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Birth Date: 2000-05-25
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Date: October 23, 2022
So you keep your mouth shut if you don’t like something? Communication is key!
How did you find her on Instagram?
Japan. Is. Amazing. You should experience this once in a life time opportunity to live in Japan.
You did your due diligence and found out ?? – that he is very likely full of shit. Do what you think best but don't believe that fucking cock and bull story.
It’s not guilt tripping please google what that word really means instead of throwing it at anything. It is normal to mastrubate yes but not watching porn. Porn is way to normalized in our society. You can mastrubate without watching porn, how do you think these man and women „survive“ without it? Because you don’t really need porn in your life. He was fine with that boundary but he crossed that. He should’ve told her that he can’t promise to not watch porn. She could find someone who respects her boundaries and don’t want to watch porn because if you believe it or not, there are men who can life without it.
Your boyfriend sucks and location shit is super controlling and you suck for cheating, just end it and move on.
Sounds like you need to dump him
You didn't do that, he did it to himself because he valued you and the relationship. You never asked for him to stop so you are in the clear
You gave her an STD and your biggest concern is how it could affect you in case she decided to tell people you had unprotected sex with multiple partners behind her back while telling her you were only sleeping with her and contract an STD from all that unprotected sex and gave it to her?
I mean she probably won’t but
Could you really blame her if she did ?
375 people IN THE WORLD. Many are sex workers. So yeah, doesn't really support your claim.
I saw this so late but I really appreciate this! It feels so good to hear a outside perspective. I went to homecoming and had a great time! Unfortunately rose is now dating my ex boyfriend but I have learned a lot and grown from the whole experience, I cut her off and know who my real friends are. Thank you so much!♥️
Depends where you are. In Japan where I live, I recently watched a news thing for “idol” girl and boy groups where their fans were bringing them gifts and buying their used clothes etc at meet and greets – the general age group age seemed to be 20-40s. So could be missing a lot of cultural context here
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May I ask why you were taking a shower at your BIL's house and why he was in a towel when you answered the door?
Also, are you going to get a paternity test to prove to him that they're actually his children? Because that is literally the only way to definitively prove it.
Explain to him basically what u just said. It hurt u for him to break up with u but u respected his decision. Dont let him play games with u let him know his actions don't match his words and that ur space needs to be respected too. I feel yall shouldve just went on a break if he wanted to stay in contact like that but breaking up means some time apart with no contact i feel.
I didn't say anything about being in the room while she was birthing but he wasn't allowed to see his kid for days.
Yeah you do have to take into account cultural relativism however I wouldnt be able to get past the fact that my bf was a pedophile, because by my standards that is pedophilia and it's disgusting. By his standards it's normal and they are more than mature enough, I wouldnt be able to find a common ground no would I be able to date someone that I deem a pedoophile. My ex started dating a 17 year old when he was 22 and that made me feel gross. She was 1 year out of high school, college age and a grown man with a job was interested in that? Why? Why? What the fuck? When I turned 18 I realised very quickly that I wouldnt even consider dating anyone under the age of 18, he didnt have that moment and that's pretty weird. I don't know anyone that would date someone under 18 once they have hit that age unless they were already together and a few months apart
Pull the other one, it's got bells on it
I am so sorry. For everything. You didn't deserve any of that. Let's say he had strong feelings for awhile about ending the relationship but didn't know how because of the baby, there are decent, respectful ways to so it. Instead he chose to hit every checkmark in the book for emotional abuse and what not to do to a new mom. He chose to do everything a father IS NOT supposed to do.
The man is shit. I wouldn't wish his kind of treatment on people I hate. You deserve so much better. And I am so sorry for your loss.
No you didn’t. My dog of 6 years died first. She had a seizure a month before and died on our roommates bed. Before she passed my fiancé got a baby husky. She died at 6 months, we believe our roommate poisoned her. We found a whole chicken in her bed. We had gotten that husky a friend. I adopted an older husky from the humane society. My fiancé made me surrender him cause apparently that dog was violent towards him, only when I wasn’t around. Then my mom got me a chihuahua cause she saw how much loss I was feeling. That same week my fiancés accidentally drowned her. He was preparing her a bath. He let the water running with the Chi in tub with out his supervision. My mom and friends were sus from Dog 1.
Also, I’m 33. I apparently spaced that I had a birthday recently.
More info would be swell. But I'm only 50% sold on your hypothesis.
She sounds fed up, or alternately; a big jerk.
Some people get sick of 'lazy' husbands. Other people are so pampered that they turn into wailing infants when they don't get their way.
The face value of this post is that the wife is being a douche. Maybe that's wrong as well.
Maybe you're putting a lot of weight on the.. title of married. With my now wife, we spent 10 years together and actually got married on our 10th anniversary, but we did it being fully aware that we've been married for at least 8 years, just not legally. We've been dating since our 19-20 and got married on last October.
As long as you both know that you want to be with each other for the rest of your lives, the actual act of getting married can wait for as long as you need until you're in a good place (both have jobs, a place to live…etc)
I'm not saying you should wait 10 years, but if you're ready to spend your life with the guy, why dump him over a change in your marital status? Also, you're just assuming that he will not change his mind at all in those 6 years… Maybe something happens next week that clicks in his mind and changes it.
So, tldr, don't break up over your wedding date, it's absolutely not worth it
I am turning 40 this year and the thought of dating someone young enough to be my child is nauseating. We have nothing to talk about, and they don't have enough life experience to really relate to the things I'm going through.
41 and doesn't have money for things? Yeah, he's dating you OP because none of us want to date him.
How can you lose him completely if you never had him to begin with.
He’s still very involved in my life, he lives with us. I just want to make him happy.
“The line must be drawn here! This far and no further!” – Jean-Luc Picard
Oh sweetheart, there is no bachelor party
The age gap can’t really be ignored, though.
OP should be reconsidering whether or not she wants to be involved with a man who thought it was okay to date a teen in his 30s. If she (hopefully) comes to the conclusion that she doesn’t want to be involved with him, then the kid isn’t her problem.
If they’re thinking about what’s best for the kid, OP’s husband probably isn’t a safe person to be involved, again since he knocked up a teenager in his 30s.
Your advice would be great if the circumstances were different, but it just isn’t relevant at all here given the glaring issue of her husband being a fucking creep.
Thanks for your input. No need to be mean about it. I was looking for different perspectives from people outside of my immediate group because I'm not from a background where this much care and attention would have been given to a pet.
It depends some jurisdictions in the US they will issue them for minor arguments some wont no matter how bad the abuse is. Hard to know.
I assume he got physical with her or the cops.
If she wanted to speak to you she would. It's not like she has amnesia and has forgotten you were messaging. She's lost interest it seems. That sucks move on
As a next or maintenance step, yes.
As a leading step, not so much IMO.
Well after 6 years I pretty much noticed the pattern. I had issues I wanted to work with in the relationship, she cried horribly. I bottled up the issue and comforted her, and then nothing really happend in regards to fixing the issue at hand. Then the cycle just repeated when I couldn't bottle it up any more and brought it up again.
Eventually you just don't care how sad they are, because it's nothing compared to all the shit you've had to bottle up for years for their sake.
Hence the reason why in telling you not to bottle it up and comfort them about the self-hatred. Because honestly, you have no clue if this is just a sympathy card they pull, so they don't have to be accountable and work on the issues.
Because this thing right here;
It’s not that they don’t want to work on the issue, but that they get stuck in self hatred for having it happen in the first place.
Is a very easy thing to say to someone, so unless this person actually has made any changes at all in regards to the issues you have brought up before, you should really pay close attention to this particular type of behavior they are displaying.
what concerning behavior? right now it just sounds like a jealous and insecure gf who can't handle her bf having female friends. so maybe a little more context is needed.
Your description was of a scary stalker and not an interested ex. Either you hugely exaggerated or he’s a stalker.
Why waste time on an idiot online? You don’t get anywhere, they are usually dumb when they start it and make u dumber at the end of it
There is a reason why, at least in the USA, there are different degrees of assault (first degree, second degree, and third degree)
Assault can be anything from dumping soda on someone, to breaking someone's leg. The punishment will depend on the degree of assault.
This a minor case of sexual assault. One that may not even be taken seriously in court as couples often live with “implied consent”. It's the whole reason that you don't have to ask someone you are in a relationship with to kiss them every time before you do it.
Not that OP is taking him to court, but if it were it would probably just be seen as a case where implied consent was blurred on the exact line drawn and likely be thrown out. It would receive a very minimal 3rd degree punishment at most, but that is pretty unlikely compared to just being thrown out.
IMO OP's best move is to talk to her boyfriend about boundaries and maybe making it clear that if she isn't entirely awake that he should check with her first before assuming she is awake enough to do something like that and be okay with it.
Personally, I think it’s a body part. Like if I was a picture of HUGE tits I would be like “woah” which is kind of the reaction I would expect for seeing a HUGE penis.
That being said, if penis size is one of your insecurities, all this does sound insensitive, and more so, y’all are playing with fire. Don’t bring photos of others and comparisons into your relationship ever. Feelings are going to get hurt.
Sorry this is terrible advice. Not because it advocates trying to maintain the relationship- but because it minimizes her utter betrayal. Most of us manage to not cheat on our partner – being young is absolutely no excuse.
Is there something you wanted advice about?
I sometimes wonder how the males of our species have survived this long.
Yeah this is natural, super turned on can cause girls muscles to be very relaxed and sometimes you don’t feel a dick in you. Try other things during sex, maybe do intermittent session with a blowjob and then eating her out and penetrating give her body some time to not be so relaxed, I’ve noticed this helps. But yeah there’s nothing wrong you are doing everything right.
I think you are so close to the issue you can’t see how damaging it is to you and your son. It’s not enough though for him to be an excellent husband and father some of the time when other times he is emotionally unstable or manipulative. I’d encourage you read about passive aggression and the impact it has. I’ve commented elsewhere that I’ve lived with someone like this. It’s destabilising and you question yourself a lot, especially when they are being nice. I used to think ‘surely this isn’t enough to leave a marriage for?’ But it is.
Yes, I admit I may have passed an incurable STI to him but like majority of the population has it and it goes away on its own. It’s one of those STI that are almost impossible to avoid even tho I am fully vaccinated against it.
If he doesn't apologize or tries to blame you for “ruining the trip” or anything along those lines, you should dump him. I think he made it crystal clear that he prioritizes his friends and their feelings over you, including joining in on insulting you when you were vulnerable and needed him to stand up for you.
The kind of people who would embarrass you like that, are shitty people. And then they're expecting you to just put up with it? Ridiculous. I know it feels bad to feel like you have made a bad impression on your SO's friends, but in this case I think you should ask yourself what it says about his character that he engages in this kind of behavior with them. He's been with you for two years, so why doesn't he have your back?
It seems like his father enables him, and he has absolutely no reason to make any effort, because he's been gifted the opportunity to make money doing absolutely nothing while he lounges around.
He assured you he'd start apply for jobs when his 1 year with his dad is up? First, no shot. While experiencing a “no show” job after he made no effort to gain employment, he's now going to “wake up” and start making an effort? Also, why would he wait until it's over? He should logically be working to line up a job to prevent a gap in employment. Realistically, he's just trying to get you off his back for the next six months.
What's there to be patient about? All he does is complain and find excuses not to work. This isn't a mental health issue. This is him just not caring. Good luck.
Maybe millions of women then shouldn't cover their cheating with lies about SA. You can literally blame people of your own sex of abusing trust. You know what else is fucking gutting? Being cheated on and lied to.
You two need to both discuss what your expectations are for this – one of you might expect more communication than the other.
For example, video chat. Do you expect you video chat once daily, once every other day, once weekly? (I would be fine with a video chat every couple of days. If my partner needs a video chat once a day, I'm cool with that)
What about phone calls? One long phone call every other day and a short check in once a day? (I'm good with a quick check in every day, and then a long phone call at least twice a week, but I can do a long one once a day if my partner needs it).
Texting? do you two expect to get back to each other right away, or are you going to treat it as a sort of 'wall' where you can just text back things you are thinking off, or where you are going to be able to update them on whatever but you don't expect or need the other person to text back? (I am a shit texter, so while I'll read them, I don't often respond and I don't often send, so this would be the biggest challenge for me).
You two need to have a good long talk about what you both need to feel fulfill in this relationship so you can both try to meet those expectations. You can adjust as you go along and find a rhythm, but right now is the time to express what you feel like you need and decide if that is something you need to adjust so the other person can comfortably meet that expectations.
LDR take a lot of patience, emotional maturity, and willingness to communicate in ways you don't need to in person. If one of you struggles to verbalize their feelings and thoughts, this could be pretty trying, but if you talk about it before hand so you both know what the other needs, you got a fighting chance. 🙂
I absolutely love my girl to death. No ammount of weight gain would change that. Her body is the playground in the relationship, not the reason why im there.
That being said, If i was concerned over her health I would mention something and try and help her over come any weight issues that were affecting her health. That doesn't mean my attraction to her would change based on her physical appearance.
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Hello darling I’m going to give you my best advice for your situation….. leave him now actually leave him yesterday! Folks like us (animal lovers) do not mix well with others not like us! He will never come around with a different opinion on her it will most likely continuously get worse and worse!!
Even if he doesn't like animals can't he see how important she is to you? Your love for her just oozes through this post and he should be more patient with YOU about the dog. He can be annoyed all he wants but 3 kids are 100 times more annoying than any dog. You adapt when you love someone. He needs to adapt. Quickly.