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You are literally giving him permission every single time, you need to fucking TALK TO HIM
Absolutely. Knowing how using such an app will be perceived while in a relationship I would definitely let my spouse know in advance if I was going that route to make some friends.
Want better advice? Put the wedding on hold until your boyfriend shows you he is putting you first.
And that will take time, I bet you will find out he isn't willing to put in the time.
Letting this go to this point was his fault,why should you be the one to fix it?
I was going to say you were a little paranoid, but that whole part where you reached out to this woman and she said they have a strong connection and that won’t change has changed my opinion.
I have male coworkers that I am close friends with and spend a lot time with outside of work. If one of their significant others ever told me they were uncomfortable with our friendship, I would 100% back off and do everything I could to reassure them nothing was going on. Why? Because they are my friend and I wouldn’t want to ruin their relationship. The fact that this lady did not do that, but instead doubled down tells me what her intentions are.
I think you need to express to your husband, again, that you aren’t comfortable with their friendship, especially her side of the friendship. That he needs to try to move back towards just being friendly colleagues instead of friends & colleagues.
Good luck and congratulations on your pregnancy!
Ha ha I don’t know about dump her but this is my favorite comment
I don't like when other people make decisions for me. I would appreciate it more if you told me that you've noticed your relatives are rude and if I would prefer not to go with you, I don't have to.
If you don't want him to come because it preserves your mental well-being, that's different. But if this is something you want to do for him, seems like what he's willing to tolerate from your relatives should be his choice, not yours.
This is the dumbest idea.
She can tell you whatever she thinks you want to hear, then absolutely come after you for child support if she wanted.
And, you're only 24. 10-15 years from now you could be married to the love of your life and planning a real family. I doubt potential future wife is gonna appreciate some random kid in the picture because you have some biological urge to spread your seed. And yeah, that's what I am gonna call it because you don't even care about raising the kid. You just want some of your DNA walking around.
But if those material things still don't make it the right time for HIM, mentally and emotionally, then the time is not right for him. It takes more than having external factors in place, and maybe it will just never be the right time for him to want to be a parent. The unfortunate fact here is that you may end up parting ways because neither of you should compromise on such a fundamental, huge decision just to satisfy the other. You each deserve the future you choose, but it may not be possible for that to be together.
since you're dating this girl and you trust her so much
you are fine
I look forward to many updates in the future
It's definitely something you should consider getting therapy for, to help you unpick why you feel the need to be this way towards people. But you should definitely bite back on those comments you feel the desire to make them.
Yeah been in therapy a long time. I think thats kind of the reason why i voice these things now cause previously id let them stew and because i never got the reassurance i needed because no ones a mind reader id get upset, or id just shutdown so this is my way of keeping dialog open so i dont do the hot, cold, silent treatment, walking on eggshells shit.
I think its happening alot right now cause we are in the beginning stages and my anxiety about meeting is high. I do assume il reduce once we see each other again, but i do have insecurities so ill will prob keep sharing them.
what makes you think that you won't be the new soon-to-be Ex-Wife when he's found his next girlfriend?
This can't be real.
Please tell me it's not real.
Lie to me if you have to.
I’ve been blanket rejected by the occasional guy without going out but I’ve never been rejected by someone I actually had a strong connection and excellent date with. He also reached back out to remind me. Just not handling it well.
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You can also choose Brit Shalom and many consider them Jewish. Last time I visit a synagogue no one wanted to look in my pants.
Same for me. Turns out OP is aromatic. Parsley ? Garlic ? Chives ? We need more details.
Okay if you are doing it for you then by all means. But if it was because he is a selfish prick who won't wear condoms then that is not a reason to do it.
So why are you still having sex with him? Doesn’t sound like a good sexual partner for you.
I dont think we are incompatible, just that we both suck at making financial decisions, but we are trying to come out of the hole together.
Just tell her exactly what she told you here. You’re half of the picture, you have a right to decide where they go. If she’s a good girlfriend, she’ll understand.
I’m bet you do have a healthy sex drive, I just think you have a shitty husband who has made sex a chore, a guilt trip and a something to be tolerated lest you say no because you’re not in the mood. Your relationship is not healthy. Speaking from someone who has been there/done that, it won’t get better. The age difference alone is … well, enough people here have said enough about that, including you.
What a creep. A total, disgusting creep.
Don't buy a house with a man you are not married to. Don't marry a man like this.
Ok then you two get into couples counselling to deal with them.
This is so weird OP I’m sorry that you ran into a person like this. Personally, I understand being anxious about meeting someone but I do not understand this complete failure to communicate like an adult. I’m the same age as you both. If she’s this age & can’t communicate any better than this, I’m just not sure it’s really worth your time. What arguments & emotional energy sinks are in your future if all this transpired over a simple coffee date?
You are funny the sister is not a copy cat if you ignore half the post! What a thoughtless response Op has clearly laid out a strong case which you have tried to dismantle by using 3 points and claiming that it is normal. The issue between op and her sister is cumulative and is the sum of many such incidents not just the ones listed here.
I'm with you on this..
I can handle a beer or two mate
And that's good, but there's very little substantive information in your post. It's not at all unreasonable for someone to ask you clarifying questions to learn more about your drinking. All we know from your post is you like to have a couple beers with friends after work some days. That doesn't tell us anything about whether your behavior is adversely affected after doing so, and if so, how.
If you're consistently getting sloppy drunk or she has to pick you up frequently, or you're driving drunk or picking fights with her after drinking, that's obviously not acceptable. But no one is able to tell from the post itself.
If you're having a good time with friends and you're not risking your safety or anyone else's, and you're not getting intoxicated to the point she has to consistently take care of you or you're neglecting your relationship or being rude to her, then you two may simply not be compatible in terms of views on alcohol. And that's fine.
The other commenter has a point. There is a vast difference between alcohol use and clothing choice. One has the potential to affect your safety and others', and clothing choice may make your partner uncomfortable but is not a possible safety concern.
You're an ATM, most men aren't paying their partners bills, they literally couldn't afford to if they wanted to, and you do it WHILE treating her the way she should be treated. It's quite possible that she needs you and is willing to do things she doesn't want to do, to fulfill those needs through you, especially since it puts her in a position of power.
You can go for it, she could be using TF out of you, and not really care about you at all. If she did care, she wouldn't have gotten upset about you being honest when she asked you what you wanted during sex.
I’m turning 40 soon and the idea of being this dependent on another person at my age is so humiliating I can’t even think about it, much less reduce myself to feeling entitled to it. And Jesus Christ if someone asked me NOT TO, you bet I would NEVER.
Maybe introduce toys, ones that vibrate are usually pleasurable for both people involved.
Honestly I’m processing as I’m commenting. I had codependent tendencies from the beginning towards the middle of the relationship so I think my willingness to give has made him believe that certain mindsets/behaviors are acceptable. It was when I took a step back to work on my codependent tendencies that the relationship got bad so I had to breakup with him. I’m definitely not ready for a relationship, at least with him. But I’m definitely taking a break.
Sounds like good advice. Let’s say she calls me or messages me demanding answers, do I ignore her? Or if my fiancés family and friends bring her up in conversation, do I just say it was my fiancés decision?
This is WWAAYYY to much drama after 4 months.
Scratch that. WAAYYY too much drama, PERIOD.
End it.
Maybe you should tell her that if she loved you, she would want you to be happy, and to continue to maintain your friendships outside of your relationship with her.
Her ultimatums are very immature, and if you fold this time, how many other times is she guna use this type of manipulation to control your life?
His dick is dirty, he's making you smell bad and he's blaming it on you
He didn't just slap him, he had ALREADY broken his nose. If a broken nose didn't instill the message, a broken arm wasn't going to do it.
Same. Great comment, but I don’t see where “womanizer” fits.
Thank you for youd reply. I really appreciate it, it means alot. Can't stress this enough
Ew wtf is wrong with him? He's very arrogant to just assume none of his actions were wrong and you wouldn't be mad.
It's like he only told you, just so you wouldn't question him tagging a girl and talking to her. He's sneaky.
Honestly can you even salvage the relationship at this point? If you stay with him that's just telling him it's ok to do that and you're a doormat.
…the fastest growing cancers in men now are cancers of the mouth, tongue and throat. One of the HPVs is implicated in this. This has changed my behavior.
Yes.
Yes you are an idiot.
He will never change. He will cheat on you just like he has cheated on everyone else.
Are you sure you are not the side piece?
Is he actually rich and can support the lifestyle for you and your daughter which he is implying?
Also possible.
Don’t open it up if you don’t want to. Talk with her about your feelings and that the relationship will never be the same afterwards.
If she doesn’t like it – end it. You’ll see that it’s going to be a good decision.
It is not normal, you should not live with it, and you should break up with your boyfriend so he can find someone who wants to have sex with him.
Wish i had an answer for you. He’d never see my pussy ever again in life
I don’t think they meant that. I took it to mean not dealing with complicated family relationships including children. Or dealing with such intense pain caused by “love”. I know some people (including me) see these young years as needing to be as stress free as possible. When you learn about yourself and have fun. But of course no one, of any age, should put up with a guy like him.
Children should have autonomy appropriate for their age. Not every decision needs to be made for them. It's not about being a “cool parent,” it's about not removing the child's choice for them.
Obviously in situations where it is unsafe, or if the child is too young to make a decision, the parent needs to make a decision for them. But most children over the age of 8 have an opinion on their relationships with parents and other relatives. When they become teenagers or adults, they can become very resentful for having that decision taken from them.
I do not blame her. I just wish she would try to be less involved in our relationship and push her point of view onto it. I also understand he’s an adult and if he’s easily swayed by something someone says then it’s a ?
This. Also take the card back. Why does she have your card?
I had to tell both of my parents (separately) when 1 of their parents died. My mom was devastated. My dad said that's for the beat (after a long illness). It was very hard.
Is there a different family member who can relay this information when the time comes? This could allow you to feel your grief without having to feel like you have to manage her feelings about it.
Staying neutral is difficult to say the least but trying to find an intermediary will help you so that you don't have to be exposed to her feelings.
Hmm yea that might be .
Oh, it's often used here. Or bang-nanny, if they have kids.
To quote one of my fav movies: it's not your job to make him feel like a man.
…so Marijuana/THC is legal in your location. Gotcha.
i'm so sorry 🙁 kind of sounds like you need to break up, but i think you know that already.
I think the point is could you have a little less savings today and get some help right now so that you are not miserable? I'm not saying blow your entire retirement on a nanny, but could you adjust a few things to hire a babysitter one night a week for 7 weeks so you can play golf?
I know plenty of people who suffered for years so they could have this amazing retirement. They pinched pennies, ate ramen, and never spent anything because they were going to retire in style. It was going to be amazing. And then, right when they retired, they had a heart attack and died. So what did they get in the long run? A miserable, awful, unhappy life. And that's it. There was no magic happiness at the end. Do you think if they knew that's how it would end, they would have lived like that? I'm guessing no. You deserve joy. Life is already hard. Please don't make it harder for a tentative future. Take a tiny bit for today. Your husband is with his bowling, so you can, too.