Well, thatâs not smart, itâs very immature because these are the talks that married couples have all the time. Youâre going to have to find a way to tell her that this is a talk that needs to happen because your livelihood depends on it
You have to love yourself and prioritize your needs as well as hers. When those things donât balance or overlap you have to make tough choices. But am I right in seeing that youâre only together a month or so?
Why is he hanging out with someone he has a sexual history with. The same girl that openly dislikes his girl? Iâd personally make him choose, yes, ultimatum! If you want me badly enough donât waste my damn time with someone who disrespects me.
You guys are young and you clearly wanna be with your friends more than your girlfriend. And I think it gets worse for her the more youâre with her and she did try to make an effort with your friends and they were jerks to her. Which I find really interesting that you can pick them over her when they treated her that way, but OK
But honestly, the truth is she wanna be with your friends more than her so let her go and let her find somebody else. I really think a lot of this is just about your age.
Thatâs not how OCD works. He either has OCD and plans on white knuckling it until the lease is up, or he has been faking OCD for unknown reasons.
OCD is manageable with treatment. I would say move out when the lease is up. If he gets treatment, you could continue dating and consider moving back in in a year. If he doesnât get treatment or doesnât improve, break up.
OCD is treatable. Mild OCD is actually a little helpful. I mean, a partner who canât not keep things clean? My wife loves the magically clean laundry and magically done dishes.
Friends who say âjust give her a baby alreadyâ arenât good friends
Well, thatâs not smart, itâs very immature because these are the talks that married couples have all the time. Youâre going to have to find a way to tell her that this is a talk that needs to happen because your livelihood depends on it
You say you're not a kid but you definitely sound like one.
You don't need to tell your mom that you're going on dates. Just do it. If it comes up, tell her you're dating people. No need to get into specifics.
If she doesn't like it and threatens to pull you from school, that's a pretty big overreaction on her part.
If you pay rent youâre a renter. They donât set rules for renters
Your husband is gay, and that's okay. But you guys need to get a divorce because this isn't fair to you.
NO YOU! headass ?
…..As 17 year olds?
You have to love yourself and prioritize your needs as well as hers. When those things donât balance or overlap you have to make tough choices. But am I right in seeing that youâre only together a month or so?
I also think that's the case, which is kind of unfortunate…
I would absolutely do the same for her. Making compromises from both sides is a vital component for a healthy relationship imo.
If her casual acquaintanceship with someone is messing with your sanity, you should speak to a therapist because the problem is entirely yours.
Why is he hanging out with someone he has a sexual history with. The same girl that openly dislikes his girl? Iâd personally make him choose, yes, ultimatum! If you want me badly enough donât waste my damn time with someone who disrespects me.
I donât remember him having a choice in a breakup. If you break up with him, itâs done.
A relationship is a 2 yes one no situation. You donât need his permission to break up.
Good luck
You guys are young and you clearly wanna be with your friends more than your girlfriend. And I think it gets worse for her the more youâre with her and she did try to make an effort with your friends and they were jerks to her. Which I find really interesting that you can pick them over her when they treated her that way, but OK
But honestly, the truth is she wanna be with your friends more than her so let her go and let her find somebody else. I really think a lot of this is just about your age.
There it is, she wants to open the relationship so she'd feel ok about cheating.
Please leave. I was exhausted just reading that. This man chose her over you. You deserve someone that puts you first.
Thatâs not how OCD works. He either has OCD and plans on white knuckling it until the lease is up, or he has been faking OCD for unknown reasons.
OCD is manageable with treatment. I would say move out when the lease is up. If he gets treatment, you could continue dating and consider moving back in in a year. If he doesnât get treatment or doesnât improve, break up.
OCD is treatable. Mild OCD is actually a little helpful. I mean, a partner who canât not keep things clean? My wife loves the magically clean laundry and magically done dishes.