He prioritized time with his friend over time with you. His friend who is on house arrest, i.e., some idiot who did something to deserve being stuck alone on NYE. Take that how you will, but don’t let him gaslight you about what he did. He ditched you for his friend.
Some people just aren’t comfortable with having a best friend of the opposite sex ??♀️ if you see you a future with her, then you have a decision to make. Why is Amy determined it’s just the 2 of you.
I am really hoping both of them can become friends. I hope that Beth can come to see that Amy is no threat to us. All of that sounds awful. I am a very honest person and have never hid a conversation from Beth, and hate the idea of a future like that.
I’ve had therapy before. I was put on medication and felt as if the therapy was going nowhere, and with how busy my schedule got with work and school, I didn’t have time or could afford to go anymore.
Follow the guy who knocks on your door home and show up to convert them to your ethos of choice (Islam, veganism, Roblox) at 5 AM on Monday. He'll get the point.
Were you taking on your share of household & parenting duties when she was working? Is it possible she found it hard to juggle say 90% of that on top of working?
Just came here to say as a straight man, this is not an expectation of relationships. Some of us prefer intimacy with our partner that is mutually enthusiastic and less like a “job”.
Tell him to stop watching porn and get his mind right.
Because men prefer to have regular sex in a mediocre relationship rather than being single and having to go out on dates, it's time consuming and expensive.
Women generally prefer to be single and find the right man for them.
This guy is telling you you are not the right woman for him. He doesn't consider you both to have marriage potential.
Don't waste your 20s with a guy like this, break up with him and find a man who is worthy of your desire and love.
He's financially abusing you by denying you access to your joint account. I'm assuming you have your own. If not, get one and have all of your money transfered to that account. Call a lawyer first thing tomorrow. This is just the beginning of him trying to make you totally dependent on him. Then once you are you can't leave. Don't give up your income. Divorce him ASAP.
He's financially abusing you by denying you access to your joint account. I'm assuming you have your own. If not, get one and have all of your money transfered to that account. Call a lawyer first thing tomorrow. This is just the beginning of him trying to make you totally dependent on him. Then once you are you can't leave. Don't give up your income. Divorce him ASAP.
get a new wife
He prioritized time with his friend over time with you. His friend who is on house arrest, i.e., some idiot who did something to deserve being stuck alone on NYE. Take that how you will, but don’t let him gaslight you about what he did. He ditched you for his friend.
Just a weird feeling. I find it odd but anyway he has his reasons
Some people just aren’t comfortable with having a best friend of the opposite sex ??♀️ if you see you a future with her, then you have a decision to make. Why is Amy determined it’s just the 2 of you.
I am really hoping both of them can become friends. I hope that Beth can come to see that Amy is no threat to us. All of that sounds awful. I am a very honest person and have never hid a conversation from Beth, and hate the idea of a future like that.
Thank you for your feedback and time.
I’ve had therapy before. I was put on medication and felt as if the therapy was going nowhere, and with how busy my schedule got with work and school, I didn’t have time or could afford to go anymore.
This was super helpful, I’ll need to figure out how to frame it as something that’s impacting the relationship. Thank you!
Follow the guy who knocks on your door home and show up to convert them to your ethos of choice (Islam, veganism, Roblox) at 5 AM on Monday. He'll get the point.
The way people treat the weaker groups of society (old people, babies and animals) tells you a lot about them.
Get rid of him.
Nah that ain‘t it bud. Seems like you‘re a hater the way you‘re typing. Nothing I do is hateful. On the other hand you are hateful. Bye
But what if the relationship is salvageable? I don’t want to make a mistake.
Were you taking on your share of household & parenting duties when she was working? Is it possible she found it hard to juggle say 90% of that on top of working?
This also happens if you say you've changed the locks.
Just came here to say as a straight man, this is not an expectation of relationships. Some of us prefer intimacy with our partner that is mutually enthusiastic and less like a “job”.
Tell him to stop watching porn and get his mind right.
I don’t understand why marriage would change this dynamic. You living together with or without marriage doesn’t change your living expenses.
u/the-mirrors-truth raises great points. You two need to agree together where you are going to live from a cost-of-living perspective.
Because men prefer to have regular sex in a mediocre relationship rather than being single and having to go out on dates, it's time consuming and expensive.
Women generally prefer to be single and find the right man for them.
This guy is telling you you are not the right woman for him. He doesn't consider you both to have marriage potential.
Don't waste your 20s with a guy like this, break up with him and find a man who is worthy of your desire and love.
He was my best friend for over a year. Then we talked and got together.
You've been groomed.
This person doesn’t know the meaning of consent and thus can’t be trusted with nudes.
He's financially abusing you by denying you access to your joint account. I'm assuming you have your own. If not, get one and have all of your money transfered to that account. Call a lawyer first thing tomorrow. This is just the beginning of him trying to make you totally dependent on him. Then once you are you can't leave. Don't give up your income. Divorce him ASAP.
He's financially abusing you by denying you access to your joint account. I'm assuming you have your own. If not, get one and have all of your money transfered to that account. Call a lawyer first thing tomorrow. This is just the beginning of him trying to make you totally dependent on him. Then once you are you can't leave. Don't give up your income. Divorce him ASAP.