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Date: October 25, 2022
Get your kids and get out op. You are your own support. make a plan to leave and file for divorce. Indeed.com is a great resource for a job. Find a place you can reasonably afford and move the kids from the house.
Alternatively you can call the cops for his physical handling of your kids and get him arrested for child abuse. Start taking photos of those marks and documenting his abuse.
Being damaged and abused himself doesn't give him the right to start abusing his children. Send tht kids to an aunt, uncle, cousin, or their friends for a few weeks to keep them away from him, and then get yourself together and out of the house.
I just posted on this actually if you want to go and read and see my situation. I’m kind of stuck tbh. We’re currently arguing and now i just feel like somehow it’s my fault. We communicate and it doesn’t work. He says how he feels and i say how i feel and we don’t agree and it gets nowhere. It’s not working.
I do think you will get further if you talk to someone professional.
But something you write about is control. You could perhaps explore that a bit. Is control just about deciding when to have sex and not? Or do you feel more sexual when you are in control during sex or perhaps when he is in control?
The most common way of working with sex in couple therapy is to start from zero and gradually increase sexual contact over weeks or months to create a space where both partners can reflect and feel without beeing pressured or hopeful. That would perhaps make it possible for you to find yourself while making the plan clearer for your bf.
Another reflection is that it's quite common, particularly amongst women, to have reactive arousal. That means that you get aroused because your partner is aroused or because he makes you aroused. If you say no to early in the process, you might never come to that stage.
You sound like you have very little relationship experience, yet you decided to let a jobless woman with a kid move in with you and now you're actually wondering why you're losing your damn mind. You either tried to skip the smart steps of starting a family or you wanted someone who would be dependent on you for everything and it backfired spectacularly. Wipe the slate and start over, but pick someone who actually shares your own goals and drive next time..
3 months is a long fucking time to not tell someone such a fundamental part of your identity. I'd leave over this. Who knows what else he will conceal from you to get what he wants.
You couldn’t consent to him putting his body all over you. You did nothing to provoke that. Unless you explicitly told him “hey I’m cool with you rubbing all up on me while I’m asleep” you did absolutely nothing wrong.
He didn’t make a move while you were conscious, he waited until you were asleep.
This has to be rage bait. Because no one is this stupid.
You missed the part where my response was more to people I general, in regards to people have issue with their partner being best friends with people of the same sex, and not him specifically, Miss Nancy 😉
Also: skeptical, not 'sceptical'
As someone who has slept over many times at my opposite sex friend's place, and nothing sexual has happened, it is what the people involved make it.
Yeah. Demonstrating that he sucks. That is evidence you should be distancing yourself, the fact that he just can't seem to help but disrupt your life. The dude represents only chaos in what is already a chaotic time.
Just be real about that. Maybe she is convinced him being hungup somehow makes him less tiring to deal with but you already knew you were on his mind. That was never actually the problem. The problem is he is bad at being a boyfriend and upsets you in the process.
Is your house completely childproof?
I'd say in terms of what's in my house relatively yes. I am open to criticism if she has any but those have not been made known to me. I just bought the house last month so it's pretty new.
Is anyone living with you?
I will have a roommate that I've known for over a decade and teaches children for a living. He's only staying until he gets his own house.
Is your house clean enough for an infant?
Yes it is because it's a new house. No because I have boxes currently from moving. But I'm not trying to have the baby over right now but in a month.
Do you have any relatives who will be coming out and trying to do potentially harmful things like kissing the baby – risking infections?
Just my grandma in terms of holding the baby. I may have friends over but not to touch her. That being said, she is religious and her church people have been to her place and I've held my tongue.
What about Covid and other infectious diseases?
I am vaccinated and would want everyone around her to be so.
Are there people coming in and out of your house with frequency that could give something to your child?
No more than she would have people over. I can think of 12 people that may be over for any reason.
An infant is still developing its immune system, needs to have security, consistency, stability and of course safety. Can you promise us that you are offering all of that, and at your dwelling is on a par with where the child now is? If so, it should not be a problem.
This isn't something I feel I can quantify in a reddit post. But I am more confident in what I have to offer than the mother. I have a whole house with a separate room for when she gets older. Currently, mom lives in an apartment and has to share a pretty small room with the baby. While the common rooms of her place are clean. If there is any critism of my ability to clean, I would also direct those back at the mother. Personally, her room and past places she's lived in were not clean places at all. To reiterate, I think I have a much better living situation, hands down. One that I do not object to the mother utilizing on “my days” with the baby.
Is this real life? Grow a fucking spine man.
Go pay for your fruit. It will take 2 minutes and maybe give your child a small snack while they wait.
That's true. Given all the (negative) history, she's really…outside of all of this, quite amazing. I find that she makes me contend with my deepest rooted insecurities, and she truly wants to see the best version of myself. And so, I am trying to find a peaceful way to end this problem, where we both feel respected. She even went as far to say she will NOT meet him ever again if that is what I want, but it makes her uncomfortable that she cannot make that decision on her own, because it is instead to make me happy.
She's even said, that IF they do meet, that I am welcome to join and be there.
RUN MOTHERFUCKE RUN FOR YOUR LIFE, for real dude, she just changed her view on you and now youre just a walking bag of money, read these redflags n end it, she will want to come back but dude dont, she just became a golddigger, and if you wanna keep going remember that life ending stuff has happened to people for this exact reasons, money changes people
Boy if you don’t gain some self respect and leave that bitch.
If she is unable to see that this is emotional cheating and you don't know if there's intent to make it real, I don't really see how you can stay.
Thanks for the reply! I do still value their friendship, even though we’re not really into the same hobbies anymore. I just don’t want to feel resentful or judgmental of them when we do spend time together