they may adjust the dose, change drugs, or add a second drug. You are free to quit at any time, although you should taper off under your doctor's supervision because some of the drugs can cause unpleasant withdrawal effects.
I hope that addresses some of your worries.
I kiss my dog good morning and goodnight and tell her I love her, you should be aiming a bit higher than that
Your past is nothing at all, OP. You don't owe a current the down & dirty details of things you've done with others and seem to have a real fear of being judged by your very, very basic sexual past. It also sounds like you were SA'd by that one dude, so you really really don't need to talk about this if you don't want to. Your current should not have these really granular details about x thing that you did with x guys? It's kind of a creepy standard? You shouldn't have lied, though.
Divorce is correct. Your husband is a man-child that didn't grow up. It would be super cool to live in a van and roadtrip for a few months seeing the country. But he has a child and a wife to support. You keep making sacrifices for him, but he doesn't consider you at all.
I would talk to his parents and explain that the marriage is ending for these reasons. You can move back to being close to them so you can raise your son near family. The will likely help act as a support for you while you establish your life. I've seen this scenario before and its usually plays out with your husband getting written out of the will since mom and dad are paying the child support for him.
Yeah I think you should move on from her
Do not marry this immature man child. Marry an emotionally mature adult who will be so bloody happy to marry you they will choose hideous flower arrangements with you and never say a word.
Two options well three but two that seem more logical given your post. 1. Start a relationship with this guy because you clearly have feelings for him. 2. Talk to the guy and your friend/cousin about not hooking up. 3. Cut ties with the guy and expect to hear about him being with your friend, cousin or both.
That is a very selfish viewpoint on her part – your job keeps the roof over your head and pays the bills. Your 30s are prime career years and you have to take things seriously.
You’re being two timed youngster. You can’t stop her from going, but you can and should break up with her. She’ll be getting poled on the cruise while you sit at home worrying.
And the dude said he is trying to fuck your gf and your response is “lol ok”?
Why even waste the money for counseling on this? She's married to a middle school bully that's still entangled with his ex, AT BEST. And it only gets worse from there.
He gave an ultimatum on sex That’s not cool
You both may need a break after the argument. Give him some time.
However, depending on how intense it was, your behavior may have totally turned him off. Some adults tend to throw temper tantrums, say the absolute worst, or break things during anger. Its not one, a person wants to deal with.
One way to see if he's interested in you is to look for signs of flirting, such as compliments, playful teasing, or extended eye contact. However, keep in mind that some people may naturally be more friendly or touchy-feely, so don't read too much into every gesture.
If you want to take things further, you could try subtly flirting back, such as making eye contact, smiling, or finding excuses to touch him (such as lightly touching his arm or shoulder during a conversation). However, make sure to read his body language and verbal cues to see if he's reciprocating or if he seems uncomfortable.
If you feel confident enough, you could also try asking him out on a date or suggesting a more romantic activity, such as going to a concert or having a picnic. Just be prepared for the possibility of rejection and make sure to respect his answer and boundaries.
Remember, the most important thing is to communicate openly and honestly with each other to avoid misunderstandings or hurt feelings. Good luck!
Eh, I think if he complains about the gym thing, the best answer is to invite him along. He most likely won't accept, but if he won't join you, he has no grounds to complain.
You've made positive changes and I think he's insecure that you'll find someone better or more attractive than him now.
His attitude about this entire thing is gross and unsupportive. You could try couples counseling, but I feel like it's a huge issue if he can't even be happy and supportive of the person he loves. I think his buddies are probably placing things in his head too. That's a very common culprit I've noticed.
So.. invite him to the gym. Ask for couples counseling so that you can get to the bottom of his insecurities and express how upsetting it is that he can't be supportive of your goals.
If couples counseling doesn't change anything, tell him that you're done. You need a partner, not someone that's going to make you feel like crap for levelling up in life.