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Date: October 31, 2022
You know she doesn't enjoy anal and yet you still keep pushing for it? Jfc you're terrible partner.
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Thanks for your response, I appreciate it. The chemistry is definitely on both sides, we’ve talked about it. I feel protective over her and it makes me angry that she is being mistreated. I don’t want to just cut off all contact because I’ve definitely developed feelings and I genuinely care about her well-being.
Definitely sounds like she’s into women and not men.
Ikr, some on here are even trying to get her to play games to get him jealous and win him back!? :S wtaf, lol
I think it's best to ask. Perhaps he thinks it fits the situation now and he wants to use it. Maybe he was feeling nostalgic. I don't think it's for anything bad, probably just enjoyed reminiscing to himself.
I am absolutely in love with my bf, but when I was moving out of my ex's house, I waxed nostalgic over a few things. Doesn't mean I love my bf any less or that I wanted my ex back. I just remembered the feelings I had at the time and how good they felt at the time. I certainly don't feel them now.
While not super common, more and more people are choosing not to cohabitate while in a committed relationship or marriage. Especially people who are older and have been there and done that and just want their own space.
My partner and I never planned to cohab. We were both married and divorced before we met and just like having our own space. Some circumstances changed a few years in so we do live together now but we were happy with our setup before too.
Logistically, being an hour apart and being that you don’t want to be in the city, it means she would be coming to you to visit. So…is that okay for her? It likely means that you only see each other a couple times a month. That doesn’t seem like enough to me but perhaps it does to you two?
As someone with PTSD myself, I can appreciate that being in a city can be more triggering. I much prefer living more out in the country where there’s no foot traffic past my house, no close neighbors, less noise, etc.
But it seems to me you two could/should come up with some kind of compromise else you’re not going to see each other much and the burden of travel will largely be on her. That doesn’t seem sustainable.
A no jerk off rule is doomed to failure. This is dumb.
Lying, talking to other girls – big red flags.
So it sounds like any sort of conflict you've had so far triggers him deeply. You have 2 weeks of amazing, then something happens, he freaks out a bit and needs time apart. Once everything is fine again, something else happens and he's doubting the relationship? Am I understanding that right?
He does sound like he really doesn't know what he wants and is afraid of being with someone, committing to having those potentially difficult conversations or changing his life to accommodate another person (other than himself).
Retroactive jealousy? Is this from the previous fight you had where you apologised and everything was great for the next 2 weeks? I think your bf is fixated on this particular trigger and either there needs to be a discussion and understanding that the location is just that – it's not going to foretell any future conflicts or repeat the situation that brought on his jealousy in the first place. At least, I would hope so.
So, are you absolutely positive you worked this last conflict out? Are you both on the same page because it doesn't sound like it to me. He sounds like he's still hurt or else just dwelling on all the negative “what-ifs” that are making him want to break up, or otherwise not deal with his real feelings.
I'm so sorry you're all going through this! It certainly can be heavy and frustrating to deal with, but it seems that there is more to this – either he's not telling you something, or he may not even know how to explain it himself. He may not even want to deal with those feelings, which makes things tougher.
On a very basic level – he could be absolutely right: he's not ready for a relationship. I hope he can open up, if not with you, with someone else he's close to and can give him some logical, sensible advice.
“Boyfriend of 4 years”
Uhhh ..you were 15 when he was 19?
sounds like you ignored a plethora of other posts that contradict the conclusion you wanted and you chose to ignore those to show her one that fits your narrative, completely ignoring that the context of that post is nothing close to your situation at all.
split the bills according to percentage.
The surgeon is two hours away, but thanks
He's not your friend.
If in that year he finds “the one” and dumps you to marry her, will you still be happy you wasted that year?
In the end all you can do is be patient, remove all pressure and show her love and the rest is up to her.
How aren’t you at fault tho? Your drinking is causing issues, then you run to tattle to her parents that she was so uncomfortable with you drunk that she locked you out. And you aren’t the bad guy?
You two don't even like each other. She's a place holder for you. Both of you deserve better than this. Do you really want to settle for the relationship equivalent of a participation trophy?
Dude. Listen to your friend.
Yes I did and I’m thinking to do therapy with him