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Date: October 14, 2022
They bought the ring? Thats weird right there.
Tell him you can’t afford it. From your comments, if your bf really can’t understand the concept of money and debt, then this is gonna become a major problem. Dude brought this up last minute because it’s not a big deal to him. It’s a big deal to you (rightfully so), and it’s astonishing that he can’t see that.
A difference in lifestyle is one thing, but a partner needs to be considerate of your situation. There’s gotta be mutual understanding, while it seems like your bf is off living in candy land.
It doesn’t sound like they’re over each other. Been there, done that. Personally, I don’t find it worth the stress.
Not over reacting because she was never sympathetic. A truly sympathetic person that wishes to resolve and save their marriage adheres to things they may not like because they strive to regain the trust they lost. You asked that she stop talking to him and let you see her phone to prove this. That's reasonable.
The Fenrir name is apt because you made a deal like Fenrir with the chains and the thing in his jaw was the relationship. You said don't talk to him and the relationship lives and she ignored that. So now the consequences are that the relationship must die or she will never respect you.
In the end she'd just grow more bold assuming you'll never leave if she just gives the water works. More then that the fact that her family would help her cheat on you is very troubling. I'd make sure they knew she was cheating and you're not just being a dick. She 100% lied the only question is do they think you're an ass keeping her from a “friend” or do they know she's cheating and think she deserves someone else? She's definitely painted you in a terrible light though.
I have suggested that this was assault to him, but he has told me he doesn’t feel it is, as they were both very drunk and he willingly went to hers after drinking together after work. However he says he thought others would be there to continue drinking (they weren’t), but he decided to stay anyway / drink more and watch Netflix together. He tells me that he doesn’t know why he made that choice.
It’s confusing for me too as he uses the word not being conscious a lot? But says he remembers her walking in naked, preforming sex acts and him feeling like he could have stopped things at any point, but staying silent and letting them happen until he realised they were wrong and leaving before the end. He even remembers her putting a condom on him apparently ?
When I originally asked him if he’d forgive me if I was the person this had happened to he said definitely not. Then changed his answer to yes later. So I’m worried the original answer was the honest one as things were more consensual than he wants me to believe? ?
Your husband has been hiding a part of his life from you. Having sexual relationship with other women (could ‘ve also been physical ) is just more than emotional.
Do you think you can still be married to him knowing all the women he was involved with?
That's fine then. In general I think you should judge him based on the kind of person he is to you. I also had stupid ideas at some point to check girl out on her social media to have easier time talking it out. Of course unless their interests are also yours it's something that would come out eventually anyway so pretending leads nowhere. On that note, you should ask him, if there are any “fake” interests and other things you don't know that remain to this day. Assuming there still are after 2 years it's really bad.
Assuming there are not and it has been cleared out before anyway, there remains only one issue. His impulses to commit sexual assault. I unfortunately can sort imagine his thought processes that has led him to this but it's obviously dangerous and should be adressed. Assuming you decide to stay with him he needs to have this brought to some psychologist and have his “urges” treated.
Of course if you feel like leaving him that's a good idea too. It's definietely a safer one.
You already showed her you have no spine and she can get away with cheating. You stay now she'll do it yet again. Grow a spine and leave.
Well oddly he is actually quite distance from me now. I suspect he is hurt that I carried on reading. I will have to think about how to rebuild his trust. I’m the healthy and safe one anymore!!!
Your focus is him and what interaction and affection you can share together. His focus is him and his interests. Either find interests of your own to occupy your time, or find a new boyfriend that shares yours.
Try it again.
I think you're half-right: You should accept that your marriage and your partner are probably not going to change. It sounds like you've shared your issues and concerns with her and her reaction hasn't given you any reason to think that she will change.
So my advice is to consider how you feel about the prospect of spending the rest of your life feeling the way your relationship makes you feel, when the alternative under consideration is not changing the relationship, but leaving it. Perhaps imagine thirty or forty years from now, looking back: Do you think you would be glad you spent your life with her, or would you wish that you sought something else? Only you can guess at the answer.
Good luck figuring out the best path for yourself. I understand it's not easy.
Thank you so much!!!???✨
“I cheated on my bf and I can’t move past my shitty choice” there I fixed your title for you. You cheated and not you project your crappy choice onto him. He didn’t cheat on you and then you contact a girl to ask questions. You are the issue
18k on porn is wild.
Yeah, you know, with the step being actually asking someone out, not offering their pp on a plate.
It sounds like she landed in love with you. That’s so much better than the alternative. It sounds like if Mark hadn’t have rejected her, and she chose him, she would have come back to the moment you asked her out a million times with deep regret for turning you down. When you’re in your 20s, you just don’t always think long-term like that. If I met my partner in my 20s, I have no idea if we would have chosen each other. In a weird way, Mark did both of you a favor.
Klinger gonna Kling
Maybe I'm old, but you have a kid with someone, and you've never seen their social media?
She’s gonna try and talk the kid into changing his name before you “both” even ask him…. I’d bet money on it.
Yeah makes sense, but we had an unrelated argument last week so i should wait right
Yes you should tell her. You should’ve told her 4 years ago.
Look, I'm not saying that he doesn't have communication issues if his reaction to problems was to bottle them up. But… He DID communicate with you. “I want to break up” IS communication. You kept clinging to a relationship that he didn't want to be a part of, and that is JUST as unhealthy.
If someone is bad at communicating and decides they want to break up, take that for the win it is and stop wasting your time with someone who won't communicate in the way that you want. There are plenty of guys out there who are willing to discuss problems as they pop up.
The feeling that you miss him is the chemical addiction you get when you're in a rollercoaster relationship of manipulation and abuse. It will wear off. It feels really weird though when you were super annoyed at a boyfriend and wanting to leave them, then you do and you feel sad about it. If you want to break up with somebody and they won't accept it, you don't have to talk to them again. You don't owe them an explanation if they're being problematic
Shy after 2 years together?
…You should practice by having sex with her. That was her way of telling you that she wants y’all to have lots of sex.
Yeah, it is 100% understandable that this would hurt, and that should be acknowledged.