You need a spanking, kiddo. Not by a good looking 30+ woman, but I dunno, a hairy grandpa or something. What a disrespectful lil' nugget you are. May your soup be lukewarm at best during cold winter days.
You don't get what you want out of this relationship. Will it hurt him when you end your arrangement? Possibly, but he'll be fine. And so will you. Stop doing things that don't make you happy in order to keep others happy.
Part of learning how to navigate adult relationships is knowing you can't be with someone just because you love them. Love doesn't stop someone from abusing your trust.
This goes with friends and family, too.
They need to be a positive influence in your life. They need to add value to your life and uplift you in at least a similar way you uplift them, or show appropriate appreciation for your devotion.
Everything you two have is founded by a resolved liar. He proved it by with-holding the choice to stay or leave from you until his conscience couldn't carry it anymore.
Even if there are a million lovable things about him, he has shown you that your trust, your loyalty, and your relationship are disposable to him.
If it wasn't, he'd be mortified at the idea of risking losing you, the same way you are mortified at the prospect of having to give him up.
You need a spanking, kiddo. Not by a good looking 30+ woman, but I dunno, a hairy grandpa or something. What a disrespectful lil' nugget you are. May your soup be lukewarm at best during cold winter days.
By reading the posts and her comments.
Wow, this sounds a lot like an episode of Dateline I watched recently.
Yes, you should leave him. He abandoned you in a different country and openly admitted to sleeping with other women.
If this was your daughter what advice would you give her? Your actions will stand as a lesson for your girls so think carefully about that as well.
While you are at it take him to the cleaners for his behavior.
You don't get what you want out of this relationship. Will it hurt him when you end your arrangement? Possibly, but he'll be fine. And so will you. Stop doing things that don't make you happy in order to keep others happy.
You pissed by accident? And he can't get past that? Has to be more than that..
Part of learning how to navigate adult relationships is knowing you can't be with someone just because you love them. Love doesn't stop someone from abusing your trust.
This goes with friends and family, too.
They need to be a positive influence in your life. They need to add value to your life and uplift you in at least a similar way you uplift them, or show appropriate appreciation for your devotion.
Everything you two have is founded by a resolved liar. He proved it by with-holding the choice to stay or leave from you until his conscience couldn't carry it anymore.
Even if there are a million lovable things about him, he has shown you that your trust, your loyalty, and your relationship are disposable to him.
If it wasn't, he'd be mortified at the idea of risking losing you, the same way you are mortified at the prospect of having to give him up.
Narcissist gets thrown around a lot here but DAMN