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Date: October 25, 2022
Sounds like you need remind him what FWB means. Definitely don’t get in a relationship with this guy. Sounds like he wants you to take care of him. Don’t be his damn maid
So stop streaming them and paying them? Lol.
Let me guess … you didn't use a condom and no birth control because “iT dOeSn'T AlwAyS woRk”
My mother always told me (F) not to let men pay for dinner lest they assume that by paying they'll think I “owe them something” after (ie sex). which I never personally experienced but was definitely a thing in her younger days.
I always found at least offering to split the check was appreciated, and won me the respect of my dates. If they paid and we went out again, alternating who pays is a nice way to both treat someone and also maintain balance and equality. If you're dating the same person regularly this is great, it means one of you is always getting a nice special treat while retaining equality, and treating someone else is as nice a feeling as getting a free meal if there's no sense of obligation!
I personally don't like when men pay for things for me… I split the check until it's clear there will be future dates that i can pay for. I'm just uncomfortable having men think that I'm just after material gain or somehow feel entitled to their money. And in relationships I enjoy their respect for my autonomy, and I think they enjoy the respect of my wanting to pay my share.
I will say, there's maybe an exception for young people when one makes a lot more money than the other… But alternating who pays, and the one who pays picks the place is a good compromise. When I worked in the arts and made peanuts I dated men who made 100K+ … They'd take me to a fancy restaurant and pay. I might take them to the local inexpensive Tibetan dumpling place and pay… But it really wasn't about the dollar amount. It was the gesture.
If you're looking for a true partner in life, if you're getting weird vibes now, maybe she isn't the one for you. OR you could ask HER why she thinks you should pay for meals. That's a conversation that could either show you for sure if it's not a good match, or lead to a good discussion that brings you closer.
Thank you for your advice, I really appreciate it
But are you really listening to his needs? He literally said hes not ready to get married due to finances and things similar, and you're literally just ignoring that and saying “but I want the ring!” Just be patient if you're sure about this guy.
This is the answer.
Would you let him explore his sexuality with another woman? I think think the fact that this involves lgbt content, you are trying to be really supportive but you don't have to be.
It sounds most like you're struggling bc you're not polyam, not bc of the straight environment you grew up in.
He cannot maintain this change, he is just trying to control you further. If you have this baby with him, he will abuse the baby. Please contact a domestic violence organization in your area for help leaving him safely. I am sorry to report that a leading cause of death for pregnant people is murder by their romantic partner.
Also, abortion is 100% OK & made for situations like this. If you're looking for approval & support for that choice, please know that you have it. You are young & shouldn't have to be connected to this man for life (even if you leave him), if you don't want to.
I don’t think so either
I never given him the impression that my husband is my roommate. He knows that I love him and he loves me and that’s why we chose to open the marriage
Very much this!
Sounds to me like she’s using this as an excuse to divorce you. It’s something she wanted anyway. Please get your custody sorted before she leaves the state OP, I suspect a boyfriend will be reading his head shortly. I doubt she’ll be keen to keep the kids in close contact once she sods off.
She’s being incredibly nice to keep u sweet
Your arrogance doesn’t do you any favors. Just divorce him and stop twisting your narrative to be perceived as the victim when that’s quite clearly not the whole story.
You’ve been trading bawdy jokes with her, I don’t think there’s much more to it than that. Just continue to be polite and maybe mention a “your gf” in a future conversation if it seems relevant.
Just FYI if you read the original post Pete pretty clearly raped the OP. The OP doesnt want to call it that, and thats fine, but dont berate OP for what happened.
You moved together before making this agreement?
Off to a winning start