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Date: October 8, 2022
No advice but 5'6 and 130 lbs is completely fine, wtf is his problem? Much smaller and you'd be skin and bones for your height. At 5'3 and 120 I looked like I hadn't eaten in a year…
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Yo I get what your saying, but I'm never asking for permission to masterbate, and neither should anyone else feel the need to.
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Look for all the people that mention she misled the OP for months. Think about it for one second, if she told OP off the bat he would left in a split second. All these months spent together gave them a chance to build a proper connection. It's a hard decision which I think only the OP can answer if he can overcome the social stigma associated with dating trans sexual. Also in the long term of not being able to have children naturally.
Thanks for letting me know I can throw things at my girlfriend and scream at her. Because apparently if I don't hit her or make her bleed then it isn't abuse ?
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I know you said you dont want to issue an ultimatum, but in the end he is always going to choose music over you if given the choice because that is his main passion in life. And it sounds like you knew that going in. If you truly love him and want to spend the rest of your life with him, you won't be truly happy if he is always chasing his dream. Because if he actually “makes it”, do you think things will get better? No, it will actually get much worse. Non stop practicing, touring, recording records, PR stunts and autograph signings, etc. He craves the admiration of millions of people around the world, not a quiet life with one woman. It's not that he doesn't love you, it's just that you two want completely different things out of life. So you can either decide that this isn't the life you want and leave, put up with it and sacrifice your happiness, or put the ball in his court and let him decide. Good luck.
If you think so less of your boyfriend you should break up
Lol give me a break, what a naive comment. People cheat ALL THE TIME and the most likely explanation is that she cheated.
I wasn't' saying you were unfair. I meant I was unfair to him to make that comment and was thanking you for pointing out how ridiculous it was through humor. 🙂
You're right though, I was his first thought. Others are pointing out that the real offense here was reading his journal to begin with and I wasn't ready for that, because now I fear my distrust is going to make the situation worse.
Ok you need to calm down. How were you flirting if you drunkenly let a man talk at you while sat and politely smiled, let him believe you were going to follow him into your room? Have you never heard the stories of women who turn down men and then the men get angry and do weird things like follow them to their hotel room? It may have been more dangerous to turn him down.
And again, if you only spoke 10% of the time, that's not a conversation. That's you being an audience to someone's monologue.
People live with their parents because economy is bad and progressively worse, but while they live with them, they make plans for the future and independence (unless of course they can't move out because of a disability or another problem). The problem I see with your boyfriend is that he doesn't have a plan… it's great that he wants to be a DJ but what is he seriously doing to get to that goal? Seems that nothing, seems like, from what you tell, he wants this to magically happen to him without putting any work into making DJ a full time job that will pay all his bills. Which means, if he doesn't pay his bills… you will, if you stay with him and you move together. If you don't want that future, then breaking up is the right thing.
No. Chores should be shared equally.
By not being clear that he doesn’t have feelings, he’s leaving her open to hope and that’s really unfair. The fact that she hangs out with you is just double yuck. She doesn’t sound like a friend and he sounds like he needs to learn healthy boundaries
I am asking him the same thing, he says I'm making a big deal out of silly things (I.e. overthinking)
When you give an inch, some people try to take a mile.
You are banking on the status quo being maintained and somehow are oblivious to the threat based on their gender.
You stand to be very surprised. Not in a good way. This is a relationship forming in front of your eyes – good friendship and sexual attraction is not just casual. Add to that being glitz bombed with big trips and well, you just amp up the problem.
Issue is she is fighting you already on it. To onlookers you are already being kind to allow this activity within your relationship, but instead of respecting that and your concerns its a stream of passive aggressive petulance.
Close the relationship immediately and request distance from this new person for the health of your relationship. I am going to guess this will trigger things that will give you a clearer picture of how casual this setup really is.
Understand that for many, feelings inevitably follow over time with the same person. Its not randoms for one night, it transitions into faux poly the more time they get together.
But what if the relationship is salvageable? I don’t want to make a mistake.
I gave birth twice, and I wouldn’t consider either traumatic.
Both were inductions at the Drs request (I’m an older mom) with a healthy baby delivered on the due date via uncomplicated vaginal delivery with an epidural.
The first I got a first degree year, the second I got a second degree tear, and I have experienced some mild incontinence after the both, that is more or less resolved now that my youngest is almost 2. I didn’t get PPD, PPA, or PPP with either of my kids. My autoimmune issues are worse (an impact of having fetal cells in your bloodstream that your immune system doesn’t quite know what to do with) so now everything sets of my eczema. But all in all fine.
I consider my birth experiences to be relatively easy in the scheme of things. But there were times during both where I felt undermined, not listened to and scared. The first time I had my mucous plug cleared without permission or even warning (ow!), I was lectured for having my induction take too long (as if this was my fault) by the same nurse who kept forgetting to bring me things I asked for. The first contraction after my water broke was like being hit by a train, so I asked for an epidural immediately, because so didn’t want to miss my window. I vomited about a dozen times and very nearly had an emergency c section because the pit protocol made my contractions so strong once they got going that my girl’s heart rate kept dropping. If I hadn’t gotten an epidural, I would’ve had to have the c-section, because of how much they had to position me to reduce the impact of the contractions on my kiddo.
Knowing that pit would take awhile for me but then come on way too strong, for time 2, I discussed the pit protocol at length with 2 shifts of nurses, and gave explicit instructions to not raise it too fast. There was a shift change while I was asleep, my husband was out of the room and the new nurses reverted to the standard protocol without checking the notes. So I woke up and the pit was much higher than I had authorized, and frankly that made me feel pretty unsafe. I knew they weren’t trying to ignore me, but I was vulnerable, and my needs weren’t being respected. The fact that I had an epidural almost certainly contributed to increased tearing the second time, since I couldn’t really feel how hard I was pushing. No regrets, but it’s the truth.
I don’t feel traumatized by either experience. But I am incensed at the idea that things like what I went through is so normal it barely registers. I notice that you have mixed memories about your own birth experiences. Birth is a pretty big deal, and I imagine that as a teen mom, you knew even less about what you wanted or what to expect, or how get the support you needed than you did later on.
Which brings me to the essential point: I don’t think it helps the laboring woman for her support network to get lackadaisical about what her needs might be.
The OP in this post is considering leaving her 8 months pregnant wife with a huge gap in her support network right as she is going into this process. I think that’s cruel. Whatever else either of their decision-making has been.
I’ve heard plenty of gnarly birth stories, but not one that made me think that the mother was focusing so much on her birth experience, it was preventing her from seeing her child as a miracle. On the other hand, when women feel unsupported in the perinatal process, they are at much higher risk of mental health issues such as PPD, which, in turn, can interfere with the bonding process. When we talk to support people who don’t know what they are in for, we have to let them know how essential it is that they have their priorities straight.
Okay so everyone's hitting the nail on the head regarding your “friend”. It's obvious she's crazy posessive of him, I don't need to get into that when everyone else already did.
But here's the thing… what about HIM?
If she makes him so uncomfortable, supposedly, why is he allowing this to continue?
Does he have trouble setting boundaries with other people too, or is it just her?
Is he enjoying this while making a show of avoiding it?
You do NOT have to give blow jobs to ANYBODY EVER.
He should NOT be pressuring YOU to do that for him.
BUT….if he needs blowjobs in his sex life, that is 100% valid. And he SHOUD be breaking up with you so that he can find someone he is sexually compatible with.
If he ever pressures you or mopes around about this again, I highly suggest just breaking up. You both will be happier in the long run with finding better sexual matches.
I know it’s hard when you feel everything else is “perfect”. But sexual compatibility is just as important as all of the other obvious major dealbreakers.
Here's a bit of science. The prefrontal cortex is still developing, and finishes roughly around 25. Thus, the quarter life crisis. It's as if everything snaps into place, and you have the desire to know yourself without the influence of parents etc. You literally start to become your own person. The less freedom you have during the first quarter, the more intense the need for discovery. If you have freedom to discover who you are while being raised( within reason ), you tend to have a less rude awakening. I'm sorry this is happening, but take comfort in how she wants to know what she needs her life to look like. Can you imagine someone playing a role, just to make others' happy? It would lead to resentment and relationship chaos later on, impacting the family dynamics that you both built.
You need therapy before you finish setting your own relationship on fire. You’re going to keep finding ways to let your insecurities sabotage the two of you if you don’t address the root issue.
I get the feeling he assumed they were solid on the kids front, despite only having one conversation about it very early in the relationship. He checked that box very early on, so 5 years later when he realizes that box was never checked… blamed it on her lying/manipulating rather than on himself for not making sure that box was filled in.
5 shots in 5 hours wouldn’t even get me drunk and i’m 120 pounds and a major light weight. it’s totally possible she was drugged. even the person examining her said her injuries were in line with SA. i would listen to the experts, not the reddit investigators…..
I don't actually prefer a more thrilling relationship. I'm happy in this one. He's sweet and smart and funny. I'm just really unsure of my emotions.
If it helps I've been off my anti depressants for a while and think that might genuinely be affecting my feelings right now.
At first, I was very resistant to it. Only because it's in my nature to want to fix things. But as I've come to terms with it that there might be a chance, this has been my take as well.
You went to high school with her, so you have a direct connection there. Has anyone in the group tried asking her what her bloody problem is? Beyond that all you can really do is enforce some boundaries like kicking both of them out of the group as long as this relationship stands.