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?Welcome? ?We are Nika Kelly Adeli Alice?, 20 y.o.
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Date: October 21, 2022
I’d be paranoid this guy was gonna do something like get you pregnant on purpose. Something to lock you down. Have you met any of his friends or family? How have his prior relationships functioned?
Can I just say… I am female. I have saved nudes from previous partners. I'm not in a relationship currently. And I think I'll hold onto them as long as I can. Is this unhealthy? I don't think so. Porn can be gross, and brutal depending on the type of porn one searches. I prefer to save pictures and videos from sexting. They get me off better than porn BECAUSE I don't run the chance of accidently seeing something in a porn search that completely turns me off.
I agree with this, I could see this as coming from a place of genuine guilt over the lie and not a sign that she is having second thoughts
Yeah if you lie about your perfect life you'd say 'her Christmas list is way too long, who does she think I am?' or 'She keeps annoying me about dishes and always wants me to watch the kid', NOT 'i got an STD'
Test yourself he is cheating
NO. NO MAKING A SCENE NO ATTENDING. it’s giving toxic.
I’d look into taking him to small claims court to get that money back.
I have expressed my desire to have many children with him
Ew.
Can you not take care of yourself when your sick? I’m sure she would’ve stayed if it were serious but you just have a fever. Let her be with her family and enjoy your 2 days by yourself
Return the necklace asap. Do not move in. Find someone on your wavelength.
I’m so grateful that every stupid thing I did in high school (and there were a LOT of stupid things lol) wasn’t filmed and posted online for everyone to see for the rest of my freakin life (and beyond!!)
Robot, your exGF's abusive behaviors cannot be excused — but perhaps can be explained, especially if you would speak to a psychologist in your city. They may be due to her having very weak control over her own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills she had no chance to learn in childhood). My exW has that problem. If it is an issue for your exGF, you likely would be seeing 4 other red flags.
The first is a strong abandonment fear. I therefore ask whether, a few months into your relationship, she started showing strong jealousy over harmless events involving other women — or tried to isolate you away from your close friends and family members? She would view your spending time with friends/family as your choosing them over her. Moreover, she usually would hate being alone by herself.
Second, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes/mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.”
Further, to “validate” her victim status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Third, you generally would not see her directing her anger at casual friends, coworkers, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her outbursts and temper tantrums almost exclusively would be directed against a close loved one (e.g., against you, a sibling, or her parents).
Fourth, you are convinced that she truly loves you. But you frequently see her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing or hating you) — often making you feel like you're walking on eggshells around her. Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do. A few hours or days later, she can flip back just as quickly.
Robot, have you been seeing strong occurrences of all 4 of these red flags?
I think you're better off. If this is the absolute truth for him – that he's breaking up over schooling – you are much better off without him.
If there's more to it than this – and he's got other issues to make him want to break up – you are still better off. The man can't communicate his concerns. A lifelong partnership takes work, it takes healthy communication.
There are a lot of ups and downs with a long-term relationship. The relationship could be an unrealistic perfection and still face issues. You can't control outside forces or influences from impacting your relationship. He can't even handle the length of education. How the hell could he handle an unplanned illness or other issues? Maybe extreme weather would cause issues with your job temporarily or his job – would he file for divorce over that?
He's not long-term partner material
So grieve the loss of the relationship you thought you had – and move on. Find someone that's more supportive and actually able to handle small or big issues.
Just remember, this was not a reflection on you – it was 100% a reflection on how little he could handle.
You can’t fix him he’s an adult. You can only fix yourself. You need to decide is he worth it? Sounds like new job every 6 months is his normal.
No one should comment. If you were eating a gallon of ice cream or an entire 9 inch birthday cake on your own, I could see someone commenting. If you are not bingeing it should not be mentioned. I would consider this controlling behavior. It isn't helping you, and before I let him “finish” it, I would finish it or save it for later. If someone did have a problem with portion control this behavior could drive them into sneaking food. It isn't healthy.
Is she willing to do the same? Women are frequently abusers too. Clearly she needs some therapy after all this.
Best wishes on this hard situation.
You go from saying he shouldn't be told this because it is rare, to a 0% argument. Do you know where OP lives? Do you know the conviction rates and sentencing limits there? If either of those answers are no, then you can not claim what you are claiming. Your argument over these people's “possibility” with your absolute “zero” is ridiculous. Nobody said there is a high probability of conviction or jail time, you are arguing for the sake of arguing.
Your boyfriend not defending you is an issue. If you decide to stand up for yourself would he back you at the very least
How many times does she have to not pick you for you to get the hint. She’s a user and you’re being a sucker.
Sounds like the fiance blew faster ?
She is not your friend. You and your boyfriend need to put some boundaries in place with this girl, cause she is like a walking ?for both of you!
Break up with him.
He's not smart about money, he's a tightwad, he's a Scrooge. There's a huge difference.
And he will not change his mind on it unless you provide him with a choice: I live in comfortable and safe temperatures and have hot showers, or we're done. And you mean it, because you CANNOT sacrifice your comfort for the rest of your life and your children's lives so he can save $150 a month.
Dump his ass, he was one get out of the funk with you coddling him keeping him afloat financially, lemme tell you he wouldn't be without a job this long if he was single? Why? He couldn't possibly get away with it, and all this probably isn't something he means to do on purpose, but you're his crutch and enabler, AND he resents you, so nah fk it bye
My husband is similar in the sense that he's not an alpha type. So much so my friends who are very assertive often see him as precious or platonically cute. I'm the same but with the opposite gender. Absolutely horrible relationships with women, fantastic with men.
I was also denied by my doctor for being over 26, even when I told her I had just broken up with my only sexual partner, and was planning on starting dating soon. I told her I would pay cash if it was an insurance thing, still denied.
I ended up getting HPV two years later with low grade changes. Thankfully it went away on its own, but I had to go through a really painful biopsy procedure and was really stressed out about it. I am still so pissed about that!
No one said cheating was a crime? We said that the affair partner is just as guilty for continuing after knowing someone is married, your basically broadcasting that those bonds don’t mean that much to you so long as you’re not the one getting cheated on
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I M(25) have been wearing under eye concealer daily for a few years now. I have really bad genetic under eye circles. I keep my concealer stick hidden in a bag and have never told my girlfriend about it. Recently, my girlfriend(25) who I live with has been quietly leaving it out of the small compartment of my bag, i think as way to tell me that she has found my secret. What is her intention of doing this? How do you think she feels about it?
You're quite right on the fact that it is not that big deal.
I think the solution of cuddling and sneaking out after isn't that bad and we should give a try. Thanks for your answer!
The 2 bedroom appartement is most probably what is awaiting us at some point.
The big deal is when we travel, we leave together in an hotel room for several days/weeks but we'll try the sneak out I guess.